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We are seperated by that knowing.
What is OUR story? Humanity? HumanKindness?
Time for an edit.
In listening to the story or telling it again and again, I become aware of how authentic I am in expressing myself. I also become aware how healthy or unhealthy I am as a human person, family, tribe, culture, society.Storis can purify us.
as i type thru tear laden eyes ..tears you are blessed to recieve when a life truth is so beatuifully acknowledged. i myself too have been guitly of "single storyism". i just did it the other day i was at the laundry mat i had went to do my sons laundry and a bunch of blankets as althou i am blessed enough to have a washing machine it is old and i was afraid all the extra work might be the end of it ..Anyways it was a pretty uneventful visit ..made polite conversation with another lady and left while the clothes dried ..upon my return a group of kids ages i'd say between 13-16 came bustling thru the door being late fall it is cold here in the evenings.. so my intial thought was they had come into warm up some before continuing on their way .. well i was there for another 15 mins and they showed no intention of leaving and was ready to head home however the other lady was still waiting for the dryer .. one kid took out a pack of cigarettes and they all went outside and around the corner ..
Here's were i was guilty .. i asked the woman if she would like me to stay till her clothes were dry ? as although im sure it would be fine but you never know nowadays with kids ... she looked at me and smiled a beautiful smile and said i come here all the time at night its fine ...
Misjudgement #2 on my behalf ...
First i had let my perception of those youths be fearbased/negative based one what i hear see and read through media .. even full well knowing that they are "Single Stories" in that moment my fear induced by my impressions formed thru the info i have gleaned over my lifetime...my fear/ignorance appeared ..almost a second nature if you wish ...but obviously ,reflecting ..maybe they were all there for different reason ..they all have individual stories ..maybe homelife isnt so great maybe they were just cold ?
Second... was my assumption that woman was in fear with me and i had to offer assistance perpetuating a feeling that had not even occured yet based on my fearful/mislead preconception.. and when she smiled her serene smile as a left ... i was brought sharply back to focus and said ... of course it will be im being silly, have a great night ...
i walked to me car and those kids looked at me ...i smiled .. and guess what they all smiled back ..the one lil lady even waved ... I thank you Chimamanda for so eloquently addressing and identifying this with your amazing words ... thank you beautiful lady :)