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Empathy vs. Sympathy

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Empathy and sympathy are not just two different approaches to confronting the emotional challenges of others; they are diametrically opposite responses in many important ways. Sympathy places another's problems at a distance from us, places us in a position of superiority, and "drives separation", says the film's narrator, Dr. Brené Brown. Empathy, on the other hand, requires that one internalize the feelings of another. That shared experience drives interpersonal connection, she says. "What makes things better is connection."
Be The Change
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Dr. Brown studies the ways we make personal connections with each other. Watch her TED talks on "The Power of Vulnerability" and "Listening to Shame."
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Consider the notion that we are hard-wired for empathy.
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The next time you find yourself feeling sorry for someone, try to shift your reaction from sympathy to empathy. Ask yourself: how are they feeling and when have I felt this way also?
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Reflections (133)

cliff garbow
What inspired you about this video? the definition between Empathy and Sympathy
cliff garbow
clairification bewteen Empathy and Symo[pathy
Raymond Jim
Be able listen to problem, encourage them move forward with life.
Tina
It was a good reminder that sometimes a person might just want to be heard when they are upset and not be looking for a solution.
Lia
OK, no more trying to fix the problem for someone. Just listen and love them.
Justine Peralto
What inspired you about this video?

Sometimes just being there for someone, in the moment really helps and that's what they need
Bianca Atilano
This video is a reminder that all people are always enough, they might just need direction,
to have someone as a sounding board, this is why I vote more for Empathy. we want to help
but never take away their joy away to say "I did it myself"

Suraya
Try to make things better I think Being able to understand and share the feelings of others is important.
Julie
Listen and be with them in their space don't try to one up them. Saying "at least" takes away from their feelings and experience, because someone's else's experience was worse.
Jesse W. Fisher III
All Brand New Things, I've not known nor gave a clear thought.
Christian Fuentes
The video emphasized the importance of genuine connection and the impact it can have on the other person.
Carrie Imus
reminder to understand, not judge and to sometimes say "i don't know what to say".
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