Wow, the last 3 years I have been in a pause and reflect place. It took a day of discovery of betrayal in marriage of 37 years. A SHATTERING of identity on various levels and left with mixed emotions aka grieving following the realization of being in a transactional relationship and having been abandoned because of failure to deliver unspoken expectations of my spouse. Still together and wondering can there be an US or a relational being together beyond transactional. This article can help on many levels. How AI did extort something from my marriage making an addiction fed a way of soothing the chaos, the messy, of living by extorting from other women - sex without my consent or knowledge for most of his life even before me. How is it possible to imagine reconciliation in our solidarity as creatures aka human among all the rest of creation. This is me just meandering in sharing of top of my head. Thanks for the.article and prompts.
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