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nagbabago ang anyo, at ang hugis ng bagong katawan nito ay naging parang Dragonfly. Sa pagtanggap sa hamon na patunayan ang kapangyarihan at husay nito, nawala ang kapangyarihan ng Dragon."

Nagustuhan ng lalaki ang ideya na ang hubris ng dragon ay hahantong sa hindi gaanong makapangyarihan ngunit magandang anyo. Ngunit sa sarili nitong paraan, ang tutubi ay isang mahiwagang nilalang, na may kakayahan—tulad ng ipinakita ng mga siyentipiko—ng mga kamangha-manghang gawa, na may isang anyo ng katalinuhan na malamang na hindi natin lubos na mauunawaan ng mga tao. At isang kakanyahan na tila nakakaakit sa lahat ng uri ng tao, mula sa mga entomologist hanggang sa mga manunulat ng kalikasan at maliliit na bata na naglalaro sa mga lawa.

Bagama't ang mekanika ng kung paano "gumana" ang tutubi ay nakaakit sa mga siyentipiko at pinuno ng militar, ang iba pang mga aspeto ng insekto ay matagal nang nakakaintriga sa mga tao ng isang mas mystical na baluktot. Ang pananaliksik ng lalaki ay nagsiwalat na ang mga tutubi ay may espesyal na kahulugan sa mga kultura sa buong mundo at sa buong panahon. Ang ilang mga tao ay iginagalang ang tutubi, ang iba ay natatakot dito. Syempre mas marami pa itong sinasabi tungkol sa ating mga tao kaysa sa insekto.

Ang kakaiba sa kanya ay ang tradisyonal na pag-uugnay ng mga kulturang Asyano at Katutubong Amerikano sa tutubi sa mga positibong katangian—kasaganaan, pagkakasundo, kaligayahan, magandang kapalaran, at kadalisayan—habang ang ilang mga European na lipunan ay itinuturing na ito ay may nakakapinsala at maging demonyo, na tinatawag itong mga bagay tulad ng hayop ng mga mangkukulam, karayom ​​ng demonyo, at ahas ng tagapaglingkod. Isinasaalang-alang ang kanyang sariling mga ugat sa Europa, natagpuan niya ang mga huling asosasyon na nakakagambala. Ano ang maaaring dahilan para sa gayong madilim na mga pangitain, na iba sa kabutihang naisip ng ibang mga tao? Ito kaya ang kalikasan ng kanilang mga relihiyon, ang kanilang espirituwal na paniniwala?

Nilinaw ng pananaliksik ng lalaki na, sa lahat ng kanilang pagkakaiba, iniuugnay ng maraming kultura ang tutubi sa pagbabago. Iyan mismo ay hindi nakakagulat, dahil ang metamorphosis ay sentro ng buhay nito (at ng iba pang mga insekto). Ngunit kung naunawaan niya nang tama ang kanyang mga pinagmumulan, ang uri ng pagbabago na kinakatawan ng tutubi ay pangunahin sa isang panloob na uri: isang paggalaw palayo sa kultura o personal na mga ilusyon na gumagabay sa ating buhay ngunit sa katunayan ay itinatago kung ano ang pinakamahalaga o "totoo," at tungo sa isang mas malalim at mas malinaw na pag-unawa—isang mas malinaw na pananaw, masasabi ng isa—sa sarili, buhay, at mundo, kabilang ang ilang hindi nakikitang mga aspeto na tinatawag na "hindi nakikita."

Sa ibang paraan, ang pagbabagong kinakatawan ng tutubi ay isang pagbabago tungo sa mas mataas na kamalayan, karunungan, at kalinawan. Patungo sa pagiging tunay.

Itinuring ng lalaki na ang lahat ng iyon ay nakapagpapatibay. Marahil ang kanyang hindi pangkaraniwang pakikipagtagpo sa mga tutubi ay nagpahiwatig na siya ay gumagalaw sa tamang direksyon, patungo sa isang mas tunay na sarili.

Ang lalaki ay tila dumaan sa isang uri ng panloob na pagbabago. Sinimulan niyang mas seryosong tanungin at hamunin ang marami sa mga pangunahing "katotohanan" ng kanyang kultura, ang mga halaga, pagpapalagay, at kasunduan nito; kung ano ang iniisip nating mga moderno, high-tech, nalulong sa Internet na mga Amerikano na alam natin tungkol sa mundo at sa mas malaking kosmos (o “paglikha”) at sa ating lugar dito. Nadama niya ang kanyang sarili na nagbubukas sa iba't ibang paraan ng pag-alam sa mundo at pagiging naririto; at kung ano ang naisip niyang mas malalaking katotohanan, na higit pa sa maaaring ipaliwanag ng alinman sa agham o relihiyosong mga institusyon. O kahit na isaalang-alang na posible.

Ang imaheng paulit-ulit na umuulit ay isa sa kanyang sarili na nakahanda sa ilang threshold o pambihirang tagumpay, kahit na minsan ay iniisip niya kung siya ay nahaharap sa higit na pagkasira. At habang nag-aalala siya na kung minsan ay sineseryoso niya ang mga bagay-bagay (at ang kanyang sarili), naramdaman din niya na minsan ay pinipigilan niya ang kanyang sarili, na sinasalot ng mga pagdududa, kawalan ng kapanatagan, paghuhusga sa sarili.

Ang gulong gulo ko, naisip niya. Ngunit iyon ang nangyayari kapag ang mga bagay ay nayayanig. Pagkatapos, na may ngiti at marahil ay bahagyang tumawa, isa pang pamilyar na ideya ang pumasok sa kanya: Masyado akong nag-iisip.

Sa huli, hindi matiyak ng lalaki kung ano ang ibig sabihin ng pagpasok ng mga tutubi sa kanyang buhay. At bakit kailangang "ibig sabihin" ang anumang bagay? Ngunit sigurado siyang hindi ito nagkataon lamang. At anuman ang mga kahulugan o simbolismo nating mga tao sa mga tutubi, ang tila pinakamalinaw—at mahalaga—sa kanya ay nakuha ng mga ito ang kanyang atensyon at kahit papaano ay napukaw siya, marahil ay nakipag-ugnayan pa sa kanya sa antas na hindi pa niya maintindihan. At ito: may ilang portal o belo na nagbukas, kung saglit lang, at siya ay nakalusot. Sa kakaiba at hindi maipaliwanag na paraan, lumaki ang kanyang mundo. At hindi ba't maraming sinasabi iyon?

Kaya doon nagtatapos ang kwento. Maliban dito: gaya ng nahulaan mo, ako ang taong tutubi. At kung ano ang ibinahagi ko ay malapit sa katotohanan na maaari kong makuha, dahil sa kung ano ang alam at nararamdaman ko tungkol sa insidente ng tutubi at kung ano ang natutunan ko mula noong huling bahagi ng mga araw ng tag-init—at kinikilalang mayroong palaging higit pang mga layer upang tuklasin.

Makatitiyak kang bibigyan ko ng mas malapit na pansin ang mga tutubi at mapapaalalahanan kung gaano kaunti, talaga, tayong mga tao ang alam tungkol sa mundo (at sa ating sarili) sa kabila ng lahat ng ating natutunan. At ako, para sa isa, ay ipagdiriwang ang misteryo.

Oh, may isa pang piraso sa patuloy na kuwentong ito na kailangan kong ibahagi, isang kamakailang karanasan na halos nakalimutan ko, kahit na hindi ko alam kung paano iyon posible. Isang umaga habang lumilipad sa malabong lugar na iyon sa pagitan ng pagtulog at pagpupuyat, nagkaroon ako ng panaginip o isang pangitain, kung saan ang mga sirang bahagi ng katawan ng tutubi na nakita ko sa aking bakuran—ang mga bahaging iyon ay nakolekta pa rin sa isang maliit na puting kahon, na inilagay sa isang istante sa aking silid—nagsama-samang muli upang gawing muli ang kumpletong nilalang. Sa maraming posibleng interpretasyon, ito ang unang dumating sa akin: isang pagbabalik sa kabuuan. At sapat na iyon sa ngayon.

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Pat Apr 25, 2023
I had a magical encounter of a different sort. On an afternoon hike to a hill not too far from me in NH, I came to an expansive field with hundreds, if not thousands, of dragonflies zooming back and forth over the tall weeds and wildflowers, the sun glistening on their wings. The air was filled with them. What a breathtaking thing to witness! I have seen much smaller versions in my backyard -- but maybe only a dozen or fewer.
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 28, 2023
Pat, thanks for sharing your own amazing encounter.
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Anna F. Apr 9, 2023
Oh my! What a piece of writing and sharing about mystery. "A hinged and serrated lower jaw" … only to end that paragraph with the part where I chortled — "a pollywog’s worst nightmare." Then on to more philosophical wonderings in the mythic story of the dragon’s hubris transforming him/her into a dragonfly but still magnificent. And then the science bit about flying and still seeing us when they have passed us by; and that without a rear view mirror. My personal story is a moment I’ll never forget. It happened somewhere between a swamp area and a quiet stretch of ocean beach just north of the 49th latitude in Western Canada. It was a warm, late spring day. Not a soul there except myself, birds and the "invisibles." First I heard a thrumming that was not quite a wing beat coming up behind me. It was actually thousands of gossamer wing beats in unison. Very soon I was in the middle of a throng of hundreds if not thousands of blue darners flying at my head level and slightl... [View Full Comment]
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Anna, wow, what an experience you share! Yes, so many questions after such a wonder-filled experience. I love (and relate to) your statement, "I was outside of thought and simply in a moment of revelation." And yes to celebrating (and embracing) the mystery!
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dail Apr 8, 2023
Thank you...we need this expansive embrace and appreciation of living things for our own evolution.
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Thanks, dail. Your comment makes sense to me.
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Seraphina Landgrebe Apr 7, 2023
Fantastic story. Beautifully written. Touched my spirit and love is nature, birds and much greater appreciation of dragonflies. Thank you, seraphina. www.seraphina.com
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Thanks, Seraphina. I have briefly visited your website and love your images. Will give it a closer look.
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Barb Apr 7, 2023
AWESOME!!! So much to learn from the most simple and touching experiences in our relationship with nature! As I age and ponder, I become more aware and at peace with varied life experiences with parts of nature that I ounce feared. Thank you for sharing your personal insights of the blue dragonfly...
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Barb, yes, "so much to learn." And I, like you, am becoming "more aware and at peace" as I grow older (and, I hope, grow in wisdom as well).
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Nancy Vermond Apr 7, 2023
Thank you for the dragonfly story. I read the whole thing, though it took more than one sitting. I like that the dragonflies were catching his attention! That's how I thought/ felt about the baby squirrel. He definitely got my attention, climbing up and sitting on my bicycle seat and staring at me! Asking for help. That was quite a surprise. Like the dragonfly, needing help, but also giving so much. I also liked how it raised questions of our relationship with other life forms. I am very much into that enquiry myself, wanting to honor other beings, but at the same time I am eating meat that often comes from a place of cruelty to the animals whose flesh I am eating. TIme to think about this again!
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Nancy, thanks for your own story. And yes, our human relationships with other beings/life forms is complicated. Being open to new possibilities is important, I believe.
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 6, 2023
Thank you to all who've posted these wonderful responses to my essay. I'm deeply moved by your comments and when time allows I'll do my best to respond to each person individually.
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Linda Apr 6, 2023
I loved reading your beautiful story. I also have had a magical encounter with a tiny electric blue dragonfly in the ti-tree lakes in northern N.S.W. in Australia one summer afternoon. I was standing in the lake and saw a tiny dragonfly floating on the water. I thought it was dead and picked it up. I placed it on my palm and realised it was still alive. It took a few minutes for the dragonfly to recover, stood up on its tiny legs, primping and preening itself, shaking its wings. After a few minutes it stopped and looked at me, gazing at me - and me looking at it - in my palm close to my face. It was as if time stopped - me staring into its tiny extraterresstial, eyes with the tiny black centre - we became one - I don't know how long we were connected but it was extraordinary, then it just flew away. But I was changed forever. It was an amazing encounter - and have felt a strong, loving connection to dragonflies ever since. I see them everywhere. When visiting that lake a year lat... [View Full Comment]
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Linda, thanks to you for sharing your own beautiful and magical story. There is so much we humans don't know about the larger world of which we're a part.
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Sharon Apr 6, 2023
I so love this. I wrote(in my book A Blessing of Toads) a similar/though not similar, experience of rescuing a dragonfly along a roadside in Maine. It returned to me the next morning after the eve I released it. Such magic. I must relate that in Cahuila myths the dragonfly will only land on those people who are pure of heart. They have a song, Ush Kana, that is used to call them down from the sky. I did this, and the dragonfly came.
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Sharon, thanks for sharing your own experiences and understandings taken from "Cahuila myths." To "call" dragonflies from the sky--and have the animal respond--seems mystical indeed. I will check out your book, thanks for that information.
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Marcia Zina Apr 6, 2023
Beautiful story! When I was young (about 50 years ago) I used to play with "automatic writing"! And a sentence came through about dragonflies that has always stayed with me and that I never fully understood: "Dragonflies seem drastically treacherous, knowing only the solitude of becoming."
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Marcia, yes, an intriguing and perhaps unsettling statement. What's your interpretation now?
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Carol Apr 6, 2023
I am so glad to have read this. Dragonflies have always attracted me. But the main pleasure for me, in this writing, is the reflective quality of the author's experience, even his admissions of forgetting and other human foibles. I'm grateful to Daily Good for making this available for reading.
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Carol, I add my thanks to DailyGood for sharing the story.
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sadhana Apr 6, 2023
It is an extraordinary article.Thanks for posting it.
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Sadhana, it's my pleasure and honor to share this story.
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myrna Apr 6, 2023
beautifully written and relatable…. thank you
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Judith Apr 6, 2023
So well written and transformative! Thank you for waking me up!
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Thank you, both Myrna and Judith.
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Kristin Pedemonti Apr 6, 2023
Thank you Bill for sharing your meaningful encounters with dragonflies. I too have had magical & mystical moments with these 'fairies' including in a parking lot outside of Nairobi Kenya when I was suddenly surrounded by 10 or more of these mystical creatures just after a Storytelling Performance. Just lovely. Often dragonflies find me when I'm in times of transition or challenge with a choice. I do my best to listen. 🙏
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Kristin, wow, your experience in Kenya sounds marvelous, as the "mystical creatures" were apparently drawn in by the energy you carried. Mystical, yes!
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Patrick Apr 6, 2023
Oh the stories I could tell of dragonflies, frogs and more, but I’ll not disturb this beauty with reminiscing of my own. I suspect though that this will stir much in others hearts and minds. }:- a.m.
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Patrick, other "reminiscences" are welcome. Frogs are another of my favorite life forms.
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Mer Apr 6, 2023
How refreshing to come upon this story, just this morning on coming back from deep inner space, where I gently touched a somewhat sperical blue orb like a water balloon, and hoping it did not hurt it to do so, and "getting" an understanding of "no, it tickles". I chuckle, knowing full well we've been put to sleep like Rip Van Winkle, and waking up is inevitable. I chuckle to know I don't take offense that many still sleeping would snicker, if they saw me this morning, tickling a blue sphere, and escorting a granddaddy-long- leg outside from within a large Mason jar to be free to scuttle among the two-inch wild tulips I planted and forgot about until they emerged, like bright stars awakening , remembering they have a coronosphere turned on. My cup fills full with your sharing.
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Anna F Apr 9, 2023
Beautiful. Thanks.
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Thanks, Mer, for your reflections and the sharing of your experiences. I agree with Anna, "beautiful." I admit that at times I'm more "asleep" other times more wakeful and open to the many dimensions of life.
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Lionel Apr 6, 2023
Mmm, such compelling writing sharing an experience so far from anything I know. Thank you for your willingness to express the authenticity of your inner life and thoughts.
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Lionel, it was a pleasure and honor to write about the experience and my "interior" world.
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Colette Apr 6, 2023
Beautifully written, deeply touching, spiritually uplifting, filled with awe and reverence for the mystery of life - the mystical - that saturates our incredible world... Thank you
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Thanks, Colette, for your comments.