Amcangyfrifwyd bod Albert Einstein yn 160, Madonna yn 140, a John F. Kennedy yn 119 yn unig, ond fel mae'n digwydd, mae eich sgôr IQ yn welw o'i gymharu â'ch sgorau EQ, MQ, a BQ o ran rhagweld eich llwyddiant a'ch cyflawniad proffesiynol.
Defnyddir profion IQ fel dangosydd o allu rhesymu rhesymegol a deallusrwydd technegol. Mae IQ uchel yn aml yn rhagofyniad ar gyfer codi i'r rhengoedd uchaf o fusnes heddiw. Mae'n angenrheidiol, ond nid yw'n ddigonol rhagweld cymhwysedd gweithredol a llwyddiant corfforaethol. Ar ei ben ei hun, nid yw IQ uchel yn gwarantu y byddwch yn sefyll allan ac yn codi uwchlaw pawb arall.
Mae ymchwil a wnaed gan Sefydliad Technoleg Carnegie yn dangos bod 85 y cant o'ch llwyddiant ariannol oherwydd sgiliau mewn “peirianneg ddynol,” eich personoliaeth a'ch gallu i gyfathrebu, negodi ac arwain. Yn syfrdanol, dim ond 15 y cant sy'n ganlyniad i wybodaeth dechnegol. Yn ogystal, canfu’r seicolegydd Israel-Americanaidd sydd wedi ennill Gwobr Nobel, Daniel Kahneman, y byddai’n well gan bobl wneud busnes gyda pherson y maent yn ei hoffi ac yn ymddiried ynddo yn hytrach na rhywun nad ydynt yn ymddiried ynddo, hyd yn oed os yw’r person hoffus yn cynnig cynnyrch neu wasanaeth o ansawdd is am bris uwch.
Gyda hyn mewn golwg, yn hytrach na chanolbwyntio'n gyfan gwbl ar eich cyniferydd cudd-wybodaeth confensiynol, dylech fuddsoddi mewn cryfhau'ch EQ (Deallusrwydd Emosiynol), MQ (Cudd-wybodaeth Moesol), a BQ (Cudd-wybodaeth y Corff). Efallai na fydd y cysyniadau hyn yn anodd eu mesur, ond mae eu harwyddocâd yn llawer mwy nag IQ.
Deallusrwydd Emosiynol
EQ yw'r mwyaf adnabyddus o'r tri, ac yn gryno mae'n ymwneud â: bod yn ymwybodol o'ch teimladau eich hun a theimladau pobl eraill, rheoli'r teimladau hyn ynoch chi'ch hun ac eraill, defnyddio emosiynau sy'n briodol i'r sefyllfa, hunan-gymhelliant, a meithrin perthnasoedd.
Awgrym Da ar gyfer Gwella: Yn gyntaf, dewch yn ymwybodol o'ch deialog fewnol. Mae'n helpu i gadw dyddlyfr o ba feddyliau sy'n llenwi'ch meddwl yn ystod y dydd. Gall straen fod yn lladdwr enfawr o ddeallusrwydd emosiynol, felly mae angen i chi hefyd ddatblygu technegau ymdopi iach a all leihau straen yn effeithiol ac yn gyflym mewn sefyllfa gyfnewidiol.
Deallusrwydd Moesol
Mae MQ yn dilyn EQ yn uniongyrchol gan ei fod yn delio â'ch uniondeb, cyfrifoldeb, cydymdeimlad a maddeuant. Y ffordd rydych chi'n trin eich hun yw'r ffordd y bydd pobl eraill yn eich trin chi. Mae cadw ymrwymiadau, cynnal eich uniondeb, a bod yn onest yn hanfodol i ddeallusrwydd moesol.
Syniadau Da ar gyfer Gwella: Gwnewch lai o esgusodion a chymerwch gyfrifoldeb am eich gweithredoedd. Osgoi celwydd bach gwyn. Dangos cydymdeimlad a chyfathrebu parch at eraill. Ymarfer derbyn a dangos goddefgarwch o ddiffygion pobl eraill. Nid yw maddeuant yn ymwneud â’r ffordd yr ydym yn ymwneud ag eraill yn unig; dyna sut rydych chi'n uniaethu â chi ac yn teimlo amdanoch chi'ch hun hefyd.
Cudd-wybodaeth Corff
Yn olaf, mae eich BQ, neu ddeallusrwydd corff, sy'n adlewyrchu'r hyn rydych chi'n ei wybod am eich corff, sut rydych chi'n teimlo amdano, a gofalu amdano. Mae eich corff bob amser yn dweud pethau wrthych; ydych chi'n gwrando ar y signalau neu'n eu hanwybyddu? Ydych chi'n bwyta bwydydd sy'n rhoi egni neu sy'n draenio egni bob dydd? Ydych chi'n cael digon o orffwys? Ydych chi'n ymarfer corff ac yn gofalu am eich corff? Efallai ei bod yn ymddangos nad yw'r materion hyn yn gysylltiedig â pherfformiad busnes, ond mae deallusrwydd eich corff yn effeithio'n llwyr ar eich gwaith oherwydd ei fod yn pennu'ch teimladau, eich meddyliau, eich hunanhyder, eich cyflwr meddwl a'ch lefel egni i raddau helaeth.
Awgrym Da ar gyfer Gwella: O leiaf unwaith y dydd, gwrandewch ar y negeseuon y mae eich corff yn eu hanfon atoch am eich iechyd. Ewch ati i fonitro'r signalau hyn yn lle mynd ar awtobeilot. Mae maethiad da, ymarfer corff rheolaidd, a gorffwys digonol i gyd yn agweddau allweddol ar gael BQ uchel. Gall monitro eich pwysau, ymarfer cymedroli ag alcohol, a gwneud yn siŵr bod gennych chi amser segur fod o fudd aruthrol i weithrediad eich ymennydd a'r ffordd rydych chi'n perfformio yn y gwaith.
Yr hyn y mae gwir angen i chi ei lwyddo
Nid oes ots os na chawsoch yr hyfforddiant academaidd gorau gan brifysgol o'r radd flaenaf. Gall person â llai o addysg sydd wedi datblygu ei EQ, MQ, a BQ yn llawn fod yn llawer mwy llwyddiannus na pherson ag addysg drawiadol nad yw'n cyrraedd y categorïau eraill hyn.
Ydy, mae'n sicr yn dda bod yn feddyliwr deallus, rhesymegol a meddu ar IQ uchel; mae hwn yn ased pwysig. Ond rhaid i chi sylweddoli nad yw'n ddigon. Bydd eich IQ yn eich helpu chi'n bersonol, ond bydd EQ, MQ, a BQ o fudd i bawb o'ch cwmpas hefyd. Os gallwch chi feistroli cymhlethdodau'r ffurfiau cudd-wybodaeth unigryw hyn sy'n aml yn cael eu tanbrisio, mae ymchwil yn dweud wrthym y byddwch chi'n cael mwy o lwyddiant ac yn cael eich ystyried yn fwy cymwys a galluog yn broffesiynol.
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Intelligence isn't overrated. It's just wrongly defined.
Nice copy paste from my article!
Thank you very much for this reality check. I have found that taking an IQ test and scoring high allows intelligent people to be lazy, and not develop their brains to it's full potential. They often think that they have a high IQ and can use that as an excuse.
i remember within last 2 weeks, I checked my vocabularies and I surpassed all the marks of foreign learners.They said that the highest foreign English learners got between 3.000 to 9.000 marks while I got 11.900marks. To me it was unbelievable because I didn't know. I could pass all foreign learners. Who can learn 200 words everyday? I did it marvelously!
@4f801dec7b5b4bf294b64c2ed73befc7:disqus Let us not worry because mr writer said there are hopes for those who didn't graduated universities. am holding 2 years Diploma and 3 years experience. so what I need to do is to master the English. I had been reading books and notes past 6 hours which is there are hopes for those including me who believe they are disadvantaged because I saw job descriptions saying ' degree/bachelor.'
Thanks a lot
At 24, I wanted to join MENSA, so took an IQ test: 128. I've been depressed many years, wasn't able to finish my college education, couldn't hold on to jobs very long because I constantly got in trouble with people, my relationships were a never-ending drama - I just didn't know myself. I really got to know myself through bodywork and experience-based therapy putting great emphasis on emotional and body awareness - coaching for my EQ, MQ, BQ. I feel so much more alive and whole now, and the job/relationship/education construction sites are finally coming along nicely, too. AND I get to enjoy my intelligence, too.
Honoring my son's life today...he passed on this day in 2005, age 35, and he is lovingly remembered and loved and blessed! xxoo Forever, Mom
My son, Jeff, born in 1970, was a musical savant, IQ 158. He passed on this day, cinco de Mayo, in 2005, at 35 yrs. of age, from complications of paranoid schitzophrenia. I am recalling fondly, one comment he made to me when he was about 17: "Mom, you are the best mom and I love you ~ you are such a 'June Cleaver'....and, Mom, nobody cares about our 4.0s! I miss Jeff so much, but believe he is leading the band in the stars. The band he began in the 90's in LA, was BONEYARD.
It was a great article. In fact it was a truth. I have always been a person who was good in academics. I use to think that only studies are the most important thing. But now the phase I am facing in my life has shown that my EQ, MQ and BQ is very low and this has resulted in my IQ level too. Its very hard to bring all the things together but yes I think keeping track of my EQ, MQ and BQ will help me out and bring me back to my level again. thank you.
I can't believe someone would guess exactly myself. I am that way. I developed IQ and I only deal who I trust by just reading the face of the person because I have skills to know what type persons are without even asking a question. I remember one time I saw unskilled man who was guilty of something very bad I then wrote him to understand me or ready for worst. He really thought was from Secret Service and some told me he later ran. About EQ, MQ and BQs have suffered from EQ which goes as far as nothing else but sometimes some of those are there but they can only function after IQ approves. If one hurts and the hurts hurt lot EQ can't work untill heeling happens. If me wrong and am gestured normally I don't jump until I make sure how far the person proves. it is only after that I make decisions because I can't be enough fool to pour my heart with first phrase. There is need that the subject details because he or she may think am not understood but also sometimes I see many things people talk and I don't understand. EQ is just a matter of activating because some disliked actions deactivated.I believe I can survive but am not very perfect. I must thank this writer 1million for letting me know my shortcomings and offering advice. I have to add what everyone would benefit.
[Hide Full Comment]Thanks for this very simple and understanding talk about brains.
Great article in a world where scoring more marks is treated as the No.1 aspect of success..
Thank You so much for sharing...)
Is the spelling error in the title to see who notices? (Relly)....just wondering.
Great points, Keld! This shows, in part, the value of balance. It takes a little of this and a little of that to reach our goals. Your post also shows how much power people possess in reaching goals, because we can all increase our EQ, MQ and BQ. Thanks for making time to write your post!