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Baba Ampoteza Mwana Kwa Saratani, Aanzisha Hisani Ya Kusafirisha Watoto Kwa Chemo

Richard Nares amesimama mbele ya moja ya gari nyingi ambazo taasisi yake hutumia kusafirisha watoto kwenda na kutoka kwa matibabu ya kidini. Facebook, The Emilio Nares Fou

Richard Nares alikabiliwa na woga mbaya zaidi wa mzazi wakati mwanawe Emilio alipogunduliwa na ugonjwa wa leukemia mwaka wa 1998 na kufariki kutokana na ugonjwa huo miaka miwili baadaye. Lakini aliweza kubadilisha huzuni yake kuwa hisani kwa kusaidia mamia ya familia kukabiliana na changamoto ngumu za ugonjwa wa utotoni, kwa kuwapa kiinua mgongo. Baada ya mtoto wake kufa, alirudi katika Hospitali ya Watoto ya Rady huko San Diego na kuwauliza wafanyikazi jinsi angeweza kusaidia wengine. Jibu lao: usafiri. Watoto waliogunduliwa na saratani na familia zao lazima wasafiri mbali na mara kwa mara ili kupokea matibabu, kama vile chemotherapy. Familia moja ambayo Richard alikutana nayo iliishi umbali wa maili 120 kutoka hospitalini. Mwingine alilazimika kusafiri kwenda hospitalini mara sita kwa juma lakini hakuwa na gari.

Kwa watoto wengine, matibabu ya chemotherapy ya caustic huacha mifumo yao ya kinga ikiwa dhaifu sana hivi kwamba hawawezi kuendesha usafiri wa umma uliojaa vijidudu.

Wazazi wengi hawana uhuru wa kuchukua muda bila malipo kutoka kazini. Baadhi ya familia za mzazi mmoja hulazimika kuchagua kati ya kumpeleka mtoto wao mgonjwa kwenye basi kwenye matibabu ya kemikali peke yake au kuwaacha ndugu zao bila usimamizi.

Aligundua kuwa watoto wengi walikuwa wamepanda basi kwa zaidi ya saa 4 kwenda na kurudi hospitalini au, mbaya zaidi, waliacha matibabu muhimu kabisa.

Ingawa Richard na Emilio walikuwa na wapanda farasi na kuungwa mkono na familia wakati wote wa ugonjwa wa Emilio, Richard aliona jinsi saratani ilivyokuwa kali kwa familia nyingi za kipato cha chini na akaamua kufanya jambo fulani.

"Ni ngumu sana, sio tu kihemko, lakini sasa kifedha," alisema. "Wakati mwingine, wazazi wote wawili wanapaswa kuacha kazi zao au kupunguza sana. Wengine ... hawana () $10 ya ziada kulipia chakula cha mkahawa."

Hapo mwanzo, aliendesha gari kuzunguka eneo la Buick yake, akiwapa familia safari za kwenda na kurudi hospitalini, lakini punde si punde maombi zaidi yalikuja. Kwa msaada wa wauguzi na wafanyakazi wa kijamii, alianzisha Wakfu wa Emilio Nares ili kupanua kazi yake katika programu rasmi, iliyoitwa Ride With Emilio.

Sasa, Wakfu wa Emilio Nares hutoa safari 2,500 za bila malipo kwa watoto na familia kwa mwaka kwa hospitali kadhaa Kusini mwa California. Wakfu pia hutoa usaidizi kwa familia zinazotoa utetezi wa wagonjwa kwa lugha mbili, na hata usaidizi wa kufiwa na mazishi.

Ride With Emilio imetambuliwa na Madaktari Mkuu wa Upasuaji wa Marekani na Rais Barack Obama kama mfano wa mfano. Hivi majuzi, Richard ameteuliwa kuhusika katika mfululizo wa CNN Heroes .

Kwa sasa, Richard anakimbia kutoka Golden Gate Bridge huko San Francisco hadi Hospitali ya Watoto ya Rady huko San Diego akichangisha pesa kwa ajili ya msingi wake.

Ingawa anaweza kuwa shujaa, Richard pia anafaidika na kazi yake. Kusaidia wengine humleta karibu na mtoto wake.

"Kweli yeye ndiye nguvu," Nares alisema. "Ingawa ameaga dunia karibu miaka 13, bado ni kama yuko nami. Kama vile bado yuko kwenye bega langu au bado anavuta sikio langu kama zamani."

Tembelea Wakfu wa Emilio Nares ili kujua zaidi kuhusu kazi yake.

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Amy Quinney Jul 10, 2014

I have been so inspired by your postings. It warms my heart to read about people who are in need and suffering, who have been helped by the people who sent in a message about what they were doing to help the people who were suffering. I congratulate those people who understand what it is like to be struggling to adapt to everyday life. We should all be thankful to the people who sent in stories about struggles of many people who are dealing with heavy problems. I have been so encouraged to always try to see the positive side of life and know that we are not alone! With great appreciation for your emails, Amy Quinney

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Alberto G. Jul 10, 2014

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Sundisilver Jul 10, 2014

Mr. Nares is definitely a hero. Kudos, Mr. Nares, for all you do.

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Carolyn Bivens Jul 10, 2014

What a meaningful way to turn pain and grief into service for others. Pain and loss can instruct us how to live if we listen. Richard is an inspirational example of how to find purpose and fill a need.

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deborah j barnes Jul 10, 2014
Now expand this..in a for profit focus we lose the best part of who we are as human beings, Transportation should be in a healing "package" but it is not the responsibility of a medical system that is there to profit- aka lose responsibility, turns doctors into cogs etc. At the same time we are taught to buy crap we don't use, that falls apart, that is outdated asap. All in all we have been tricked into many false beliefs, beliefs that protect the pattern that is under the systems we started before we knew-diddly! This in order to maintain lifestyles that smash our immune systems which opens pathways for dis-ease. Until we recognize the monster, face it and change our patterns we will spiral down until ...ugly isions --yup like most futurama flicks. If we change to focus on our part on a living planet aka in the larger whole , realize we are ecosystemic life forms, and that we can consciously choose new choices that will actualize an entirely new cultural construct one that al... [View Full Comment]
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Kristin Pedemonti Jul 10, 2014

Beautiful & concrete example of how our own pain may heal through serving others. Bravo to Richard Nares. May Emilio continue to live on through your kindness.