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የልጅነት አስማት ደረጃ

ቤቲ ፔክ በ92 ዓመቷ ተረት ወደ አእምሯችን በሚያመጣ አንጸባራቂ ፍቅር ተሞልታለች። እመቤት እና አስማታዊ የአትክልት ስፍራዎች ። እሷን መጎብኘት በአሊስ ጥንቸል ጉድጓድ ውስጥ እንደ መውደቅ ትንሽ ነው። እውነተኛ ባቡር ያለው የባቡር ሀዲድ በሳራቶጋ ቤቷ ዙሪያ ይሮጣል። በአይቪ የተሸፈኑ ግድግዳዎች፣ እብድ ጠመዝማዛ መንገዶች፣ የዛፍ ቤቶች፣ የራፑንዘል ግንብ ሳይቀር፣ እና ከዛፎች ስር አምፊቲያትር ከሮሚዮ እና ጁልየት በረንዳ ጋር የተሟላ ነው። በመቶዎች የሚቆጠሩ ህጻናት እዚህ በፀሃይ በተሞላ ክሪ ውስጥ ተጫውተዋል፣ በባዶ እግራቸው ስር ባለው የአፈር ስሜት ተደስተው እና በፈጠራ፣ በውበት እና በመደነቅ በተሞላ አለም ተደስተዋል። ቤቲ ፔክ ለብዙ ትውልዶች ልጆች የሰጠችው ይህ ዓለም ነው።

እና አሁን ይህ አስደናቂ አስተማሪ በጣም የምትደሰትበት አዲስ ፕሮጀክት አላት. ከታች በራሷ አንደበት የገለፀችው እና በቀላል ግን ጥልቅ ጥያቄ የጀመረች ፕሮጀክት...

እንዴት ማንበብ እንደተማርክ ማወቅ እፈልጋለሁ።

ማንበብ መማር በእኛ ላይ የሚደርሰው በጣም አስፈላጊው ነገር ነው, እና በልጅነት ጊዜ (ለአብዛኛዎቹ) ይከሰታል. ባለቤቴ ዊሊስ ፔክ በ "The Pooh Method" ማንበብ ተምሯል. ስለዚህ አስደናቂ ክስተት የተናገራቸው ቃላት እነሆ፡-

የተማረው የንባብ ዘዴ

በልጅነቴ ወላጆቼ ለእኔ እና ለወንድሜ መጽሐፍትን ያነብቡ ነበር። የእኔ ተወዳጆች ዊኒ ዘ ፑህ፣ እና The House at Pooh Corner በ AA መጽሃፍ ነበሩ። ሚልኔ ታሪኮቹን ለማስታወስ ምንም ጥረት ባላደርግም የመክፈቻውን አንቀጾች ከትዝታ እያነበብኩ ብዙ ጊዜ በመስማቴ ተረዳሁ። አንድ ቀን መጽሐፉን እያየሁ እና ከትዝታ ሳነብ ራሴን በቃላት ከተሸመደዱት በላይ ቃላትን እያነሳሁ አገኘሁት። እያነበብኩ እንደሆነ የገባኝ ያን ጊዜ ነበር! ለዚህም ነው በPooh ዘዴ ማንበብ መማር የምለው።

የማንበብ መማሬ በመጀመሪያ ክፍል ውስጥ ያጋጠመኝ በጣም አስፈላጊ ነገር ነበር; ማንነቴ እንድሆን የረዳኝ እሱ ነው። ይህንን በመጽሐፌ ውስጥ ጽፌዋለሁ፡ የመዋለ ሕጻናት ትምህርት –የልጆችን የፈጠራ ችሎታ (ሃውቶርን ፕሬስ)።

አያቴ ሁሉንም ተረት እና የህፃናት ዜማዎችን ነገረችኝ። እነዚህን ሁሉ የጥንት ጥበብ ቃላት የያዘው ልጅ እድለኛ ነው። እኔ በበኩሌ የወንድሞቼና የእህቶቼ ተራኪ እሆናለሁ።

ማንበብ የተማርኩበትን ቀን አስታውሳለሁ። እኔም ከጆን ስታይንቤክ ጋር አምናለሁ፣ “ምናልባት የሰው ልጅ የሚያደርገው ትልቁ ጥረት ነው፣ እና በልጅነቱ ማድረግ አለበት። የመጀመሪያ ክፍል እያለሁ እናቴን ለማንበብ የወረቀት መፅሐፌን ወደ ቤት የያዝኩበትን ቀን አስታውሳለሁ። ማንበብ ተምሬ ነበር! እናቴን ማንበብ የምችል የዚህ ጉጉ ጉጉ አሁንም ከእኔ ጋር ነው።

በትዝታዬ ከመግቢያው በር ብዙም ሳንርቅ አብረን ተቀመጥን። መጽሐፉን በሙሉ በታላቅ ደስታ እና ደስታ አነበብኳት። ስጨርስ፣ “አሁን ወደ ኋላ አንብበው” አለችኝ። ማንበብ እንደተማርኩ አላመነችም! ከበፊቱ በበለጠ ደስታ መጽሐፉን ወደ ኋላ አነበብኩት። ወደ ራሴ የመግባት ስሜት የተሰማኝ በዚያ ቅጽበት ነበር። ራሴን ካሰብኩት በላይ ሆኜ ነበር። አሁን፣ ለዚህ ​​አጋጣሚ 'ተሻገር' የሚለውን ቃል እጠቀም ነበር፣ አሁን እናቴ ማወቅ የማትችለውን ነገር አውቃለሁ። እኔ እና እኔ ብቻዬን ይህን አስደናቂ ሚስጥር አውቀዋለሁ፡ ማንበብ ተምሬ ነበር። ክብረ በዓል አያስፈልገኝም; ማንበብ መማር በቂ በዓል ነበር።

የልጅ ልጄ ሳራ ማንበብን ስትማር ለእህቷ መሪና ስታነብ የሚያሳይ ምስል በመንደራችን ቤተመጻሕፍት ውስጥ ማንበብ መማሩን ለማክበር በልጆች ክፍል ውስጥ ይቀመጥ እንደሆነ ጠየቅኳት። በልጅነት ጊዜ ከወደቁት በጣም አስፈላጊ የህይወት ደረጃዎች ውስጥ አንዱን ለማክበር ምስሉ ተሰቅሏል።

ለሥነ ጽሑፍ ያለኝን ፍቅር ያሳደገው ቤታችን አቅራቢያ የሚገኘው በሎስ አንጀለስ የሚገኘው ቤተ መጻሕፍት ነበር። እናቴ ታነብልኝ ነበር። እስከ መጨረሻው ደቂቃ ድረስ መጽሐፉ መጠናቀቁን እናነባለን እና ሁልጊዜ ብቻዬን ስኬቴ ላይ ወዳለው ቤተ-መጽሐፍት በፍጥነት እሄድ ነበር። ነገር ግን ከዓለማችን ታላቅ ስነ-ጽሁፍ ጋር ያስተዋወቀችኝ የቤል ፓሲ ትምህርት ቤት የሰባተኛ ክፍል አስተማሪዬ ወይዘሮ ላቬርን ፔሪን ነበሩ። በየሳምንቱ ግጥም መማር ነበረብን። እሷ የሰር ዋልተር ስኮትን ስራ ታነብ ነበር፣ እና በተለየ መንገድ 'የአጎት ቶም ካቢኔን; እያንዳንዱን ቃል የምንይዝበት ነበር። ለነዚህ መጽሃፍቶች ያላትን ታላቅ ፍቅር አስታውሳለሁና የምትወዳቸውን ነገሮች ሁሉ አነበበችን፣ እርግጠኛ ነኝ። እያንዳንዱ ታሪክ ከቃላቶቹ በላይ ነበር፡ የታሪክ፣ የባህል፣ የተፈጥሮ፣ የፍልስፍና፣ የሀይማኖት እና የስነ-ልቦና አጠቃላይ ግዛት ነበር። በዚህ ቅርስ ምክንያት፣ አሁን በየቀኑ ከበርካታ መጽሃፍቶች አንብቤ እንደገና አንብቤአለሁ፣ ሁሉንም በቤተ-መጽሐፍቴ ውስጥ የያዝኩት።

ንባብ በሰው ልጅ ሕይወት ውስጥ በጣም አስፈላጊ ከሆኑ ክስተቶች አንዱ ነው, እና በልጅነት ጊዜ ይከሰታል. ማንበብ ለመቻል አንድ ላይ መሰብሰብ ያለባቸውን ሁሉንም ችሎታዎች አስበህ ታውቃለህ? ይህ አስደሳች ክስተት የአማልክት ስጦታ ነው.

በዚህ ስጦታ የምናደርገው ነገር ማን እንደሆንን ለማወቅ ይረዳል፣ እና እንደ አስተማሪ የመዋዕለ ህጻናት ወላጆች ማንበብን በፍቅር ያደጉ ውጤታማ ዜጎችን መሰረት እንዲገነቡ የመርዳት እድል ይሰማኛል። የዛሬው ልጅ ማንበብ ሲማር ክብረ በዓላት እና የአምልኮ ሥርዓቶች ሊገነቡ እንደሚችሉ ተስፋ አደርጋለሁ። ይህ እውቅና የሚያስፈልገው አስማታዊ ጊዜ መሆኑን ለመገንዘብ ይህን ጊዜ ወስዷል።

እንዴት ማንበብ ተማርክ ? ታሪክህን ብሰማው ደስ ይለኛል።

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Sunnie Mitchell Dec 6, 2013

My best friend taught me how to read. He was three years older than me. Every day after school in his first year he would come over and show me what he'd learned at school that day using the book Green Eggs and Ham. He died two years ago at age 58, I will miss him for the rest of my life.

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Carol Dec 6, 2013

I remember walking in to kindergarten and straight for the bookshelf. My beautiful new teacher (who was really 80 years old) said to my mother "oh I see we have a reader on our hands, how wonderful is that"? From that day forward, I have always considered myself just that "a reader" and have always lived up to the expectation of my kindergarten teacher. Thank you Mrs. Quaker!!

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Satya Narain Goel Dec 5, 2013

Satya Narain Goel
In India Ramayan written by Tulsidas is the most read book. For centuries, generations after generations, the women learned to read to enable them to read the story of Ram and Sita in Ramayan. Apart from religious and spritual side of the epic, which Ramayan is, it has made a tremendous contribution to the reading habits of women in India.
Satya Narain Goel, Jodhpur, Rajasthan. India

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churchmouse Dec 4, 2013
I cannot remember a time that I wasn't being read to by my parents. My mother had a gift for reading with accents and regional dialects which enthralled me and my siblings. I had numerous children's stories memorized and then I "read" those to my siblings (I have no recollection of the moment when the memorization became truly reading on my own). My father found children's books read over and over and over quite tedious, but he noticed that children love to sit with you and be read to, no matter what is being read (the special attention given the child is the most important part). So, he read what he liked aloud to me and thus, I heard the Wall Street Journal each evening and learned incredible language skills that have served me all my life! My vocabulary skills were enhanced all while I was having a wonderful time. Two of the ladies who babysat my siblings and me would bring stacks of books and read and read until they were hoarse and on the verge of losing their voices! We al... [View Full Comment]
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C M Sen Dec 3, 2013

In Eastern India there is a annual festival called Saraswati Puja which revolves around the deity of learning, Saraswati. When a child is about 3 or 4 years old he or she sits down with other children of the same age and they are shown how to write the first alphabet in the Bengali script. Each child has her/ his own miniature handheld blackboard and chalk and it is a occasion of celebration that the child is progressing away from babyhood and getting ready for formal education. The child feels part of a group and seeing the adults reaction they are also enthusiastic about starting to read the alphabet.

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eloise Dec 3, 2013

Hi Betty,
My mother read to us from early on. She and I would sit in a big chair together, and she would read to me, annunciating each word clearly. So, I learned to read early on. she took delight in showing me off to the family at christmas time, when I recited "twas the night before christmas," from memory. I believe her strong focus on enunciation helped me learn how to read and spell well.

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Desert Kay Cowart Dec 3, 2013

I was 4 years old. My mother was pregnant with my first little brother and she would take a hot bath every morning. I would sit on the bathroom floor with the newspaper spread out on the floor in front of me with my right hand on her tummy to feel the baby move. She would teach me about roots, prefixes and suffixes, how most words were Greek or Latin in origin. I would stumble through the article she chose and she taught me how to find meaning of words I didn't know through context. She was very strict and a very difficult woman to please, but she raised a true reader. I never read children's books. She never talked "baby talk". She felt that if you learn that way, then you would have to un-learn that to learn "real" language. I was an extremely gifted child and she challenged me, constantly. I don't ever remember anyone reading aloud to me, I read aloud to them.

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Skirnir Hamilton Dec 3, 2013

Amazes me that people can remember when they learned to read. The earliest memory I know of is in second grade for me. I am sure I learned to read before then. Sorry.

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Dottie Dec 3, 2013

Beautiful!

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Jane Dec 3, 2013

Books were my friends. My father was career Army so we moved every year until I was in high school. I learned to read early. My mother still talks about the day when I was in first grade and the teachers asked me to read a story to the third graders. In high school I spent my summers reading from books picked out from the Book mobile. I loved the Book mobile. I can still visualize the driver who would patiently help me find my books and the coolness of the air inside on those hot days. I read all of the available Agatha Christie novels that summer. Today I am the organizer of a neighborhood book club. We have 13 members. We all have been together for 10 years. We lost one member to cancer and we honor her memory by donating books to a needy cause. Reading has shaped my life.

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Kristin Pedemonti Dec 3, 2013
I was four years old. My Grandmother Quigney taught me to read. Every day she would take a break from work cuddle up in her recliner by the living room window and read. Often she would read aloud to me from Reader's Digest or The Education of Hyman Kaplan or Cheaper by the Dozen. And she would read children's picture books, nursery rhymes and of course Winnie the Pooh. I would follow along trying to decipher the swirls on the page. And then one day it just clicked and I read a book about a pony who tries to keep up with the horses; how fitting. Thanks to my Grandmother's efforts I read Every book in my elementary school library. In adulthood (after jobs in women's health & cancer research), I was a Children's Librarian. I had the blessing of creating an entire program and helping thousands of children develop an appreciation for books and reading.Today I am a Cause-Focused Storyteller & Literacy Advocate. I sold my home & possessions in 2005 to create/facilitate a volunteer... [View Full Comment]
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larrysherk Dec 3, 2013

I learned to read in school, very early in the first grade. I loved the individual letters and their sounds, so I was using phonics before anyone had even coined the term. I like music and language seemed the same thing to me. The individual letter-noises could be combined to make familiar and unfamiliar words, so when I struck an unfamiliar word I knew that had happened, and wanted to learn what those sound patterns were for. It was all very easy and effortless. I was ready in the first grade, and those were the years before child care and kindergarten. We had a lot of kids in the first and second grades (in one room with one teacher) so I had lots of time to myself to play with the sound combinations and see where they went. I am glad I predated the hubbub of day care and kindergarten. We went to school because we were grown up enough to be allowed to, and it was a huge thrill!