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Oct 18, 2016

"You are not a drop in the ocean. You are the entire ocean in a drop." --Rumi

Leadership & Authentic Self Esteem

"There was a time when we believed self-esteem to be the royal road to flourishing...However, later studies showed that increases in self-esteem did little for our happiness or performance, but ample for our egos. Professor Roy Baumeister's work with self-esteem showed that we'd been raising a generation of narcissists who went on to wreck havoc in their lives and in their workplaces. It now appears that we'd been building the wrong kind of self-esteem -- the kind that is contingent on external factors such as social approval, success or attractiveness...However, authentic self-esteem is different. It's a feeling of worth in our abilities and qualities. As such, its not conditional upon external evaluations -- instead its an inner security that provides us with the courage to step out into the world and do the right thing...This is especially important for leaders of today."

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What is one inner quality that you value about yourself? Spend some time appreciating and honoring that quality and how it gives you strength and shapes who you are.



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