Years ago, I made a midlife decision to fulfill an early dream of acting in theatre. There I learned instantly all about criticism and feedback. Every rehearsal was filled with it. It taught me not to take things personally, that there was a bigger picture than my own tiny sliver of perspective on life. I wasn't aiming for Broadway, but the lessons I learned about taking criticism have enriched me beyond measure. These days, I call the ability to give and receive criticism, the same as being "grown up". Having to confront people whose ego is fragile can be a challenge, and finding a loving and gentle way to convey important information can be tricky. If a message is unwelcome, the messenger tends to get shot, as I've learned. So, deliver and receive as gently as possible, but deliver anyway.
On Aug 19, 2011 Caroline McKinnon wrote:
Years ago, I made a midlife decision to fulfill an early dream of acting in theatre. There I learned instantly all about criticism and feedback. Every rehearsal was filled with it. It taught me not to take things personally, that there was a bigger picture than my own tiny sliver of perspective on life. I wasn't aiming for Broadway, but the lessons I learned about taking criticism have enriched me beyond measure. These days, I call the ability to give and receive criticism, the same as being "grown up". Having to confront people whose ego is fragile can be a challenge, and finding a loving and gentle way to convey important information can be tricky. If a message is unwelcome, the messenger tends to get shot, as I've learned. So, deliver and receive as gently as possible, but deliver anyway.