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berubah bentuk, dan bentuk tubuh barunya menjadi seperti Dragonfly. Dalam menerima tantangan untuk membuktikan kekuatan dan kehebatan sihirnya, Dragon kehilangan kekuatannya.”

Pria itu menyukai gagasan bahwa kesombongan naga akan menghasilkan bentuk yang kurang kuat tetapi cantik. Namun dengan caranya sendiri, capung adalah makhluk ajaib, yang mampu—seperti yang telah ditunjukkan para ilmuwan—melakukan hal-hal yang menakjubkan, dengan bentuk kecerdasan yang mungkin tidak akan pernah sepenuhnya dipahami oleh manusia. Dan esensi yang tampaknya memikat semua jenis orang, mulai dari ahli entomologi hingga penulis alam dan anak-anak kecil yang bermain di kolam.

Meskipun mekanisme cara kerja capung telah memikat para ilmuwan dan pemimpin militer, aspek lain dari serangga tersebut telah lama menarik minat manusia yang memiliki kecenderungan lebih mistis. Penelitian pria tersebut mengungkapkan bahwa capung memiliki makna khusus dalam budaya di seluruh dunia dan sepanjang masa. Beberapa orang memuja capung, yang lain takut padanya. Tentu saja hal itu lebih banyak menjelaskan tentang kita manusia daripada serangga itu sendiri.

Yang menurutnya sangat aneh adalah bahwa budaya Asia dan penduduk asli Amerika secara tradisional mengaitkan capung dengan kualitas positif—kemakmuran, keharmonisan, kebahagiaan, keberuntungan, dan kemurnian—sementara sejumlah masyarakat Eropa menganggapnya memiliki sifat yang berbahaya dan bahkan jahat, menyebutnya dengan sebutan seperti binatang penyihir, jarum setan, dan pelayan ular. Mengingat asal-usulnya sendiri di Eropa, ia merasa asosiasi yang terakhir itu meresahkan. Apa yang dapat menjelaskan penglihatan yang begitu gelap, yang sangat berbeda dari kebaikan yang dibayangkan orang lain? Mungkinkah itu karena sifat agama mereka, kepercayaan spiritual mereka?

Penelitian pria itu memperjelas bahwa, terlepas dari semua perbedaan mereka, banyak budaya mengaitkan capung dengan perubahan. Hal itu sendiri tidak mengejutkan, karena metamorfosis merupakan inti kehidupan capung (dan kehidupan serangga lainnya). Namun, jika ia memahami sumbernya dengan benar, jenis perubahan yang diwakili oleh capung terutama bersifat internal: gerakan menjauh dari ilusi budaya atau pribadi yang memandu kehidupan kita tetapi sebenarnya menyembunyikan apa yang paling penting atau "nyata", dan menuju pemahaman yang lebih dalam dan lebih jelas—visi yang lebih jelas, bisa dikatakan—tentang diri, kehidupan, dan dunia, termasuk aspek-aspeknya yang tidak berwujud atau apa yang oleh sebagian orang disebut sebagai "yang tak terlihat".

Dengan kata lain, perubahan yang dilambangkan capung adalah pergeseran ke arah peningkatan kesadaran, kebijaksanaan, dan kejelasan. Menuju keaslian.

Pria itu menganggap semua itu menggembirakan. Mungkin pertemuannya yang tidak biasa dengan capung mengisyaratkan bahwa ia bergerak ke arah yang benar, menuju jati diri yang lebih sejati.

Pria itu tampaknya mengalami semacam perubahan batin. Ia mulai mempertanyakan dan menantang banyak "kebenaran" arus utama budayanya, nilai-nilai, asumsi, dan kesepakatannya; apa yang kita, orang Amerika modern, berteknologi tinggi, dan kecanduan internet, kira-kira kita ketahui tentang dunia dan kosmos yang lebih besar (atau "ciptaan") dan tempat kita di dalamnya. Ia merasa dirinya terbuka terhadap berbagai cara untuk mengetahui dunia dan berada di dalamnya; dan apa yang ia bayangkan sebagai realitas yang lebih besar, di luar apa yang dapat dijelaskan oleh sains atau lembaga keagamaan. Atau bahkan dianggap mungkin.

Gambaran yang terus terulang adalah dirinya yang berada di ambang atau terobosan, meskipun terkadang ia bertanya-tanya apakah ia mungkin menghadapi lebih banyak gangguan. Dan sementara ia khawatir bahwa ia terkadang menganggap sesuatu (dan dirinya sendiri) terlalu serius, ia juga merasakan bahwa ia terkadang menahan diri, diganggu oleh keraguan, rasa tidak aman, penilaian diri sendiri.

Betapa kacaunya diriku, pikirnya. Namun, itulah yang terjadi ketika keadaan menjadi kacau. Kemudian, sambil tersenyum dan mungkin sedikit tertawa, pikiran lain yang familier muncul di benaknya: Aku terlalu banyak berpikir.

Pada akhirnya, lelaki itu tidak yakin apa arti masuknya capung ke dalam hidupnya. Dan mengapa itu harus "berarti" apa pun? Namun, ia cukup yakin itu tidak terjadi begitu saja secara kebetulan. Dan apa pun makna atau simbolisme yang mungkin kita manusia kaitkan dengan capung, yang tampak paling jelas—dan penting—baginya adalah bahwa mereka telah menarik perhatiannya dan entah bagaimana menggugahnya, bahkan mungkin berkomunikasi dengannya pada tingkat yang belum dapat ia pahami. Dan ini: beberapa portal atau tabir telah terbuka, meski hanya sebentar, dan ia telah melangkah masuk. Dengan cara yang aneh dan tidak dapat dijelaskan, dunianya telah diperluas. Dan bukankah itu pernyataan yang berlebihan?

Jadi di situlah ceritanya berakhir. Kecuali untuk ini: seperti yang mungkin sudah Anda duga, saya adalah manusia capung. Dan apa yang saya bagikan sedekat mungkin dengan kebenaran, mengingat apa yang saya ketahui dan rasakan tentang insiden capung dan apa yang telah saya pelajari sejak hari-hari akhir musim panas itu—dan menyadari selalu ada lebih banyak lapisan untuk dijelajahi.

Anda dapat yakin bahwa saya akan lebih memerhatikan capung dan diingatkan betapa sedikitnya, sebenarnya, pengetahuan kita sebagai manusia tentang dunia (dan diri kita sendiri) terlepas dari semua yang telah kita pelajari. Dan saya, sebagai salah satu dari mereka, akan merayakan misteri itu.

Oh, ada satu bagian lagi dari kisah yang sedang berlangsung ini yang perlu saya bagikan, sebuah pengalaman baru-baru ini yang hampir saya lupakan, meskipun saya tidak tahu bagaimana itu mungkin. Suatu pagi ketika melayang melalui tempat yang samar antara tidur dan terjaga, saya bermimpi atau mendapat penglihatan, di mana bagian-bagian tubuh capung yang rusak yang saya temukan di halaman saya—bagian-bagian itu masih terkumpul dalam kotak putih kecil, diletakkan di atas rak di kamar tidur saya—digabungkan kembali untuk membentuk kembali makhluk itu secara utuh. Di antara sekian banyak kemungkinan penafsiran, inilah yang pertama kali muncul di benak saya: kembali ke keutuhan. Dan itu sudah cukup untuk saat ini.

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Pat Apr 25, 2023
I had a magical encounter of a different sort. On an afternoon hike to a hill not too far from me in NH, I came to an expansive field with hundreds, if not thousands, of dragonflies zooming back and forth over the tall weeds and wildflowers, the sun glistening on their wings. The air was filled with them. What a breathtaking thing to witness! I have seen much smaller versions in my backyard -- but maybe only a dozen or fewer.
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 28, 2023
Pat, thanks for sharing your own amazing encounter.
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Anna F. Apr 9, 2023
Oh my! What a piece of writing and sharing about mystery. "A hinged and serrated lower jaw" … only to end that paragraph with the part where I chortled — "a pollywog’s worst nightmare." Then on to more philosophical wonderings in the mythic story of the dragon’s hubris transforming him/her into a dragonfly but still magnificent. And then the science bit about flying and still seeing us when they have passed us by; and that without a rear view mirror. My personal story is a moment I’ll never forget. It happened somewhere between a swamp area and a quiet stretch of ocean beach just north of the 49th latitude in Western Canada. It was a warm, late spring day. Not a soul there except myself, birds and the "invisibles." First I heard a thrumming that was not quite a wing beat coming up behind me. It was actually thousands of gossamer wing beats in unison. Very soon I was in the middle of a throng of hundreds if not thousands of blue darners flying at my head level and slightl... [View Full Comment]
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Anna, wow, what an experience you share! Yes, so many questions after such a wonder-filled experience. I love (and relate to) your statement, "I was outside of thought and simply in a moment of revelation." And yes to celebrating (and embracing) the mystery!
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dail Apr 8, 2023
Thank you...we need this expansive embrace and appreciation of living things for our own evolution.
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Thanks, dail. Your comment makes sense to me.
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Seraphina Landgrebe Apr 7, 2023
Fantastic story. Beautifully written. Touched my spirit and love is nature, birds and much greater appreciation of dragonflies. Thank you, seraphina. www.seraphina.com
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Thanks, Seraphina. I have briefly visited your website and love your images. Will give it a closer look.
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Barb Apr 7, 2023
AWESOME!!! So much to learn from the most simple and touching experiences in our relationship with nature! As I age and ponder, I become more aware and at peace with varied life experiences with parts of nature that I ounce feared. Thank you for sharing your personal insights of the blue dragonfly...
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Barb, yes, "so much to learn." And I, like you, am becoming "more aware and at peace" as I grow older (and, I hope, grow in wisdom as well).
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Nancy Vermond Apr 7, 2023
Thank you for the dragonfly story. I read the whole thing, though it took more than one sitting. I like that the dragonflies were catching his attention! That's how I thought/ felt about the baby squirrel. He definitely got my attention, climbing up and sitting on my bicycle seat and staring at me! Asking for help. That was quite a surprise. Like the dragonfly, needing help, but also giving so much. I also liked how it raised questions of our relationship with other life forms. I am very much into that enquiry myself, wanting to honor other beings, but at the same time I am eating meat that often comes from a place of cruelty to the animals whose flesh I am eating. TIme to think about this again!
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Nancy, thanks for your own story. And yes, our human relationships with other beings/life forms is complicated. Being open to new possibilities is important, I believe.
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 6, 2023
Thank you to all who've posted these wonderful responses to my essay. I'm deeply moved by your comments and when time allows I'll do my best to respond to each person individually.
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Linda Apr 6, 2023
I loved reading your beautiful story. I also have had a magical encounter with a tiny electric blue dragonfly in the ti-tree lakes in northern N.S.W. in Australia one summer afternoon. I was standing in the lake and saw a tiny dragonfly floating on the water. I thought it was dead and picked it up. I placed it on my palm and realised it was still alive. It took a few minutes for the dragonfly to recover, stood up on its tiny legs, primping and preening itself, shaking its wings. After a few minutes it stopped and looked at me, gazing at me - and me looking at it - in my palm close to my face. It was as if time stopped - me staring into its tiny extraterresstial, eyes with the tiny black centre - we became one - I don't know how long we were connected but it was extraordinary, then it just flew away. But I was changed forever. It was an amazing encounter - and have felt a strong, loving connection to dragonflies ever since. I see them everywhere. When visiting that lake a year lat... [View Full Comment]
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Linda, thanks to you for sharing your own beautiful and magical story. There is so much we humans don't know about the larger world of which we're a part.
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Sharon Apr 6, 2023
I so love this. I wrote(in my book A Blessing of Toads) a similar/though not similar, experience of rescuing a dragonfly along a roadside in Maine. It returned to me the next morning after the eve I released it. Such magic. I must relate that in Cahuila myths the dragonfly will only land on those people who are pure of heart. They have a song, Ush Kana, that is used to call them down from the sky. I did this, and the dragonfly came.
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Sharon, thanks for sharing your own experiences and understandings taken from "Cahuila myths." To "call" dragonflies from the sky--and have the animal respond--seems mystical indeed. I will check out your book, thanks for that information.
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Marcia Zina Apr 6, 2023
Beautiful story! When I was young (about 50 years ago) I used to play with "automatic writing"! And a sentence came through about dragonflies that has always stayed with me and that I never fully understood: "Dragonflies seem drastically treacherous, knowing only the solitude of becoming."
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Marcia, yes, an intriguing and perhaps unsettling statement. What's your interpretation now?
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Carol Apr 6, 2023
I am so glad to have read this. Dragonflies have always attracted me. But the main pleasure for me, in this writing, is the reflective quality of the author's experience, even his admissions of forgetting and other human foibles. I'm grateful to Daily Good for making this available for reading.
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Carol, I add my thanks to DailyGood for sharing the story.
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sadhana Apr 6, 2023
It is an extraordinary article.Thanks for posting it.
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Sadhana, it's my pleasure and honor to share this story.
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myrna Apr 6, 2023
beautifully written and relatable…. thank you
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Judith Apr 6, 2023
So well written and transformative! Thank you for waking me up!
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Thank you, both Myrna and Judith.
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Kristin Pedemonti Apr 6, 2023
Thank you Bill for sharing your meaningful encounters with dragonflies. I too have had magical & mystical moments with these 'fairies' including in a parking lot outside of Nairobi Kenya when I was suddenly surrounded by 10 or more of these mystical creatures just after a Storytelling Performance. Just lovely. Often dragonflies find me when I'm in times of transition or challenge with a choice. I do my best to listen. 🙏
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Kristin, wow, your experience in Kenya sounds marvelous, as the "mystical creatures" were apparently drawn in by the energy you carried. Mystical, yes!
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Patrick Apr 6, 2023
Oh the stories I could tell of dragonflies, frogs and more, but I’ll not disturb this beauty with reminiscing of my own. I suspect though that this will stir much in others hearts and minds. }:- a.m.
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Patrick, other "reminiscences" are welcome. Frogs are another of my favorite life forms.
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Mer Apr 6, 2023
How refreshing to come upon this story, just this morning on coming back from deep inner space, where I gently touched a somewhat sperical blue orb like a water balloon, and hoping it did not hurt it to do so, and "getting" an understanding of "no, it tickles". I chuckle, knowing full well we've been put to sleep like Rip Van Winkle, and waking up is inevitable. I chuckle to know I don't take offense that many still sleeping would snicker, if they saw me this morning, tickling a blue sphere, and escorting a granddaddy-long- leg outside from within a large Mason jar to be free to scuttle among the two-inch wild tulips I planted and forgot about until they emerged, like bright stars awakening , remembering they have a coronosphere turned on. My cup fills full with your sharing.
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Anna F Apr 9, 2023
Beautiful. Thanks.
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Thanks, Mer, for your reflections and the sharing of your experiences. I agree with Anna, "beautiful." I admit that at times I'm more "asleep" other times more wakeful and open to the many dimensions of life.
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Lionel Apr 6, 2023
Mmm, such compelling writing sharing an experience so far from anything I know. Thank you for your willingness to express the authenticity of your inner life and thoughts.
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Lionel, it was a pleasure and honor to write about the experience and my "interior" world.
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Colette Apr 6, 2023
Beautifully written, deeply touching, spiritually uplifting, filled with awe and reverence for the mystery of life - the mystical - that saturates our incredible world... Thank you
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Bill Sherwonit Apr 16, 2023
Thanks, Colette, for your comments.