Di suatu tempat di Tennessee Barat, tidak jauh dari Graceland, sembilan wanita -- atau "The 9 Nanas," begitu mereka lebih suka dipanggil -- berkumpul di tengah kegelapan malam. Pada pukul 4 pagi, mereka memulai rutinitas harian mereka -- sebuah ritual yang tidak diketahui siapa pun, bahkan suami mereka, selama 30 tahun. Mereka memiliki satu misi dan hanya satu misi: menciptakan kebahagiaan. Dan semuanya dimulai dengan makanan panggang.
“Salah satu dari kami mulai mengayak tepung dan yang lain mencuci telur,” jelas Nana Mary Ellen, juru bicara yang ditunjuk untuk perkumpulan rahasia mereka. “Dan yang lain memastikan wajan sudah siap. Kami bergantian, tergantung pada apa yang ingin kami lakukan hari itu.
“Tapi pastikan kamu bilang Nana Pearl yang memimpin, karena dia yang tertua!” imbuhnya sambil mengedipkan mata dan tersenyum.
Selama tiga jam berikutnya, The 9 Nanas (yang semuanya menganggap diri mereka sebagai saudara perempuan, terlepas dari apa yang tertulis di beberapa akta kelahiran mereka) akan membuat ratusan kue bolu, sebagai bagian dari rencana besar untuk membantu mereka yang membutuhkan. Dan kemudian, sebelum ada yang sempat melihat mereka, mereka akan menghilang kembali ke dalam kehidupan sehari-hari mereka. Satu-satunya petunjuk yang mungkin tersisa adalah aroma surgawi vanila, lemon, dan jeruk nipis, yang tercium di udara.
Bahkan pengemudi UPS, yang mengambil ratusan paket sekaligus, tidak tahu apa yang dilakukan para wanita ini, yang berusia antara 54 hingga 72 tahun. Dia hanya senang mendapat pelukan dan tas berisi makanan istimewa. Yang tidak dia ketahui adalah bahwa dia adalah bagian dari rencana induk mereka. Sebuah rencana yang dimulai 35 tahun lalu -- ketika para "bersaudara" berkumpul untuk permainan kartu mingguan mereka -- sesuatu yang disebut oleh suami mereka sebagai "Broads and Bridge."
“Pearl bilang itu semua idenya,” Mary Ellen menggoda, “tapi kalau tidak salah, kami sedang duduk-duduk mengenang MaMaw dan PaPaw dan semua cara mereka membantu masyarakat.” MaMaw dan PaPaw adalah kakek-nenek yang membesarkan empat wanita, termasuk Mary Ellen, saat ibu mereka meninggal dunia; dan mereka menganggap Pearl sebagai anak mereka sendiri, saat orang tua Pearl membutuhkan bantuan.
“MaMaw Ruth membaca di koran bahwa seseorang telah meninggal,” kenang Mary Ellen, “dan dia akan mengirimkan salah satu kue pound cake spesialnya. Dia tidak perlu mengenal keluarga tersebut. Dia hanya ingin membuat mereka tersenyum. Dan kami mulai berpikir tentang apa yang dapat kami lakukan untuk membuat perbedaan seperti itu. Bagaimana jika kami memiliki satu juta dolar? Bagaimana kami akan membelanjakannya?
Jadi para wanita mulai bertukar pikiran.
“Salah satu suster menyarankan agar kami semua mulai mencuci pakaian sendiri dan menggunakan uang yang kami tabung untuk hal-hal yang bermanfaat. Saya akui, awalnya saya protes. Ada sesuatu tentang mencuci yang tidak saya sukai. Namun, saya kalah jumlah! Jadi, di antara kami bersembilan, kami menyisihkan sekitar $400 sebulan dan suami kami tidak pernah memerhatikan apa pun. Kemeja mereka tampak bagus-bagus saja.”
Lalu para wanita mulai mendengarkan. Mereka menguping -- tentu saja dengan niat baik -- di toko kecantikan setempat atau saat mereka sedang berbelanja kebutuhan sehari-hari. Dan saat mereka mendengar tentang seorang janda atau ibu tunggal yang membutuhkan sedikit bantuan, mereka akan turun tangan dan secara anonim membayar tagihan listrik atau membeli baju baru untuk anak-anak.
“Kami ingin membantu semampu kami,” kata Mary Ellen, “tanpa merugikan keluarga kami sendiri, jadi kami menjadi pemotong kupon. Dan kami menggunakan perangko hijau. Masih ingat itu? Kami menggunakan perangko hijau dan kami memastikan untuk pergi ke toserba Goldsmith pada hari Rabu. Setiap minggu mereka mengadakan obral besar dan Anda dapat menghabiskan $100 dan membawa pulang barang dagangan senilai $700.”
Keluarga Nana akan mencari tahu di mana orang tersebut tinggal dan mengirimkan sebuah paket dengan catatan yang hanya berbunyi, "Seseorang mencintaimu" -- dan mereka akan memastikan untuk menyertakan salah satu kue bolu spesial MaMaw Ruth.
Semakin banyak orang yang mereka bantu, semakin berani mereka jadinya.
“Kami memberi makna baru pada istilah berkendara,” kata Mary Ellen dengan gembira. “Kami akan berkendara melewati lingkungan berpendapatan rendah dan mencari rumah-rumah yang memiliki kipas angin di jendelanya. Itu memberi tahu kami bahwa orang-orang yang tinggal di sana tidak memiliki AC. Atau kami akan melihat bahwa tidak ada lampu yang menyala di malam hari, yang berarti ada kemungkinan besar utilitas mereka telah dimatikan. Kemudian kami akan kembali sebelum matahari terbit, seperti pencuri kucing, dan mengantarkan paket kecil.”
Selama tiga dekade, perbuatan baik para wanita itu tidak terdeteksi -- hingga lima tahun yang lalu, ketika suami Mary Ellen, yang dengan penuh kasih sayang ia panggil "Southern Charmer," mulai memperhatikan jarak tempuh ekstra pada mobilnya dan sejumlah besar uang tunai yang ditarik dari rekening tabungan mereka.
“Dia mengeluarkan laporan bank dan laporan itu ditonjolkan!” kata Mary Ellen, mengingat kengerian yang dirasakannya. “Saya mencoba menjelaskan bahwa saya telah membeli beberapa barang, tetapi dia memasang ekspresi yang belum pernah saya lihat sebelumnya -- dan saya menyadari apa yang mungkin ada dalam pikirannya. Saya menelepon para suster dan berkata, 'Kalian semua harus segera ke sini.'”
Jadi, setelah 30 tahun menjalankan misi rahasia mereka, 9 Nanas dan suami-suami mereka berkumpul di ruang tamu Mary Ellen dan para suster itu pun mengakuinya. Mereka memberi tahu para suami tentang cucian dan penyadapan -- bahkan tentang mobil-mobil yang lewat. Dan di situlah cerita mereka menjadi lebih menarik -- karena para suami menawarkan bantuan.
“Mereka heran kami melakukan ini dan lebih heran lagi karena mereka tidak pernah tahu. Kami bisa menyimpan rahasia yang bagus! Semua kecuali tiga dari mereka sekarang sudah pensiun, jadi terkadang mereka ikut kami saat kami berkendara. Di daerah kami, yang Anda perlukan hanyalah alamat untuk membayar tagihan listrik seseorang, jadi kami membuat para pekerja sibuk mencatat nomor-nomor.”
Tak lama kemudian pasangan itu memutuskan bahwa sudah waktunya untuk memberi tahu anak-anak mereka yang sudah dewasa. Dan saat itulah kebahagiaan mulai terjadi dengan cara yang lebih besar. Anak-anak mendorong ibu mereka untuk mulai menjual kue bolu MaMaw Ruth secara daring, sehingga mereka dapat mengumpulkan uang untuk membantu lebih banyak orang. Dan tak lama kemudian mereka menerima lebih dari 100 pesanan dalam sehari.
"Pertama kali kami melihat pesanan itu berdatangan, kami semua melompat kegirangan," kata Mary Ellen sambil tertawa. "Kami begitu gembira sampai-sampai kami berlari mengelilingi bunga mawar! Lalu kami memanggil semua anak dan berkata, 'Apa yang harus kami lakukan selanjutnya?'"
Saat itulah 9 Nanas memindahkan operasi pembuatan kue rahasia mereka dari rumah ke dapur komersial restoran milik salah satu putra mereka, tempat mereka dapat menyelinap masuk sebelum matahari terbit dan keluar sebelum staf datang. Mereka bahkan menyewa "koordinator kebahagiaan" (yang nama sandinya adalah "Sunny," tentu saja). Identitasnya juga harus dirahasiakan, sehingga ia dapat membantu menguping.
"Kami menyuruhnya bersumpah untuk merahasiakannya -- orang tuanya mengira dia bekerja di bidang pemasaran. Dan, jika dipikir-pikir, dia bekerja di bidang hubungan masyarakat dan menghabiskan banyak waktu mencari orang untuk membantu di supermarket!"
Kini, The 9 Nanas mampu mengerjakan proyek yang lebih besar lagi, mengingat keberhasilan mereka di dunia maya. Baru-baru ini, mereka menyumbangkan lebih dari $5.000 berupa bantal, seprai, dan produk perawatan pribadi ke tempat penampungan bagi korban kekerasan dalam rumah tangga. Dan bulan Agustus ini, mereka akan merayakan "Bulan Kebahagiaan" kedua berturut-turut dengan mengirimkan tanda terima kasih kepada satu orang di setiap negara bagian yang telah membuat perubahan di komunitas mereka sendiri.
Dan sejuta dolar yang pernah mereka impikan? Mereka hampir mencapainya. Dalam 35 tahun terakhir, 9 Nanas telah menyumbangkan hampir $900.000 kebahagiaan bagi masyarakat setempat.
Namun, itu tidak berarti mereka terlalu sibuk untuk terus melakukan hal-hal kecil yang membuat hidup sedikit lebih bahagia. Terkadang mereka hanya mengeluarkan buku telepon dan mengirimkan kue bolu kepada orang yang sama sekali tidak mereka kenal. Dan jika Nanas melihat seseorang di toko kelontong yang tampaknya membutuhkan sedikit bantuan, bukan hal yang aneh bagi mereka untuk mulai mengisi keranjang belanja orang yang tidak mereka kenal.
“Tidak semua orang seberuntung kami yang memiliki MaMaw dan PaPaw untuk mengurus mereka, untuk memperbaiki semua hal yang salah.
“Jadi ini cara kami untuk memberi kembali,” kata Mary Ellen. “Kami ingin orang-orang tahu bahwa ada seseorang di luar sana yang cukup peduli untuk melakukan sesuatu. Kami ingin memastikan bahwa kebahagiaan terjadi.”
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I am the bread lady of my neighborhood... take to those who are sick, sad, or just need something homemade to warm their heart. I also teach others ( in their home or mine..but they bring all the ingredients so they know what to purchase the next time!). I am amazed how much fun they have going home with their own bread, cinnamon buns or whatever fun thing they want to make. The kneading is such a great stress reducer they soon learn! The little kids in the neighborhood call it Missjody toast....cinnamon bread . I use coffee cans for bread pans.
It is just a little way to help. I love the process, the smells and the ability to make another smile! I give it all away.
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How clueless are these reliant husbands? LOL.
Wow, what a great story.. There's still some wonderful people out here.. Thank God.
I didn't read all of the comments, just enough to see the thread take a left turn.
Awesome work to the 9 Nanas here, and their families that stood behind their efforts. There is so much malice and condemnation these days. Stories like this give me hope.
PO Box 7189, Tacoma, WA. LOL. I love these women and their dedication to community...their love of life, and their whimsy!
How did such a cute story all of a sudden become a bickering match over the value of pets and people?! Wow. Thank you for such a great story that highlights that there is still much good in this world. That there are people who want to give to their communities. Thank you!
I think everyone is missing the point here. You're all arguing about M's comment, left a YEAR ago, which by the way was quite nice. Obviously these strangers wanted to help regardless of cost and I find that rather noble. But more importantly why is no one saying what a wonderful thing these 9 Nanas did? These women are awesome. Stop bickering and pay it forward. Sheesh.
This brought tears to my eyes. I myself am a mother of twin 6yr old daughters and I had them when I was 17. I have been through so much in the last 6 years. If it wasn't for people like the 9 nana's I am not sure what I would have done. There was a time I was living from couch to couch. By the grace of god I am now in my own home. I work and go to school full time. It gives me faith in humanity to know that there are fantastic people like them in this world.
Imagine everyday, feeling so good about yourself because of something you've done. Great job ladies and gentlemen! You inspire me! Now I will sit here and think about what I can do. Anonymously of course. =) God bless you all!
This is one of the most heart lifting articles I have ever read. Kudos to the 9 Nana's and all their efforts! If only more people could understand that we don't do good by others for the credit, we do it for the happiness! Every time I am able to help some one else, I will think of these amazing women and their supportive families and the happy community they have been caring for! <3
Wow, you all get so touchy when it comes to pets. Grown adults bickering like children.
Anyway, I just wanted to say that the story is touching. We don't know what the pet meant to this person, and for these women to step up and help up is admirable. However. If your pet helped you through the toughest parts of your life, when no one else cared, and you want to spend $3000 to get your pet the help s/he needs, do it. At that point, your pet is irreplaceable, because it's honestly become more than. But let's say this isn't the case, and you have children, and your young child ALSO needs an operation, for example, who would get priority? Your pet, or your child?
How awesome is this what a testament you you all.
Nice thought, but once again...Is it wise to eat homemade food from complete strangers? Would you do it?
Get out there and volunteer, people!
OK,EVERYONE LOVES THEIR PETS !!! THIS WHOLE STORY TURNED FROM THE THE NANAS TO ,LETS GO BACK AND FORTH ABOUT OUR PETS ,AND THEIR WORTH,MOVE FOWARD!! THIS WAS A GREAT STORY. PLEASE READ IT AGAIN,THEN IF YOU SEE SOMEONE THAT NEEDS YOUR HELP " HELP THEM". IF YOU CAN!! :)
You are missing the message here. It is about WHO YOU ARE. Some folks can and will help. Some folks understand love in many ways, some folks have "their" priorities right, others don't.
I was a single mom and raised 2 children alone. We had pets who were family members. The pets and children had medical as well as all the other necessary comforts. We did not live extravagantly, we lived with "Faith". My daughter and I now have an animal sanctuary with some 60 plus dog, cats and farm animals. Our lives are RICH in love, respect, honor and reverence. WHO ARE YOU? Are you RICH?
What's w/ the website? Happiness-happens.com link takes you to a page w/ 1 sentence & nothing else - no links or anything to click through...
The point of this whole story was about the GOOD THINGS these nine women and their families did, not a debate over people's feelings toward their pets!
Y'all are missing the point.
Create happiness, don't pick at each other! ♡
Just read the thread below in respect to the value of pets and it seems obvious to me that the arguement is about how rich one is. If you can afford to pay for your dogs cats surgery one will irrespective of the cost. If you are wealthy and still put your animal to sleep then you should nt of had a pet. Its called responsibility of care. I d rather keep my dog alive at the cost of $3000 than blow it on a holiday or buy a new 50 inch flat screen TV. Its about priorities surely?
Daily Good: "News that Inspires" and a bickering comments thread that make you realise why the World is the way it is #irony
wonderful wonderful wonderful!
i am literally bawling right now. i've never heard such a beautiful and heartwarming story of hope, love, and selflessness. This is so inspiring. i've always wanted to do more and be more for people but i've been sick since i was 7 years old. In the last few years after i was finally diagnosed with Cushing's Disease and Acromegaly. i had two brain surgeries and had my adrenal glands removed (in order for me to stay alive - long story) It's been almost 4 months now and i'm the healthiest i've never been so well in my life. As i continue to get better i want to more than anything to help my community and bring smiles to the faces of as many people as i can. i want to spread God's love, as He loved me. i am a servant at heart, but my body wouldn't let me serve because i was too sick. i'm very happy to be able to begin to do what God called me to do, serve. Thank you with all of my heart for doing God's work and sharing this story with the world. Alicia
Wow such a great story taken over by the great pet debates, spend your money how you want and these ladies showed where their priorities were. Helping others is its own reward. So forget about what you would or wouldn't do for a pet and realize its people who where helped.
I love animals. Don't take me wrong for saying: " Is their love really unconditional?" Don't they love us for feeding them and taking care of them? Just saying...
I tried going to the website but all that showed up was a white screen with the words "Folks as young as two and as old as ninety-two want to know they matter". I was really looking forward to seeing their website or even ordering a pound cake. What gives?
Barnabas 19:11
Thou shall not hesitate to give, neither shalt thou murmur when
giving, but thou shalt know who is the good paymaster of thy reward.
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These women were doing the work of God by secretly giving all of those years.
Why is this feed ALL about pets? My goodness. I would just like a moment to celebrate the 9 Nanas. Let's all think of what we can do to be like them!
Oh My goodness people. Pet bickering isn't the point of this beautiful article! Why limit your love? If someone wants to help an animal in need that is wonderful! If someone wants to help animals in need that is wonderful! Generosity and love for animals and/or humans is not what is hurting people! People being mean and unkind is what is harmful. Here is a challenge: Let's all turn off our bloody computers and do a random act of kindness for someone today or tomorrow. These women are an inspiration--not cause for arguing over what is worth loving!
I always find it very interesting when people argue over whether they would or wouldn't pay to save a pet. It's easy to see who does or doesn't have a soul.
It's juvenile and rude to tell others that what they do with their pet(s) is wrong. Just because you talk the loudest or the most doesn't make you right.
We've paid thousands upon thousands of dollars, many times, for vet bills, surgeries, and general care for our greyhounds. Greyhounds that we SAVED after their racing careers were over and they would've been killed. Our dogs live lives better than a lot of people, because they deserve it and because we love them. One dog had a $9000 surgery just a few months after we adopted her. This same dog lived for 16 years (almost unheard of for a grey) and in those years we spent enough to put a child through college.
We've had 7 greyhounds and they're worth EVERY CENT we've spent on them. There's nothing we won't do for them and fortunately, we're able to do so.
[Hide Full Comment]People don't even want a stranger to breathe on them these days, yet they will eat a random cake? Really???
This is just awesome! To think they could keep this secret for so long and just think of the thousands of people they helped or brought a smiles to.
So where can I buy one of these pound cakes???
What an amazing set of ladies.
their website doesn't work. :(
Wow amazing! Each time I lose faith in humanity it is people like this that make me get it back.
You all are missing the point of the story. Yes, there are varying views about pets and the Church that can be raised, but you're missing how much good these ladies have put forth in their communities--not for themselves.
I spent $4000 on my dog at the Vet and the only thing I asked of her was to give me 4 more years of love and devotion. She lived about 4.5 years and got cancer. She was worth every penny of it. And I never regretted it. We are just avg. people who paid $100 a month until it was paid in full. Don't tell me she wasn't worth it missy!!!!!
I had me a Blue Healer about 20 yes ago that came down with a cough that wouldn,t quit so I took her to my vet who proceeded to tell me that it can,t posebly be lung worms as there aren,t any fox in the hood and he turned a deaf ear when I told him that we take her camping with us all the time. So a grand later at my request or should I say I demanded that he check her for lung worms,because a dog can only get lung worms by eating the feces of a fox. So low and behold the test come back positive and he says the cattle wormer he has to give her will kill her or cure her and she has to spend a couple nights there so I said do it she,s gonna die for sure if you do nothing, 2 grand later I have my piece of family and my happy back. Now I don,t have much money but money isn,t what makes me happy, my dogs make me happy and I would have paid 3 times that amount. Now Sydney died of cancer at the age of 7 nothing I could do about that curse, and I,m never without a couple of dogs in my life. I live on 2 acres and great full for it and have lived here for 25 yrs so I have my own pet semetary of which I am honored to have. So Jennifer if you can,t put as much love into an animal as you would say yourself or family then I wouldn,t own an animal.
[Hide Full Comment]Thank you for sharing this story. It is people like this that give me hope for humanity and inspire me to be better than I am.
Remarkable!! If only...
I read articles like this, and being the skeptic that I am, while I applaud charitable efforts, I wonder if these stories aren't being published to distract people from the very real issues related to poverty and hardship that we seem to just refuse to eradicate, and blame on the poor themselves. It looks to me like an easy way to justify eliminating the few government supports we have in our social safety net, in favour of private charity.
If we collected the Just Rent of the products of Nature equally, then we would have a ready source of wealth with which to fund an unconditional Universal Basic Income. Maybe we should think about being less distracted from the real issues by tasty cakes.
I tried to go to the website to buy a cake but the site isnt working :( these are amazing ladies!
1. I always hear my wife getting up at 4.
2. This IS media hype.
3. Call me skeptical, sorry.
This is such a marvelous story. Okay, Oprah, this one needs to be made into a film. How about it?
Every community should have a group of "Nanas". I know ours sure needs one.
Thank YOU!!!!!! Nanas!!!!!!!!!!!! Don't read to much into this just say thank you!!!!
The link happiness-happens.com no longer works. Since this article is over a year old, have they stopped or gone out of business?
I loved the story of the 9 nanas- I am the type who would love to help all the world, although I am a middle income homemaker. Keep up the great work and the love as long as you can. Kudos to those great hubbys.
Why don't stories like this get features on every major outlet? These are the kinds of things people need to see over and over. Think of the other person first (regardless of religion, background or whatever).
It's a lovely gift of sharing and kindness.
Why it is necessary to ferret out who they are?
Accept that there are many who help others and prefer anonymity.
They help those who really need a rainbow in their day!
It doesn't get any better than that.
great story we could all learn a little from. Shame our leader don't share their vision
This sounds like the backbone for one amazing book! Someone needs to write a book/novel about these women! Honestly though...well done. I can only hope that I, along with my generation, can aspire to do such great things as you women do.
I have something in my eye. -sniffle-
You ladies are just plain awesome, if i lived close enough I would keep the secret and have many years volunteering:)
These women are certainly commendable, but when I tried to access their website, I only got a simple one line quote. Are they real?
That the husbands "didn't know?"
Not buying it. And it's a shame: that fib casts doubt on the rest of it.
My Great Aunt Rose (who also lived in West Tennessee oddly enough) used to do something similar. So inspiring. http://techguerilla.com/the...
I am wanting to order pound cakes to help support them, but the when I click the website link it take me to a page with a quote and nothing more. Is this happening to anyone else?
This is the true joy of giving, when the giver does not even get to see the reaction of the receiver, nor expect or receive praise! What wonderful women!
Wow this made me cry!