Soy musulmán, originario de Pakistán. Dirigí un negocio de venta de computadoras durante 12 años, pero después del estallido de la burbuja de las puntocom, el negocio empezó a ralentizarse.
Luego ocurrieron los atentados del 11 de septiembre y mi vida cambió por completo. Decidí que no iba a ser una víctima que se quedara en casa llorando. Fue entonces cuando comenzó mi activismo comunitario.
Fremont, California, donde vivo, es una comunidad sumamente diversa. Sentí la necesidad de compartir quién soy, siguiendo las enseñanzas de mi fe. En la fe musulmana, desde la infancia nos enseñan a conocer a nuestros vecinos en un radio de 40 hogares, para asegurarnos de que todos estén bien y tengan comida en la mesa. Estos son los valores con los que crecemos.
Empecé poco a poco: simplemente hablando con la gente mientras hacía fila, dondequiera que encontrara una oportunidad. Trabajé en relaciones interreligiosas y, a los 56 años, comencé a colaborar como voluntaria en un programa municipal llamado CAPS , brindando asesoramiento a personas mayores inmigrantes recién llegadas que no hablan bien inglés y no saben a quién llamar ni dónde obtener ayuda. Les ayudamos con todo, desde problemas emocionales familiares hasta finanzas y vivienda. Les doy la mano, les hablo en su idioma, los acompaño a la oficina de servicios sociales, les ayudo a completar formularios y a navegar por el sistema. Es satisfactorio, gratificante y me llena de humildad. Este trabajo me hace sentir maravillosamente bien al poder ayudar de una manera significativa.
En diciembre del año pasado, otro atentado terrorista, esta vez en San Bernardino, California, me conmocionó profundamente. Me di cuenta de que, en mi labor de promoción de la tolerancia, siempre me dirigía a un público más amplio. Tras San Bernardino, quise llegar a las masas, o al menos a personas que quizás nunca antes habían conocido ni hablado con un musulmán.
Mi idea era sentarme en una cafetería e invitar a la gente a conversar conmigo. La llamé «Conoce a un musulmán» y puse un anuncio en el periódico. Me advirtieron que me preparara para que nadie viniera. Así que solo llevé mi portátil y planeé trabajar un rato. Pero no la necesité.
Cuando llegué a la cafetería antes de tiempo, ya había 20 personas esperando. Para cuando terminó, eran más de 100. Les dije que sí, que era una mujer musulmana con velo, pero también una estadounidense común y corriente. Tengo hijos, los crié aquí y los envié a la escuela aquí. Y que lo que sucedió en San Bernardino no representaba el verdadero islam.
Muchos querían hablar sobre la actualidad y el tiroteo de San Bernardino. Querían saber sobre el islam radical, sobre chiítas y sunitas, la supuesta opresión de las mujeres musulmanas, la ley islámica y otros temas. En general, el público se mostró muy respetuoso. Algunos criticaron indiscriminadamente a los musulmanes, tildándolos de terroristas, pero yo asentí con la cabeza y dije que los asesinos no representan al verdadero islam.
También animo a mis amigos musulmanes a que se involucren en sus comunidades y participen como voluntarios, aunque sea una hora a la semana, para mostrar que los musulmanes estadounidenses son personas reales que desean que las comunidades en las que viven prosperen.
Muchos no se atreven a dar un paso al frente por temor a represalias, o incluso por miedo al FBI. Si bien tienen motivos para ser cautelosos, les digo: “Esto no se trata de ustedes. Necesitamos sentar las bases para que nuestros hijos tengan una buena vida aquí en Estados Unidos”.
Hasta el momento, he organizado 11 eventos de "Conoce a un musulmán" y tengo muchas invitaciones nuevas para hablar en lugares de culto, escuelas, parques de casas móviles y residencias para personas mayores.
Mi objetivo es transformar a una persona, un corazón a la vez. Necesitamos convivir con compasión y aceptación. Los musulmanes estadounidenses no nos vamos a ir a ninguna parte, ni nadie más. Y todos estamos juntos en esta lucha contra el odio.
COMMUNITY REFLECTIONS
SHARE YOUR REFLECTION
8 PAST RESPONSES
https://www.youtube.com/wat...
Mohammed was a terrorist. 1,400 years later, it's the same. He was also a rapist, pedophile, murderer and looter.
Moina, you're doing a very good thing and never be ashamed of your faith. Mohammed taught many good things including faith and compassion as did my mentor, Moses and the prophets. We share this Earth together and need to learn to live in peace together, respecting one another. The violence and intolerance we see in the world is not the truth of any faith. It is the result of the broken humanity in which we live. Keep it up. I'll show up to meet you when I can. Salaam/Shalom/Peace to you and your Muslim brothers and sisters.
A silly story-
Part 1
Long, long ago a group humans living in a remote corner of the world realised they have more thinking power than other animals around them. The power to solve problems and do things better and make life easier. Soon they started to share the ideas with family, friends and neighbors. Some felt it is good to write and keep, so it is easy to remember or access. The book of ideas passed down generations as a valuable inheritance. It became a BIG book of ideas. It had everything that you need to live by. So some of them also corroborated that things not in the book were untrue, because anything worth should be there in the book! Not just families but the whole community started living by the book. Eventually it became imperative to have the book and follow it to do anything in life ... how to eat, what to drink, how to love, how to die and even when to kill. Though it was difficult to follow the book, it helped the community to grow, have order and governance. People lived happily. After many generations the book grew in size but lost the details of people who contributed. The small group of people who accessed the book more frequently and who knew more about the book got together and thought- How could we make the book more popular and make it (book/us) relevant for all the people? We declare the book has come from the master of our universe and it is his “word”. The master of the universe had laid the code of living and it is compulsory to live by the laws of the book or else suffer, suffer in a place called "hell". Conversly, people who obeyed the word and lived by the book would go straight to heaven. This sounded great and within no time there was a great demand for the book and people in the book business!
Part 2
Someone traveled far and discovered another strange community of people. He was even more surprised to know they also had a book to live by. A thought flashed in his mind- which book was better?
[Hide Full Comment]I worked with plenty of Muslims at Texas Instruments, like the engineer from Bangladesh who hung around my desk several times a day (I was single, he was married with newborn twins) and talked about how wonderful it was to have as many wives in "his country" as he could afford. (I am *not* making this up.) I did ask him how much he'd be making in Bangladesh, and he just laughed. Oh, the reality that "your" country is still in the third world, let's not talk about that. Assimilation, anyone?
They have a prayer room at Texas Instruments dedicated for Muslim use. I once asked if I could use it, as a Christian (thinking at best it must actually be a generic "chapel" - that surely a private business wouldn't promote religion at all, let alone one particular religion), and was told that Christians could pray anywhere. This is true, but it was also pretty disappointing.
The prayer room is there to accommodate Muslims. Many businesses now have this. Don't tell me the US doesn't accommodate other religions. I don't care what religion others practice as long as they don't intrude on my rights. Freedom of religion is a right we all (should) hold dear.
But if a woman is going to defend Islam, I would strongly encourage her to be honest with herself and look at how women and young girls are still treated in Islam countries, where many women still can't even VOTE. When I see a woman in the grocery store literally walking behind a man, my stomach turns. When I read of honor killings - in the US! - and the fact that the "princes" of Saudi Arabia STILL think women shouldn't even DRIVE, I kind of think, "Honey, don't tell ME how great you have it. Just stop lying to yourself, because I already know. Your husband told me this morning."
[Hide Full Comment]In answer to those responses to Islam below; if you call yourself a Christian, I believe that the Golden Rule states "Love your neighbor as yourself". Your views are not compatible with true Christianity and please brush up on your U.S. Constitution - 1 st Amendment which states:
The First Amendment guarantees freedoms concerning
religion, expression, assembly, and the right to petition. It forbids
Congress from both promoting one religion over others and also restricting an individual’s religious practices. It guarantees freedom of expression
by prohibiting Congress from restricting the press or the rights of
individuals to speak freely. It also guarantees the right of citizens
to assemble peaceably and to petition their government.
https://www.youtube.com/wat...
What Islam is Not. Watch this very informative video, only 8 minutes, about the spread of Islam. Four decades of immigration, lack of assimilation and radicalization in Europe is all we need to know to stop the spread of Islam in America. Peace.
Sorry, it's not the Muslim, it's ISLAM. And Islam is incompatible with a free and democratic society. http://www.citizenwarrior.c...