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Barndommens Magiske milepæl

Betty Peck på 92 er full av en strålende skjønnhet som bringer tankene til fe gudmødre og fortryllede hager. Å besøke henne er litt som å falle ned i Alices kaninhull. Et togspor med et ekte tog kjører rundt hjemmet hennes i Saratoga. Det er eføydekkede vegger, gale svingete stier, trehus, til og med et Rapunzel-tårn, og et amfiteater under trærne komplett med en Romeo og Juliet-balkong. Hundrevis av barn har lekt i den solfylte bekken her, begeistret for følelsen av jord under bare føtter og gledet seg over en verden full av kreativitet, skjønnhet og undring. Dette er verden som Betty Peck gav flere generasjoner barn.

Og nå har denne fantastiske læreren et nytt prosjekt som hun er dypt begeistret for. Et prosjekt som hun beskriver med egne ord nedenfor, og som begynner med et enkelt, men dyptgående spørsmål...

Jeg vil vite hvordan du lærte å lese.

Å lære å lese er det viktigste som skjer oss, og det skjer (for de fleste) i barndommen. Min mann, Willys Peck, lærte å lese ved "The Pooh Method". Her er hans ord om denne fantastiske begivenheten:

Brumm-metoden for lært lesing

Da jeg var barn leste foreldrene mine bøker for meg og broren min. Mine favoritter var bøkene Winnie the Pooh og The House at Pooh Corner av AA. Milne. Selv om jeg ikke gjorde en bevisst innsats for å lære historiene utenat, fant jeg ut ved å høre dem flere ganger at jeg kunne resitere de innledende avsnittene fra hukommelsen. En dag mens jeg så på boken og resiterte den fra hukommelsen, fant jeg meg selv i å plukke opp ord utover de som faktisk var utenat. Det var i det øyeblikket jeg skjønte at jeg leste! Det er derfor jeg kaller det å lære å lese etter Brumm-metoden.

Å lære å lese var det viktigste som skjedde med meg i første klasse; det er det som hjalp meg til å bli den jeg er. Jeg har skrevet dette opp i boken min: Kindergarten Education – Freeing Children's Creative Potential (Hawthorne Press).

Min bestemor fortalte meg alle eventyrene og barnerimene. Heldig er barnet som inneholder alle disse eldgamle visdomsordene. Jeg på min side skulle bli historiefortelleren for mine brødre og søstre.

Jeg husker dagen jeg lærte å lese. Jeg tror også sammen med John Steinbeck, "Det er kanskje den største enkeltinnsatsen mennesket gjør, og han må gjøre det som barn." Jeg husker den dagen jeg tok med meg pocketboken min hjem for å lese moren min da jeg gikk i første klasse. Jeg hadde lært å lese! Spenningen over denne forventningen om å kunne lese for min mor er fortsatt med meg.

I minnet mitt satte vi oss ned sammen ikke langt fra inngangsdøren. Jeg leste hele boken for henne med stor glede og glede. Da jeg var ferdig, sa hun til meg "Les det nå baklengs." Hun trodde ikke jeg hadde lært å lese! Med mer glede enn før leste jeg hele boken baklengs. Det var i det øyeblikket jeg hadde følelsen av å komme til min rett. Jeg var blitt mer enn jeg hadde trodd meg å være. Nå ville jeg bruke ordet "overskridet" for denne anledningen, for nå visste jeg det min mor ikke kunne vite. Jeg, og jeg alene, visste denne fantastiske hemmeligheten: Jeg hadde lært å lese. Jeg trengte ikke en feiring; å lære å lese var feiring nok.

Da barnebarnet mitt Sarah lærte å lese, spurte jeg om et bilde av henne som leste for søsteren, Merina, kunne plasseres på barnerommet på landsbybiblioteket vårt for å feire at hun lærte å lese. Bildet ble hengt opp for å feire et av de viktigste trinnene i livet som tilfeldigvis faller i barndommen.

Det var biblioteket i Los Angeles nær huset vårt som næret min kjærlighet til litteratur. Min mor ville lese for meg. Vi leste til siste liten at boken skulle komme, og så skyndte jeg meg til biblioteket på skøytene, alltid alene. Men det var fru Laverne Perrin, læreren min i sjuende klasse ved Bel Pasi-skolen, som introduserte meg for verdens store litteratur. Vi måtte lære et dikt hver uke. Hun ville lese Sir Walter Scotts verk, og på en annen måte, «Onkel Toms hytte; var en hvor vi hang på hvert ord. Hun leste oss, er jeg sikker på, alle tingene hun elsket, for jeg husker hennes store lidenskap for disse bøkene. Hver historie var mer enn dens ord: den var hele riket av historie, kultur, natur, filosofi, religion og psykologi. På grunn av denne arven leser jeg nå, og leser igjen fra flere bøker om dagen, som alle jeg eier i biblioteket mitt.

Lesing er en av de viktigste hendelsene i livet til et menneske, og det skjer i barndommen. Har du noen gang tenkt på alle ferdighetene som må komme sammen for å kunne lese? Denne spennende begivenheten er en gave fra gudene.

Hva vi gjør med denne gaven er med på å bestemme hvem vi er, og som lærer føler jeg meg privilegert som kan hjelpe foreldre til barnehager med å bygge grunnlaget for produktive innbyggere som vokser opp med å elske å lese. Jeg håper at det kan bygges opp feiringer og ritualer rundt begivenheten når dagens barn lærer å lese. Det har tatt så lang tid å innse at dette er et magisk øyeblikk som trenger anerkjennelse.

Hvordan lærte du å lese? Jeg vil gjerne høre historien din.

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Sunnie Mitchell Dec 6, 2013

My best friend taught me how to read. He was three years older than me. Every day after school in his first year he would come over and show me what he'd learned at school that day using the book Green Eggs and Ham. He died two years ago at age 58, I will miss him for the rest of my life.

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Carol Dec 6, 2013

I remember walking in to kindergarten and straight for the bookshelf. My beautiful new teacher (who was really 80 years old) said to my mother "oh I see we have a reader on our hands, how wonderful is that"? From that day forward, I have always considered myself just that "a reader" and have always lived up to the expectation of my kindergarten teacher. Thank you Mrs. Quaker!!

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Satya Narain Goel Dec 5, 2013

Satya Narain Goel
In India Ramayan written by Tulsidas is the most read book. For centuries, generations after generations, the women learned to read to enable them to read the story of Ram and Sita in Ramayan. Apart from religious and spritual side of the epic, which Ramayan is, it has made a tremendous contribution to the reading habits of women in India.
Satya Narain Goel, Jodhpur, Rajasthan. India

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churchmouse Dec 4, 2013
I cannot remember a time that I wasn't being read to by my parents. My mother had a gift for reading with accents and regional dialects which enthralled me and my siblings. I had numerous children's stories memorized and then I "read" those to my siblings (I have no recollection of the moment when the memorization became truly reading on my own). My father found children's books read over and over and over quite tedious, but he noticed that children love to sit with you and be read to, no matter what is being read (the special attention given the child is the most important part). So, he read what he liked aloud to me and thus, I heard the Wall Street Journal each evening and learned incredible language skills that have served me all my life! My vocabulary skills were enhanced all while I was having a wonderful time. Two of the ladies who babysat my siblings and me would bring stacks of books and read and read until they were hoarse and on the verge of losing their voices! We al... [View Full Comment]
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C M Sen Dec 3, 2013

In Eastern India there is a annual festival called Saraswati Puja which revolves around the deity of learning, Saraswati. When a child is about 3 or 4 years old he or she sits down with other children of the same age and they are shown how to write the first alphabet in the Bengali script. Each child has her/ his own miniature handheld blackboard and chalk and it is a occasion of celebration that the child is progressing away from babyhood and getting ready for formal education. The child feels part of a group and seeing the adults reaction they are also enthusiastic about starting to read the alphabet.

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eloise Dec 3, 2013

Hi Betty,
My mother read to us from early on. She and I would sit in a big chair together, and she would read to me, annunciating each word clearly. So, I learned to read early on. she took delight in showing me off to the family at christmas time, when I recited "twas the night before christmas," from memory. I believe her strong focus on enunciation helped me learn how to read and spell well.

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Desert Kay Cowart Dec 3, 2013

I was 4 years old. My mother was pregnant with my first little brother and she would take a hot bath every morning. I would sit on the bathroom floor with the newspaper spread out on the floor in front of me with my right hand on her tummy to feel the baby move. She would teach me about roots, prefixes and suffixes, how most words were Greek or Latin in origin. I would stumble through the article she chose and she taught me how to find meaning of words I didn't know through context. She was very strict and a very difficult woman to please, but she raised a true reader. I never read children's books. She never talked "baby talk". She felt that if you learn that way, then you would have to un-learn that to learn "real" language. I was an extremely gifted child and she challenged me, constantly. I don't ever remember anyone reading aloud to me, I read aloud to them.

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Skirnir Hamilton Dec 3, 2013

Amazes me that people can remember when they learned to read. The earliest memory I know of is in second grade for me. I am sure I learned to read before then. Sorry.

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Dottie Dec 3, 2013

Beautiful!

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Jane Dec 3, 2013

Books were my friends. My father was career Army so we moved every year until I was in high school. I learned to read early. My mother still talks about the day when I was in first grade and the teachers asked me to read a story to the third graders. In high school I spent my summers reading from books picked out from the Book mobile. I loved the Book mobile. I can still visualize the driver who would patiently help me find my books and the coolness of the air inside on those hot days. I read all of the available Agatha Christie novels that summer. Today I am the organizer of a neighborhood book club. We have 13 members. We all have been together for 10 years. We lost one member to cancer and we honor her memory by donating books to a needy cause. Reading has shaped my life.

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Kristin Pedemonti Dec 3, 2013
I was four years old. My Grandmother Quigney taught me to read. Every day she would take a break from work cuddle up in her recliner by the living room window and read. Often she would read aloud to me from Reader's Digest or The Education of Hyman Kaplan or Cheaper by the Dozen. And she would read children's picture books, nursery rhymes and of course Winnie the Pooh. I would follow along trying to decipher the swirls on the page. And then one day it just clicked and I read a book about a pony who tries to keep up with the horses; how fitting. Thanks to my Grandmother's efforts I read Every book in my elementary school library. In adulthood (after jobs in women's health & cancer research), I was a Children's Librarian. I had the blessing of creating an entire program and helping thousands of children develop an appreciation for books and reading.Today I am a Cause-Focused Storyteller & Literacy Advocate. I sold my home & possessions in 2005 to create/facilitate a volunteer... [View Full Comment]
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larrysherk Dec 3, 2013

I learned to read in school, very early in the first grade. I loved the individual letters and their sounds, so I was using phonics before anyone had even coined the term. I like music and language seemed the same thing to me. The individual letter-noises could be combined to make familiar and unfamiliar words, so when I struck an unfamiliar word I knew that had happened, and wanted to learn what those sound patterns were for. It was all very easy and effortless. I was ready in the first grade, and those were the years before child care and kindergarten. We had a lot of kids in the first and second grades (in one room with one teacher) so I had lots of time to myself to play with the sound combinations and see where they went. I am glad I predated the hubbub of day care and kindergarten. We went to school because we were grown up enough to be allowed to, and it was a huge thrill!