멜라라뇨: 왜냐하면 이런 상황에 처한 사람들 대부분은 트라우마를 겪었기 때문입니다.
반 데르 콜크: 물론이죠. 감옥에 있는 사람 중에 트라우마를 겪지 않은 사람이 있나요? 캘리포니아 수감자의 80%는 위탁 가정에서 생활한 경험이 있습니다. 그들은 원치 않는 존재였고 안정적인 보호자가 없었죠. 이런 심각한 문제들이 계속해서 간과되고 있습니다. 약물 중독은 아동 학대의 결과입니다. 아동 학대 없이도 약물 중독자가 될 수는 있지만, 매우 어렵습니다.
멜라라뇨: 그 정도면 국립정신건강연구소에서 당신의 신경피드백 연구에 자금을 지원하기에 충분할 거라고 생각합니다. 이 대화를 마무리하는 건 쉽지 않지만, 개인, 공동체, 그리고 국가의 트라우마 치유를 위해 우리가 할 수 있는 일이 얼마나 더 많은지 깨닫는 것이 중요합니다. 독자 여러분도 저처럼 이 대화를 즐겁게 읽으셨기를 바랍니다. 반 데르 콜크 박사님, 감사합니다.
반 데르 콜크: 감사합니다.
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I'm so amazed they went through that whole interview without saying "PTSD". That's probably a good thing?- in order to help us to view trauma in a way that we can deal with it. IDK. I've been through a lot of trauma myself. I'd like to see an article on Daily Good regarding self-inflicted trauma, why we do it to ourselves and how to end those behaviors.
Thank you so much for sharing Dr. Besser van Der Kolk's important work. Much of the work I do currently in storytelling focuses on how We become the stories we tell. The first phase is the stories we tell ourselves about ourselves. These stories impact how we view ourselves, interact with others and navigate through challenges and situations. If we were traumatized, these stories in our heads often prevent us from being able to interact in a healthy way or even to allow ourselves to push through a challenge without being re-traumatized. The good news is, we are the author of our own story and with tools and techniques we can re-frame our narrative and tell a different more healthy story. I love doing this work and am grateful for your article re-confirming the power of story! <3
I love also Arthur Janov http://www.arthurjanov.com/, http://www.arthurjanov.com
Thank you for this excellent introduction to Bessel van Der Kolk's work (and to others in the trauma field, like the South African experience, Joan Borysenko, tapping, Shakespeare for prisoners, etc.) So much excellent work is being done to help us notice and know ourselves more wholly. I appreciate the non-theist approach for those who have had traumatic experiences with people who use God-talk.
I would humbly add that the "life force" we are tapping into in healing is none other than the Lover of our very souls, Divine LOVE (God by any name we choose). }:- ❤️
thanks good information