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breytti um form og lögun nýja líkama þess varð eins og Drekaflugunnar. Með því að taka áskoruninni að sanna mátt sinn og töfrahæfileika missti Drekinn mátt sinn.

Manninum líkaði hugmyndin að hroki drekans myndi leiða til minna öflugs en fallegs forms. En á sinn hátt er drekaflugan eins konar töfravera, fær um - eins og vísindamenn hafa sýnt fram á - ótrúleg afrek, með greind sem við mennirnir munum líklega aldrei skilja til fulls. Og kjarni sem virðist heilla alls kyns fólk, allt frá skordýrafræðingum til náttúruhöfunda og lítilla barna sem leika sér í tjörnum.

Þótt virkni drekaflugunnar hafi heillað vísindamenn og herforingja, þá hafa aðrir þættir skordýrsins lengi vakið áhuga manna með dulrænni ívafi. Rannsóknir mannsins leiddu í ljós að drekaflugur hafa haft sérstaka merkingu í menningarheimum um allan heim og í gegnum tíðina. Sumir hafa dáð drekafluguna, aðrir óttast hana. Auðvitað segir það meira um okkur mennina en skordýrið sjálft.

Það sem honum fannst sérstaklega sérstakt var að menningarheimar Asíu og frumbyggja Ameríku hafa hefðbundið tengt drekafluguna við jákvæða eiginleika — velmegun, sátt, hamingju, gæfu og hreinleika — á meðan fjöldi evrópskra samfélaga töldu hana hafa skaðlegt og jafnvel djöfullegt eðli og kölluðu hana til dæmis norndýr, djöfulsnál og snákþjón. Miðað við eigin evrópskar rætur fannst honum þessi síðarnefndu tengsl áhyggjuefni. Hvað gæti skýrt svona dökkar sýnir, svo ólíkar þeirri gæsku sem aðrar þjóðir ímynduðu sér? Gæti það verið eðli trúarbragða þeirra, andleg viðhorf þeirra?

Rannsókn mannsins leiddi í ljós að þrátt fyrir allan sinn mun tengja margar menningarheimar drekann við breytingar. Það kemur í sjálfu sér ekki á óvart, þar sem umbreyting er kjarninn í lífi hans (og annarra skordýra). En ef hann skildi heimildir sínar rétt, þá er sú tegund breytinga sem drekann táknar fyrst og fremst innri tegundar: hreyfing frá menningarlegum eða persónulegum blekkingum sem leiðbeina lífi okkar en í raun fela það sem er nauðsynlegast eða „raunverulegast“ og í átt að dýpri og skýrari skilningi – skýrari sýn, mætti ​​segja – á sjálfum sér, lífinu og heiminum, þar á meðal óáþreifanlegum þáttum hans eða því sem sumir myndu kalla „ósýnilega hluti“.

Öðruvísi sagt, þá er breytingin sem drekaflugan táknar breyting í átt að aukinni meðvitund, visku og skýrleika. Í átt að áreiðanleika.

Maðurinn taldi allt þetta hvetjandi. Kannski bentu óvenjulegu kynni hans við drekaflugurnar til þess að hann væri að stefna í rétta átt, í átt að raunverulegri sjálfsmynd.

Maðurinn virtist vera að ganga í gegnum einhvers konar innri breytingar. Hann hafði byrjað að efast alvarlegar um og véfengja marga af meginstraumum „sannleika“ menningar sinnar, gildi hennar, forsendur og samkomulag; það sem við nútíma, hátækni, netfíkn Bandaríkjamenn höldum að við vitum um heiminn og stærra alheiminn (eða „sköpunina“) og okkar stöðu í honum. Hann fann sig opnast fyrir mismunandi leiðum til að þekkja heiminn og vera í honum; og því sem hann ímyndaði sér að væri stærri veruleiki, umfram það sem annað hvort vísindi eða trúarstofnanir geta útskýrt. Eða jafnvel talið mögulegt.

Myndin sem endurtók sig var af honum sjálfum staðinn á einhverjum þröskuldi eða byltingarkenndum atburðum, þótt hann velti því stundum fyrir sér hvort hann gæti staðið frammi fyrir meira eins konar niðurbroti. Og þótt hann hefði áhyggjur af því að hann tæki stundum hlutina (og sjálfan sig) of alvarlega, fann hann líka að hann hélt stundum aftur af sér, hrjáður af efasemdum, óöryggi og sjálfsdómum.

„Hvílíkur ruglingur ég er,“ hugsaði hann. „En það gerist þegar hlutirnir fara í uppnám.“ Þá, með brosi og kannski jafnvel smá hlátri, datt honum önnur kunnugleg hugsun í hug: Ég hugsa alltof mikið.

Að lokum gat maðurinn ekki verið viss um hvað það þýddi að drekaflugurnar kæmu inn í líf hans. Og hvers vegna þurfti það að „þýða“ eitthvað yfirhöfuð? En hann var nokkuð viss um að það hefði ekki gerst bara af tilviljun. Og hvaða merkingu eða táknfræði sem við mennirnir gætum tengt drekaflugum, þá virtist honum það ljósasta – og mikilvægasta – að þær höfðu vakið athygli hans og einhvern veginn hrært við hann, kannski jafnvel átt samskipti við hann á stigi sem hann gat ekki enn skilið. Og þetta: einhver hlið eða slæða hafði opnast, þótt aðeins væri stuttlega, og hann hafði stigið í gegn. Á einhvern undarlegan og óútskýranlegan hátt hafði heimur hans stækkað. Og segir það ekki ansi mikið?

Þar endar sagan. Nema hvað þetta varðar: eins og þið gætuð hafa giskað á, þá er ég drekaflugumaðurinn. Og það sem ég hef deilt er eins nálægt sannleikanum og ég get komist, miðað við það sem ég veit og finn um drekafluguatvikið og það sem ég hef lært síðan þá síðsumarsdögum – og viðurkenningu á því að það eru alltaf fleiri atriði til að skoða.

Þú getur verið viss um að ég mun fylgjast betur með drekaflugum og muna hversu lítið við mannfólkið vitum í raun um heiminn (og okkur sjálf) þrátt fyrir allt sem við höfum lært. Og ég, að minnsta kosti, mun fagna leyndardómnum.

Ó, það er einn hluti í viðbót í þessari sögu sem ég þarf að deila, nýleg reynsla sem ég hafði næstum gleymt, þó ég viti ekki hvernig það er mögulegt. Einn morguninn, þegar ég rak um þennan þokukennda stað milli svefns og vöku, dreymdi mig annað hvort draum eða sýn, þar sem brotnir líkamshlutar drekaflugunnar sem ég hafði fundið í garðinum mínum – þessir hlutar sem enn voru safnaðir saman í litlum hvítum kassa, settum á hillu í svefnherberginu mínu – sameinuðust aftur til að endurskapa alla veruna. Meðal margra mögulegra túlkana er þetta það sem kom fyrst til mín: afturhvarf til heildar. Og það er nóg í bili.

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Pat Apr 25, 2023
I had a magical encounter of a different sort. On an afternoon hike to a hill not too far from me in NH, I came to an expansive field with hundreds, if not thousands, of dragonflies zooming back and forth over the tall weeds and wildflowers, the sun glistening on their wings. The air was filled with them. What a breathtaking thing to witness! I have seen much smaller versions in my backyard -- but maybe only a dozen or fewer.
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 28, 2023
Pat, thanks for sharing your own amazing encounter.
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Anna F. Apr 9, 2023
Oh my! What a piece of writing and sharing about mystery. "A hinged and serrated lower jaw" … only to end that paragraph with the part where I chortled — "a pollywog’s worst nightmare." Then on to more philosophical wonderings in the mythic story of the dragon’s hubris transforming him/her into a dragonfly but still magnificent. And then the science bit about flying and still seeing us when they have passed us by; and that without a rear view mirror. My personal story is a moment I’ll never forget. It happened somewhere between a swamp area and a quiet stretch of ocean beach just north of the 49th latitude in Western Canada. It was a warm, late spring day. Not a soul there except myself, birds and the "invisibles." First I heard a thrumming that was not quite a wing beat coming up behind me. It was actually thousands of gossamer wing beats in unison. Very soon I was in the middle of a throng of hundreds if not thousands of blue darners flying at my head level and slightl... [View Full Comment]
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Anna, wow, what an experience you share! Yes, so many questions after such a wonder-filled experience. I love (and relate to) your statement, "I was outside of thought and simply in a moment of revelation." And yes to celebrating (and embracing) the mystery!
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dail Apr 8, 2023
Thank you...we need this expansive embrace and appreciation of living things for our own evolution.
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Thanks, dail. Your comment makes sense to me.
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Seraphina Landgrebe Apr 7, 2023
Fantastic story. Beautifully written. Touched my spirit and love is nature, birds and much greater appreciation of dragonflies. Thank you, seraphina. www.seraphina.com
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Thanks, Seraphina. I have briefly visited your website and love your images. Will give it a closer look.
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Barb Apr 7, 2023
AWESOME!!! So much to learn from the most simple and touching experiences in our relationship with nature! As I age and ponder, I become more aware and at peace with varied life experiences with parts of nature that I ounce feared. Thank you for sharing your personal insights of the blue dragonfly...
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Barb, yes, "so much to learn." And I, like you, am becoming "more aware and at peace" as I grow older (and, I hope, grow in wisdom as well).
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Nancy Vermond Apr 7, 2023
Thank you for the dragonfly story. I read the whole thing, though it took more than one sitting. I like that the dragonflies were catching his attention! That's how I thought/ felt about the baby squirrel. He definitely got my attention, climbing up and sitting on my bicycle seat and staring at me! Asking for help. That was quite a surprise. Like the dragonfly, needing help, but also giving so much. I also liked how it raised questions of our relationship with other life forms. I am very much into that enquiry myself, wanting to honor other beings, but at the same time I am eating meat that often comes from a place of cruelty to the animals whose flesh I am eating. TIme to think about this again!
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Nancy, thanks for your own story. And yes, our human relationships with other beings/life forms is complicated. Being open to new possibilities is important, I believe.
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 6, 2023
Thank you to all who've posted these wonderful responses to my essay. I'm deeply moved by your comments and when time allows I'll do my best to respond to each person individually.
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Linda Apr 6, 2023
I loved reading your beautiful story. I also have had a magical encounter with a tiny electric blue dragonfly in the ti-tree lakes in northern N.S.W. in Australia one summer afternoon. I was standing in the lake and saw a tiny dragonfly floating on the water. I thought it was dead and picked it up. I placed it on my palm and realised it was still alive. It took a few minutes for the dragonfly to recover, stood up on its tiny legs, primping and preening itself, shaking its wings. After a few minutes it stopped and looked at me, gazing at me - and me looking at it - in my palm close to my face. It was as if time stopped - me staring into its tiny extraterresstial, eyes with the tiny black centre - we became one - I don't know how long we were connected but it was extraordinary, then it just flew away. But I was changed forever. It was an amazing encounter - and have felt a strong, loving connection to dragonflies ever since. I see them everywhere. When visiting that lake a year lat... [View Full Comment]
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Linda, thanks to you for sharing your own beautiful and magical story. There is so much we humans don't know about the larger world of which we're a part.
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Sharon Apr 6, 2023
I so love this. I wrote(in my book A Blessing of Toads) a similar/though not similar, experience of rescuing a dragonfly along a roadside in Maine. It returned to me the next morning after the eve I released it. Such magic. I must relate that in Cahuila myths the dragonfly will only land on those people who are pure of heart. They have a song, Ush Kana, that is used to call them down from the sky. I did this, and the dragonfly came.
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Sharon, thanks for sharing your own experiences and understandings taken from "Cahuila myths." To "call" dragonflies from the sky--and have the animal respond--seems mystical indeed. I will check out your book, thanks for that information.
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Marcia Zina Apr 6, 2023
Beautiful story! When I was young (about 50 years ago) I used to play with "automatic writing"! And a sentence came through about dragonflies that has always stayed with me and that I never fully understood: "Dragonflies seem drastically treacherous, knowing only the solitude of becoming."
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Marcia, yes, an intriguing and perhaps unsettling statement. What's your interpretation now?
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Carol Apr 6, 2023
I am so glad to have read this. Dragonflies have always attracted me. But the main pleasure for me, in this writing, is the reflective quality of the author's experience, even his admissions of forgetting and other human foibles. I'm grateful to Daily Good for making this available for reading.
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Carol, I add my thanks to DailyGood for sharing the story.
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sadhana Apr 6, 2023
It is an extraordinary article.Thanks for posting it.
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Sadhana, it's my pleasure and honor to share this story.
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myrna Apr 6, 2023
beautifully written and relatable…. thank you
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Judith Apr 6, 2023
So well written and transformative! Thank you for waking me up!
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Thank you, both Myrna and Judith.
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Kristin Pedemonti Apr 6, 2023
Thank you Bill for sharing your meaningful encounters with dragonflies. I too have had magical & mystical moments with these 'fairies' including in a parking lot outside of Nairobi Kenya when I was suddenly surrounded by 10 or more of these mystical creatures just after a Storytelling Performance. Just lovely. Often dragonflies find me when I'm in times of transition or challenge with a choice. I do my best to listen. 🙏
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Kristin, wow, your experience in Kenya sounds marvelous, as the "mystical creatures" were apparently drawn in by the energy you carried. Mystical, yes!
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Patrick Apr 6, 2023
Oh the stories I could tell of dragonflies, frogs and more, but I’ll not disturb this beauty with reminiscing of my own. I suspect though that this will stir much in others hearts and minds. }:- a.m.
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Patrick, other "reminiscences" are welcome. Frogs are another of my favorite life forms.
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Mer Apr 6, 2023
How refreshing to come upon this story, just this morning on coming back from deep inner space, where I gently touched a somewhat sperical blue orb like a water balloon, and hoping it did not hurt it to do so, and "getting" an understanding of "no, it tickles". I chuckle, knowing full well we've been put to sleep like Rip Van Winkle, and waking up is inevitable. I chuckle to know I don't take offense that many still sleeping would snicker, if they saw me this morning, tickling a blue sphere, and escorting a granddaddy-long- leg outside from within a large Mason jar to be free to scuttle among the two-inch wild tulips I planted and forgot about until they emerged, like bright stars awakening , remembering they have a coronosphere turned on. My cup fills full with your sharing.
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Anna F Apr 9, 2023
Beautiful. Thanks.
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Thanks, Mer, for your reflections and the sharing of your experiences. I agree with Anna, "beautiful." I admit that at times I'm more "asleep" other times more wakeful and open to the many dimensions of life.
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Lionel Apr 6, 2023
Mmm, such compelling writing sharing an experience so far from anything I know. Thank you for your willingness to express the authenticity of your inner life and thoughts.
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Lionel, it was a pleasure and honor to write about the experience and my "interior" world.
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Colette Apr 6, 2023
Beautifully written, deeply touching, spiritually uplifting, filled with awe and reverence for the mystery of life - the mystical - that saturates our incredible world... Thank you
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Thanks, Colette, for your comments.