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October 16, 2009

Gifts are the link with your neighbors, your parents, your relatives. If you can't keep that link, you are not a human being. --Djingarey Maiga

Mali's Gift Economy:
Sometimes, we get the most from giving without receiving. In Mali, villagers have embraced this idea for centuries in their vibrant gift economy, called 'dama'. It encourages Malians to maintain social connections with family, friends, and complete strangers, by providing goods and services with no expectation of a return gift. Instead, the villagers understand that a gift will be "paid forward," and that the individual sacrifice will make the community as a whole stronger and better connected. In a nation where the government provides minimal services, Mali's dama protects the poor and the sick, helping those ignored by a traditional economy. Read more about the success of this gift economy. [more]

Be The Change:
Give a gift to a stranger without expecting anything in return.


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On Oct 16, 2009 larry writes:

this is one of the most enjoyable of all experiences. To create a compassion within another - to make them understand that just be cause they exist they have value - we all do and yet many, at certain times during their life, do not realize this value - they perceive little to no self worth.

I ride motorcycles, get grundgy and often look like an individual with whom few would want to associate. One such evening, as I was coming home, i stopped at a large local reatail store to grab a few groceries and get ready for work the next day. While in line, I noticed an elderly gentlemen behind me in line.

this man had a realtively meager amount of groceries and I noticed he was rummaging through a small coin bag counting as my purchase was being totaled. As I loaded my bags into my cart to leave, there was a feeling or intuition that I should remain and observe the drama as it was unfolding.

this man, watching as his total escalated, seemed to become increasinly saddened. as the total of his purchase became more than he had, he asked the cashier to put some things back. This is the moment that i injected myself into the situation. I have a tendency to stay in the shadows and avoid getting involved, for one reason or another, but in this case I told the cashier to ring up everything the gentleman desired, and that I would pay for it. The man said, and I quote "you can't do that" as he grabbed my left wrist. I looked at him and simply said - "right now, fortunately I CAN".

Tears welled up in his eyes and he asked me if I were an angel - my only reply was that i was confident he was much closer than I to being an angel. I paid the cashier and left.

really a wonderful evening - for once, my mother would have been proud of me...

 
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