梅拉拉尼奥:因为大多数身处这种境地的人都是因为遭受了创伤。
范德科尔克:没错,你给我找个监狱里没受过创伤的人看看。加州80%的囚犯都曾在寄养系统中待过。他们不被需要,也没有稳定的监护人。这些都是非常重要的问题,却一直被忽视。毒瘾与童年虐待密切相关。虽然没有童年虐待也可能染上毒瘾,但这非常罕见。
梅拉拉尼奥:我认为仅凭这一点就足以让美国国家心理健康研究所资助您的神经反馈研究了。这次谈话很难结束,但重要的是要意识到,我们还可以做很多事情来帮助个人、社区和国家从创伤中恢复。我希望我们的读者也能像我一样喜欢这篇文章。谢谢您,范德科尔克博士。
范德科尔克:谢谢。
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I'm so amazed they went through that whole interview without saying "PTSD". That's probably a good thing?- in order to help us to view trauma in a way that we can deal with it. IDK. I've been through a lot of trauma myself. I'd like to see an article on Daily Good regarding self-inflicted trauma, why we do it to ourselves and how to end those behaviors.
Thank you so much for sharing Dr. Besser van Der Kolk's important work. Much of the work I do currently in storytelling focuses on how We become the stories we tell. The first phase is the stories we tell ourselves about ourselves. These stories impact how we view ourselves, interact with others and navigate through challenges and situations. If we were traumatized, these stories in our heads often prevent us from being able to interact in a healthy way or even to allow ourselves to push through a challenge without being re-traumatized. The good news is, we are the author of our own story and with tools and techniques we can re-frame our narrative and tell a different more healthy story. I love doing this work and am grateful for your article re-confirming the power of story! <3
I love also Arthur Janov http://www.arthurjanov.com/, http://www.arthurjanov.com
Thank you for this excellent introduction to Bessel van Der Kolk's work (and to others in the trauma field, like the South African experience, Joan Borysenko, tapping, Shakespeare for prisoners, etc.) So much excellent work is being done to help us notice and know ourselves more wholly. I appreciate the non-theist approach for those who have had traumatic experiences with people who use God-talk.
I would humbly add that the "life force" we are tapping into in healing is none other than the Lover of our very souls, Divine LOVE (God by any name we choose). }:- ❤️
thanks good information