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A 15-yr-old Dog's Gift to a Grieving Man

As founder of The Great Animal Rescue Chase, I have the pleasure of meeting hundreds of incredible heroes, but this one caught me off guard.  Your hair will stand on end as you read the story of this man and this dog who picked one another up time and time again.  Be sure to look for the link at the end of the story to see more photos.  May we all one day have the chance to love this deeply….

 

By Don Hill of Georgia 

I was in Augusta, Georgia where I had been for several weeks cleaning out my mother’s home following her recent death as a result of numerous health issues and complications.  On this Sunday, my final day there, as I was just about an hour from leaving to return to the foothills of the northeast Georgia mountains and my five rescue dogs almost four hours away,   I walked out into the front yard to take one last look at the home of my parents and I saw in the front yard what appeared to be a very old dog that was in obvious distress.  He would walk in a semi-circle, then fall to the ground, then struggle back to his feet and do it again. I saw him do this same thing at least three times as I walked over to him.

This was to be by far my easiest rescue because this poor old boy was in no shape to run from me, but also the most heartbreaking. This sad, unneutered male was in just the worst shape of any dog I had ever seen in my many years in animal rescue. He was emaciated, dehydrated, his right eye was swollen shut and draining puss, both ears were severely infected and draining as well, his body was covered with open sores, he was infested with fleas and his front nails were almost four inches long.   All his teeth were worn down level with his gums, I assume from years of chewing at a cable or chain used to confine him and the pads on his feet were extremely worn and cut.

When he saw my shadow he flinched and fell to the ground as if he were about to be beaten

As I got close to him, he didn’t appear to hear me approaching but when he saw my shadow, he flinched and fell to the ground as if he were about to be beaten and he cowered. I sat on the grass with him and stroked him and talked softly to him until he stopped cowering, trying to assure him that no one was ever going to hurt him again and that his suffering was going to end.  I wanted to show him that he had nothing to fear from me.

I estimated his age at 10 plus; the vet that treated him later determined he was close to 15. I picked him up in my arms and carried him into the carport where I had a small utility trailer packed with things from my mother’s house I was taking with me.   There was some dry dog food and some stainless steel dog bowls in one of the boxes as well as some old blankets and towels so I made him a bed then put him on it as I mixed some of the dry food with water to soften it, knowing he would have a hard time eating it otherwise with his teeth in the condition they were in.  For several hours I gave him food and water in small quantities due to his condition, not wanting him to eat or drink too much too fast but trying to build his strength some and get him home where the following morning I could take him to my vet and end his suffering humanely.

Bringing Roadie home – he laid his head across my thigh

Leaving him was never an option once I had found him. I made him a bed on the front seat of my Jeep, picked him up and laid him on it.  I hitched up the utility trailer and began the drive home wondering if this now soundly sleeping old boy would make it back to the farm. Just a few miles down the road, he lifted his head and looked at me with the one big brown eye he could open as if to say thank you, then laid that head across my right thigh where it stayed the entire ride home and he went back to sleep.

He made it back to the farm with me where I bedded him down comfortably in an empty stall in the barn, wanting to keep him isolated from the other dogs there until I could take him to the vet’s office first thing the next morning.  I carried him into the vet’s office and laid him on the examination room table, fully expecting to allow the vet to send this poor sweet old man on to a better place.  He opened his one good eye and reached out and touched me with his paw and I knew right then and there that this poor old boy was going to break my heart.

The veterinary exam.  What would they find?

My vet examined him and when he was done he told me that the ear infections were the worst he had ever seen and he was almost positive this old guy was totally deaf as a result.   We discussed all the heath issues and he asked me what I wanted to do. He told me that right now he couldn’t see anything wrong that couldn’t be treated and that he felt the dog could fully recover without too much stress or pain and have a good quality of life but he warned me that because of his advanced age, even if we decided to treat all his issues, this old boy may only have six months or maybe a year left and it was up to me.   He saw me hesitate as I looked down on this poor old man I had found and then he said “Let’s test him for heartworm.  He’s way too old to go through treatment. Let’s see if he’s positive or not and then you can decide.” I said okay.  I had named him “Roadie” because that day I found him it was obvious he had been on the road a while.

As I waited for the results of the heartworm test, I was trying to figure out where I was going to get the money to treat all his other problems should he be heartworm negative. I picked up my cell phone and called a close friend of mine who  wishes to remain anonymous.  He had founded a disaster response animal rescue group in the wake of Hurricane Katrina called Kat 5 Animal Rescue.  I told him everything about Roadie and he said he would help me with the expenses to treat Roadie if the vet and I determined he could be restored to a good quality of life.

Free of heartworm, Roadie wants to live

My vet came back in and said “Roadie has a lot of problems right now but heartworm isn’t one of them.”  He obviously knew I was concerned about the costs involved and he told me if I wanted to treat this sweet old man he would give me every possible discount. I asked him to leave me alone with Roadie for a few minutes so I could try to make the right decision.  As I stood there stroking Roadie’s matted dirty coat, I realized that he had been put in my path for a reason and be it only six months or maybe a year, I was going to do everything in my power to show this old man who had suffered a lifetime of neglect and abuse that somebody loved him and cared about him before he left this world — full well knowing that when that time came, I would be crushed with grief.

So Roadie was going to be treated.  He stayed at the vet’s office for five days where he was put on IV fluids and antibiotics, his flea infestation was dealt with, his draining infected ears were cleaned, and he was given a medicated bath.  All of his issues were addressed and it took almost two months, but he recovered fully.

The best months of his life…even playing ball at his old age

Roadie lived on the farm with me and my other dogs and the horses for seven months happy and full of life .  He played with his favorite ball and slept in my bed every night until that morning I had been dreading came. I awoke that Friday to take Roadie and the other kids out but he couldn’t get up and stand on his feet and I thought well he is just having a bad day, so I helped to his feet and outside to do his business and continued to do so over the weekend.  By Monday, his legs couldn’t support his weight even with my assistance, so just as I had seven months earlier, I carried him into my vet’s office and my vet told me it was time.  I held him in my arms and cried as Roadie left this world, but as he looked at me just before the lights went out behind those big beautiful brown eyes, I knew in my heart that Roadie knew I loved him as I knew he loved me.

I took Roadie back to the farm and my friend who had helped with the vet bills for Roadie then helped me bury him on the farm with his favorite ball.   I went to the house and sat with my other dogs for comfort and cried for days just as I am now, telling his story. I can honestly say knowing everything I know now that I would do it all over again. You see, just weeks before I found Roadie, I had lost my mother, and Roadie, without me even knowing it at the time, had helped me through some of the darkest days of my life focusing on him and not the recent loss of my mom. I will never forget him or the special gift he gave me and rarely a day goes by that I don’t think of him playing with his ball or my other dogs and walking as fast as he could to try to keep up with them that I don’t smile or sometimes still shed a tear. I have a magnet on my Jeep that looks like a dog’s paw print and it says “Who Rescued Who?” I’ll let you decide.

More PHOTOS of Roadie 

This article was reprinted here with permission from the author. More from Laura Simpson, a tireless advocate for animals and  founder of The Great Animal Rescue Chase.
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Shamim Khan Apr 9, 2015

What a loving story! It melted my heart. Mr. Hill, you surely be eternally blessed if there is a hereafter! Thank you Ms. Simpson for finding and posting this story.

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Mahesh Chandra Achuthanna Apr 7, 2014

Brings tears to my eyes,and they still don't stop!!!This is proof that humanity still exists

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Lori Kaplan Jan 17, 2014

Two angels finding each other for a moment in time. How wonderful and bittersweet. Bless you sir, and RIP Roadie.

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Alberto G. Sep 23, 2013

Frida, my twelve year old poodle has taught me to be more appreciative and loving. Her love and trust is unconditional.

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Cynthia Shelton Aug 31, 2013

what a beautiful story, reminds me of my dog chase, i had to have him put to sleep and it ripped my soul apart, but what came thru loseing him is my art, i have over 300 pieces and with them i want to donate half of any sales to help with our best friends in chases name. but my health is not good, and i dont know where to begin, cause i cant do it by myself, and this is all because my boy died, its for him, and because of him. i pray that god will send me a miracle, because a lot of animals could be helped. signed, needing a miracle.

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avinoel Jun 26, 2013
I have a little rescued GSD that came into my life in the middle of a prolonged and dark, dark stretch of road ... he was in the middle of recovering from a savage case of mange, still bald on a lot of his body but the sweetest of creatures ... he had suffered abuse and was found wandering the streets and rescued from the pound by Golden State German Shepherd Rescue -- he came into my life when the gal I work for was talked into giving him a temporary foster home ... she had to leave him with me for a couple of weeks ... found out just recently, that if she had not fostered him and I had not subsequently adopted him, he would have been put down ... a year later, he is healthy, no mange, full thick fur that sheds gloriously over everything, my constant companion - certified as a service dog he goes everywhere with me, coming to work everyday ... and he has given me my life back, brought me out into the light ... I can understand Laura's feelings about "Roadie" ... Indeed - "who rescued ... [View Full Comment]
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lynn May 15, 2013

Thank you for this lovely tribute to Roadie.

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Mish Mar 31, 2013

Love is always a gift

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Geeta Mago Sep 13, 2012

A very touching story...i am in all tears...!!

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Pauline Mumbi Gathanga Aug 27, 2012

I am an animal lover and have rescued many animals, most of which have been put to sleep due to old age or pain. This story has really touched my heart and I believe that given a chance, most of these animals could live a day, a month or a year extra of their lives being happy. I believe now, that we need to take time and examine an animal carefully before rushing into decisions.
They all desearve to live and be treated in a human way. All they need is our love.

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Glynis Ward Aug 25, 2012

<3 I cried too..:) True Love knows NO boundaries..One man and his dog..A short space in time together..But a bond OH so strong, left with an eternal love that lives on..and on..and on..:)

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Anonymous Aug 6, 2012

Your story touched me so much.  Thank you for being such a wonderful, loving human being. It kills me to know how cruel people can be to the innocent.  Thanks so much for giving this sweet guy those special seven months of love.

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Lucia Aug 5, 2012

Roadie was put in your path exactly for the reason you mentioned. He was there to comfort you in your sorrow. God's ways and timing are always perfect.

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Cindy Jul 18, 2012

Looks like Roadie was in the right place.  He knew you would be there to rescue him. 

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jincharlotte Jul 17, 2012

good god, what a tearjerker, of course im going thru my own issues with my old dog and just finished writing a little something yesterday to help me with it emotionally.  thanks for letting me know I CAN treat him for another few months or year and be with him.  thank you so much for your rescue efforts, my dad has 9 rescues and it is so true that bumper sticker..who rescued who...i saw one here in charlotte, nc too.

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Spatterson Jul 6, 2012

This is truly heartwarming.  I myself can relate to this.  I work at an Animal Hospital, and am forced to look at the sad reality that some people just don't care about their animals.  I also rescued 2 animals, and went through the same with the flea infections and a skin disease, after many months of having a hairless puppy, with the help of the Vets at work, we were able to successfully restore her back to a normal puppy, with tons of hair!, I also have the very same magnet on the back of my car.  The love and bond between the owner and the animal is something that can't be explained, you just feel it.

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YC Jul 2, 2012

Angels on earth don't often wear wings.  You met one wearing fur and you both have been blessed.  Of course I cried too  - thank you.

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Dbarringhaus Jun 24, 2012

As a owner of two dogs,my only children,I know of the love you get from a dog which is unconditional and everlasting.As a photographer I am gifted with the knowledge to photograph my "children" so that their memory will last with me.

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Alenealene May 30, 2012

Love this story. I cried right alingalong with Don. A generous man with a kind heart. Thank you.

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Marilyn May 28, 2012

Been there. What a beautiful story. Thanks for sharing...I'm crying, too.

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Quotes Marriage May 26, 2012

I have been through the whole content of this blog which is
very informative and knowledgeable stuff, so I would like to visit again.
 

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Luthermartyn May 25, 2012

Dogs tend to love their masters more than they love themselves.Well,guess Roadie is a life time memory then.

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Angie May 24, 2012

I couldn't finish reading the story without feeling tears going down my cheek. It is a beautiful story filled with love. I am glad that Rodie was able to find a good person like you and that he in return was able to help you as well. Maybe your mom put him on your path because she didn't wanted you to suffer her departure.  Animals don't ask anything but love and they love you back inconditionally. I have a 1 year old dog, named Sofi, and everytime I think of the time she will leave me I feel my heart shrinking. It's only been 10 months I have her but she has brought a lot of happiness to all my family. I can't imagine my life without her anymore.

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Francoise Welch May 6, 2012

Very moving & touching story !!

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Tess14 Feb 22, 2012

All I can say is 'ditto' to the comments.  I had to put my Bella down nearly 2 years ago and still miss her so much.  Like the others, I was in tears reading this story....but it was so uplifting too.

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Revnagimato Feb 22, 2012

A beautiful story. Thank you.

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Dave Jan 1, 2012

There's a reason he just "Happened" along to your moms front lawn on just that one day you were there. He chose you and it was probably the single best choice in his life. God bless you both.

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Suewatson2 Jan 1, 2012

Lovely story and so glad you both helped eachother in your time of need.  RIP Roadie, and your Mum.  May they be together now looking after eachother and looking down at you and smiling. 
 

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deborah kitzul Dec 31, 2011

stories like this make me want to cry. I have had many rescue critters in the last 40 years and it never gets easier when one has to cross over. At least Roadie knew what being loved was in his life.

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Becky Dodge Dec 30, 2011
Earlier this year I adopted a border collie from the local kill shelter. The info on her card had her age estimated as 9 yrs old. However upon examination by my vet it turned out she was actually at least 11, perhaps 12. She had been picked up as a stray by animal control and when I took her I was told that if I hadn't she would probably have been killed at the shelter on Monday the following week (their weekly euthanasia day). According to the vet's exam she had extremely severe arthritis in her hind legs and had probably been in pain for quite some time - pain to the extent that she moved only when it was mandatory. As a result she had lost almost all the muscle mass in her legs. I brought her home, fed her, loved her and she slept as close to the bed as she could physically get (I have a 14 year old cocker spaniel who has monopolized the majority of the bed since he was adopted at age 13). One day, after a strong rain, Cara slipped on a bare patch of mud in the back yard, fell and b... [View Full Comment]
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Pinkskadyan Dec 27, 2011

beautiful and touching story... almost tears in my eyes while reading this...  thank u for sharing this....

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Pcusack Dec 17, 2011

Cried the whole way through this as I know how dogs can love unconditionally and the joy they can bring at the right time. Thank you for sharing this.

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Autkaiser Dec 13, 2011

Thank you, to you and Roadie! 

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tina Dec 13, 2011

tears. :'(
it is a very nice story. 
thank you for sharing  .

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Alan Reed Dec 13, 2011

Dog's and Cat's are little people in Fur Coat's , with feeling's the same as we have . They , if treated with respect and love  , will alway's be by your side to give comfort , over the year's I too have lost pet's I've loved dearly , and yes , cried at the loss . I am disabled and alone most day's  while my wife work's and the children are in school . We have a Lab/Sheppard mix named Mocha , she is 10 m0nths old and a wonderful companion . she is easy taught and I learn from her as well  . Your story touched my heart , I am sorry for your loss of Roadie, but you will have memories that will last forever , and that mean's more than anything ...

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Drsreeni Dec 12, 2011

Touching story, makes me feel I need to do more with my life and help not just pets but anyone I can

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Bb Dec 12, 2011

This is such a beautiful story and i almost could not read it as i was about to burst into tears. It is really nice to know that we have such brilliant people out there who are willing to do anything for their animals.

God bless the lady who took care of Roadie until he went off to a better place.

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Yaelle Byrd Dec 8, 2011

Heartbreaking! Thanks for sharing this beautiful story. Everywhere in the world, dogs and animals in general help us to endure the worse in life when everyone desert you. You saved him and he saved you and it is the way it works as a matter of fact;we are all connected and we can change the world we live in by giving a helping hand to ease the suffering. You always get something back when you do it generously. It's a beautiful story about love and togetherness. I wish they were more people like you who truly care. 

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Svtiger1 Nov 29, 2011

I can't stop crying, My babies are getting older and my oldest is having problems with her hip now. When we walk she lets me know when to stop so that we can go back home for her to rest. Stormy is our rescue pup and we bought her brother because he was so compatable with her, he is Twister. I don't even want to think of the day when I have to say goodby, they are my life!

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Ecowrites Nov 23, 2011

What a beautiful story, thank you for sharing and for what you did to help. Roadie was truly an angel, and so are you Don!

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Lifeforacause Nov 22, 2011

You have one of the kindest heart on earth Sir.
I cried. Hats of to the Kindness in You....

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Jimena S. Nov 22, 2011

Dogs are amazing. You helped him and he helped you, no strings attached, just love.

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hally_s Nov 22, 2011

What a wonderful, tragic, bittersweet love story. My dogs were both rescues, but I know without a doubt that they have helped me more than I have ever done for them. They have licked away tears, never left my side when I was in pain, and let me know every day how much they love and appreciate me. They are God's gift to we mere mortals.

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Pepperann Nov 22, 2011

Oh my gosh. I'm balling my eyes out!  That is the sweetest story. It's ironic how fate works in so MANY different ways. RIP Roadie!

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catemalone Nov 22, 2011

I'm in tears as I read this beautiful story of compassion. It gives me hope for humanity. I'm sitting here with my rescued 8 yr. old and my rescued 8 month old dogs, who both helped me recover from the grief of losing loved ones, so completely relate. One more thing: I also have the magnet "Who Rescued Who" on my car.  There's no doubt in my mind that they rescued me. 

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Peacewriter52 Nov 22, 2011

Oh my gosh, I can't stop crying.  I had such a "friend" as well, and I still remember the day I had to carry her out in the sun because she could no longer walk due to her arthritis.   I would come home at lunch and take her out.  She loved the sun.  On her last day, I went out to bring her back in, and she had passed in the moment that I went in to check on what I had on the stove.  I still shed tears for my Foxy, sometimes my only companion.

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Marie Nov 21, 2011

You and Roadie were meant to meet each other.  You helped each other through tough times.  Dogs are a gift from God.  Your story is sad but heartwarming. Know that the memories of Roadie will be forever in your heart.

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Jesuslives1306 Nov 21, 2011

Beautiful story and may you forever be comforted by his apirit, and memories. God bless you, yes ther are so many things to be thankful for.

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Hummin8284 Nov 21, 2011

I have always said my dogs rescuded me

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Suzy Nov 20, 2011

What a beautiful story.
I lost my dog Jack so know exactly how you felt.
He's last days were happy thanks to you and his spirit will be with you always.

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Romerry Nov 20, 2011

Thanks for sharing your story. From a little girl, I knew I would be crazy about Dogs, shunning dolls and wheeling my dog around in a pram , happy with HER sunglasses on. I am way past that time now, and my  dogs have long been my family and children. I adore all Dogs and am inspired by people who care like you. Rosie

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Hugh Mc Enaney, Moscow Nov 20, 2011

Beautiful story Don - thanks for sharing it.

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Ganoba Date Nov 20, 2011

all this can be done only if we don't allow  the thought and the consequent anxiety about the future interfere with our present choices.

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Anita Nov 20, 2011

Truly heartwarming! I know of no other love that is everlasting. Even human beings get mad at each other. But dogs love you even if you are mad at them. Every time you return home, they shower their love as though you were away for a decade. Linda's heart will be blessed as she takes care of those who cannot speak for themselves. Roadie's story brings back memories of all the dogs I have lost, and brings tears in my eyes when I remember them. Thank you Linda.

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linda Nov 20, 2011

how terrific that you found the means to give Roadie the medical care he needed so that you could share each other's company, even if only for a little while.  insensitivity leads so many of us to disregard creatures at the end of their lives.  the time you gave Roadie was very possibly the only good time he ever had.  people like you make my heart happy!

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Pollypopcorn Nov 19, 2011

Thank you - this is beautiful

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Jeffrey Willius Nov 19, 2011

One can't compare the love for a dog with any other love. It's pure, total and something more that's impossible to describe. Don, I don't know when this happened, but even if it's been years, I'm sure Roadie's spirit still occupies a corner of your heart.

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Lloydlsevigny2 Nov 19, 2011

I read this story of Roadie and Laura Simpson with a lump in my throat. I have loved and lost many amazing dogs (and cats as well) and this story brought all of my emotions back. But I am grateful for this story because it made me realize the blessing of all of our pets. Thank you. Sat Nam!

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Nancy Nov 19, 2011

One of the lessons I have learned going through the different trials in my life is that the best way to "bounce back" is to do something nice for someone else.  This story is a great example of just how that works.  That is why we are taught that it is more blessed to give than to recieve.

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Judithhanson Nov 19, 2011

A truley heart warming story and one that anyone who loves dogs can relate to. Dogs are special.  They are our children in fur coats and give unening love to those who have them.

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Laura Putman Nov 19, 2011

What a beautiful and touching story, it brought to mind so many animal stories and love that I have experienced in  my life over the years, I am grateful that you shared this a perfect example of unconditional love...a wonderful way to enter the week of Thanksgiving....thank you.