Kristin, I appreciate your willingness to share on such a sensitive subject as changing the world, one step at a time. (You wrote, "Tom, it's going slowly, but it's going." et sequelae) You write as if all love were the same: it's not all the same. For just one example, think about love of tomato soup - my favorite - and of my wife. If your gorge rises up at that comparison, it's an indication of the truth of my assertion: you do a disservice to "love" by treating them all the same. That's my collaboration. Slam - now the ball's back in your court!