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Gospodarstvo Daril

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Ko boste naslednjič kupovali kavo, kupite skodelico za osebo za vami. Ali pa, ko se prebijate skozi jutranjo vožnjo v službo, poberete pristojbino na cestninski postaji za voznika za vami, ki se natakne na njegov volan in tarna zaradi dolge zamude.

Slišali ste slavni Gandhijev citat o tem, da ste sprememba, no, to so dobri ukrepi za začetek, ki vsebujejo več moči, kot si lahko predstavljate.

Ta pristop k življenju se začne z naslednjo premiso: Kaj točno sem jaz (ali ti) naredil, da si zaslužim biti živ? Če lahko obdelate to vprašanje in ugotovite, da je to darilo, ki ga ne morete nikoli vrniti, potem je začetek življenja z večjim dajanjem edina logična in na daleč vzajemna pot. Če najbolj dragocena stvar, ki jo imate, ni tisto, kar ste zaslužili, zakaj bi bili skopi z vsemi manjšimi stvarmi. To prakso večje velikodušnosti lahko začnete z večjo hvaležnostjo. In kje je bolje začeti kot z mamo, vendar se ne ustavite pri tem. Družina, prijatelji in zadnja meja, tujci, so vsi vredni subjekti.

Poglejmo, kaj nas muči. Naš finančni sistem se je pred nekaj leti skoraj sesul. Podprli smo ga s tistim, kar je ostalo od naših skupnih virov, in tu in tam z malo lepilnega traku, da bi popravili pomanjkljivosti sistema. In zdaj se znajdemo z okrevanjem, ki je tako anemično, da to občutijo le premožni. Mora obstajati boljši način.

Menjava je dober način za preživetje zanič gospodarstva. lahko popravim stranišča; lahko očistite uplinjače. Želite plesati?

Naučiti se delovati v nečem, kot je "ekonomija daril", pa je veliko bolj subverzivno in o tem vredno razmišljati.

Pred nekaj leti, v času skorajšnjega gospodarskega zloma, je Steamin' Bean v Blue Springsu v Missouriju zašel v ekonomijo daril. Ženska, ki je pobrala kavo skozi okno, se je odločila anonimno kupiti še eno skodelico za osebo v avtu za njo. Veriga je potekala za blizu 1000 strank. To se je zgodilo zaradi virusnega učinka velikodušnosti.

Kot je pojasnil lastnik Steamin' Bean Garin Bledsoe v poročilu UPI.com 15. julija 2009: "So težki časi, vendar ljudje želijo biti del nečesa, saj vedo, da gre njihovih 5 centov, njihov dolar, v večje dobro."

Literatura o ekonomiji daru je bogata. Se spomniš tistih ur antropologije o potlatchu? Primitivne družbe so daleč naokoli uporabljale "darila" kot sredstvo za ustvarjanje kohezije in povezovanja, da bi še bolje preživele stiske življenja od zemlje in grožnje drugih manj prijaznih plemen. Ta praksa je bila v različnih oblikah precej razširjena in je nastala pred sodobnim izumom valute. V zgodovini je to obdobje kapitala, stvari, ki jih nosimo v denarnicah in žepnih knjigah, osupljivo nov izum. Kako vam gre? Stavim, da ste kot velika večina sveta. Ne glede na to, koliko imaš, ni nikoli dovolj.

Tukaj je nekaj za razmislek. Ali so bile te predmoderne navade »podarjanja« zgolj tehnike preživetja? Sodobni človek je morda manj nagnjen k tovrstnemu osnovnemu obdarovanju, delitvi in ​​vzajemnosti. Vendar smo dobri v preučevanju stvari in raziskave kar naprej prihajajo, da je dajanje dober občutek. Res dobro.

Kaj točno se zgodi, ko kupite tisto skodelico kave za osebo za vami?

V telesu se vam dogaja nekaj dobrih stvari. Pravzaprav v možganih, sodeč po številnih nedavnih medicinskih študijah, ki so odkrile nevralni udarec iz velikodušnosti. Dacher Keltner, avtor knjige Born to Be Good , povzema svoje lastno delo in druge nedavne raziskave na tem področju v tem članku v reviji Greater Good.

Ampak res, ali potrebujemo znanost, da nam to pove? Dvignite roko, če ste se nazadnje, ko ste za nekoga naredili nekaj dobrega -- nekaj, kar ni bilo iz navade, ampak resnično spontano velikodušno dejanje brez pričakovanega plačila -- počutili bolje kot dobro. Pravzaprav ste se počutili nekako spremenjene, kot nekakšen premik od mentalitete pomanjkanja k bolj obilnemu občutku sebe in življenja. V redu, tukaj projiciram. Ampak razumeš bistvo.

Raziskoval sem dejavnosti, ki bi lahko spadale pod širok naslov "ekonomije daril". To služi morebitni knjigi o CharityFocus.org , neprofitni organizaciji, ki je v zadnjem desetletju služila kot nekakšen inkubator projektov gospodarstva daril.

Ena od osnovnih resnic o na videz tako nepomembnih dejavnostih, kot je nakup kave za osebo za vami ali odpiranje vrat drugim, je, da sploh niso nepomembne. Če verjamete, da se spreminjanje sveta na bolje začne pri vas samih, bodo ta majhna velikodušna dejanja, opravljena s polnim namenom, naredila nekaj zelo močnega. Preklopijo vaš svet iz orientacije "jaz" v orientacijo "mi". Ta povečan in povezan občutek sebe lahko resnično spremeni vse, od načina razmišljanja do načina delovanja.

Prvič sem se s tem pristopom srečal pri pisanju majhnega članka o CharityFocus.org za The Christian Science Monitor , ko sem bil vodja dopisništva tega časopisa v San Franciscu. In spomnim se, jasno kot zvonec, svitajočega spoznanja, da velikodušnost ni namenjena reševanju neke zunanje težave. Šlo je za mene. O ustvarjanju notranjega premika, o vzpostavljanju drugačne baze razmišljanja.

Lewis Hyde je leta 1983 napisal knjigo z naslovom The Gift . Je hkrati briljantna in skrajno odporna na povzemanje. Vendar se poglablja v vprašanja o vrednosti ustvarjalne umetnosti in nekoliko eksistencialno vprašanje, kako lahko umetniki uskladijo svoj "dar" s težnjami poblagovljenja tržnega gospodarstva. Knjiga je resnično razmišljanje o pojmih vrednosti, vzajemnosti ter povezavah in nepovezanostih med sodobno gospodarsko krajino in »ekonomijami daril« starejših kultur. Tukaj je omenjeno zato, da namiguje, da pojem darilne ekonomije ni levičarska alternativa kapitalizmu. Dejstvo je, da smo verjetno vsi naravnani, tako fiziološko kot družbeno, da iščemo sodelovanje in sodelovanje kljub izobraževalnemu sistemu in družbenemu kontekstu, ki deluje od zibelke do groba, da bi nam vcepil pogled na svet brez vsote. Viri so omejeni, življenje je kratko, pridobite, kar lahko -- in če imate malo presežka, morda napišite ček svoji najljubši dobrodelni organizaciji.

V svojem raziskovanju knjig sem vsak dan prebral dobesedno na desetine pričevanj ljudi, ki so v najmanjšem dejanju velikodušnosti odkrili zelo velik občutek veselja. In večina se odloči, da bo na nek način "plačala naprej". In tako ta dejanja nikoli niso samostojna. Odmevajo navznoter in posnemajo navzven.

Zato kupite to skodelico kave za osebo za vami. Počutili se boste odlično. Za seboj imate znanost. Toda te potrditve v resnici ne boste potrebovali. Najbolj boste opazili, kaj se dogaja znotraj.

In da ne bo pomote, gospodarstvo, kot ste vedeli, ne bo nikoli več enako.

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Daniel Silva Jun 9, 2017

We are the change for a better world

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Good Square Mar 26, 2013
I completely get the point Paul is making. I also get the contrarian's points. It seems to me that most of contrarians are using the "logic" to counter Paul's argument. Paul's point can't be debated with only logical arguments alone. His points are more about being good, altruistic, spiritual and completely different from Market Based Economy. I think, there are pointers all around us - the market based economy, the self sufficient society isn't making us happier as individuals and prosperous as society. Reasons are that we are gone too far away from valuing happiness, satisfaction, friendships, goodwill as much as we value the money and hoarding what we may not need.I had a similar feeling few years ago, and started working on an idea -- it's called "Goodsq", "Good Square", "Good to the power 2" -- call it what easy for you. My goal when I started with was to make people think more meaningfully about their relations. My realization has been humble and a bit saddening - people are more... [View Full Comment]
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MBJ Dec 18, 2011
Paul:I like to think that I have a healthy contempt forpolitical correctness; I do not overly romanticize communities that enjoy long,traditional social systems; and I am largely skeptical of the way theepithet "wisdom" is so facilely applied to ancient cultures.  ButI'd have to choke a little hard to apply the phrase"primitive societies" to the Coast Salish, Haida, Kwakwaka'wakw, Nuu-chah-nulth, Gitxsan, andTsimshian First Nations who practice the potlatch.  Quite aside the pejorative aspect ofthe description, it obscures the fact that the potlatch remains a vibrant,contemporary practice.  While thepotlatch was banned in Canada between 1855 and 1951 – and for a similar periodwithin the United States, I believe – it did not disappear and retains a socialand economic relevance in those First Nations communities for whom it iscustomary. Still your basic point is agood one: potlatching is a superb example of a gift economy practice. Yvonne Wilson of Kwakwaka'wakw First Natio... [View Full Comment]
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Jenny Messner Russell Jul 30, 2011

As we were taught in High School Driver's Ed, back in the olden days, :-), Courtesy is contagious!! Get the fever!!!!

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Lynn Jul 10, 2011
My exhusband gave me many gifts, his love for 25 years, two fantastic children and a horse that changed the course of both our lives, the result of which is  I am daily able to gift my new energy, soulfulness and conscious living to my family and friends, the process of divorce has enabled me to gift a mortgage repayment for a friend in trouble, rent for a girl friend beginning to live alone and to fly a beloved horse, Oscar, to Australia for a friend who had been supported by his love whilst undergoing cancer treatment and upon recovery had moved to Oz and missed Oscars love so much it was wonderful getting a picture of their reunion at 4 am in Perth. I have in return been supported by so many people each time I have need something, from a contact to help me with information processing or gathering  to some one willing to listen on the phone at 3 am when the journey looks black and hopeless. Small or large paying forward in terms of financial or spiritual connects and transforms us... [View Full Comment]
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Prakash Jul 10, 2011

I strongly disagree with your 2nd paragraph. Compassion and kindness and help in anyway is an expression of your vunerability in this day and age. If  you do what you say the receiver  will  exploit you again and again.
My philosophy is to help anyone who is physically challenged.
In this country there are not too many opportunities for them.
And by the way for a driver ranting at the long slow lines a SMILE  does wonders !

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Cathy Elaine Jul 9, 2011

I do agree that when we are in a full-blown gift economy, money will be unnecessary. However, in the meantime, while we are bridging the gap, most gifts will cost someone financially.

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Bill Miller Jul 9, 2011

Progressivepam’s definition of “gift” in her reply below
(…giving something without expectation of return (either in money or demands or
manipulation) shines light on a dilemma I often experience. I find myself
reluctant to use “Smile Cards” because I feel like I’m asking people to do
something in response to my act of kindness - i.e. pay it forward. That does
seem like a dilemma: we want to freely give a gift, yet we also want to raise
awareness around the concept by describing and demonstrating how it works.
Promoting an idea, however good, sort of implies that you’d like people to
embrace the idea.

Maybe the resolution simply lies in the spirit with which you deliver
the card. If you can maintain a playful, non-attached attitude, then it’s most
likely to succeed.

Does anyone else experience this?

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Thea Montandon Jul 9, 2011

I ran to the store for some additional ingredients for a dinner party, but left my purse at home. Darn, I'd have to go all the way back and I was running out of time. I asked the checker to hold onto my groceries, when the man next to me (big, black, comfortable, cheerful) said he would cover the almost $10. I was surprised, and thanked him, but said no. He insisted, saying "You never know what life has in mind for you." I understood him to mean God, so of course I accepted. I thanked him with gratitude, and gifted him the good feeling associated with unconditional giving.

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Harper_dianne Jul 9, 2011

a new yoga studio just opened in my town, Asheville, NC.  It is totally free.  beautiful space, all teachers teach as a gift, everyone is welcome.  and it's taking over the yoga scene!  the classes are always full, the teachers are blossoming when they are free to teach as a gift and not worry about being the best so the classes will fill up.  And people are being exposed to yoga!.  The community of folks who practice here volunteer their time to make the studio happen in every way.  A new parking lot was needed and in under three weeks the community raised 12,000 dollars to make it happen.  Its' an amazing place.  Asheville Community Yoga. 

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Ganoba Date Jul 9, 2011

In between rains I go out and plant a few saplings. In this weather they have a good chance of surviving and thriving. Is this an act of kindness or what? I don't know.
Yesterday I presented a few saplings as a birth day gift. Is this part of the gift economy? I don't know.
I have been doing things like these all my life.

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Khaled Ghorab Jul 9, 2011

This is a great article and I love the message behind it: "Give unconditionally". I can relate to this because of what I am currently facing with my country, Egypt. There are various plans similar to this that focus on simply giving without expecting. I also deeply believe that if such an economy existed, money itself wouldn't find its place in life but rather at heart. Growth, contribution, and even significance would become ego-less since the attachment to "getting back something" would perish. The reason many people find it difficult to believe such an economy would exist is because we're conditioned to think that the ultimate superior to money is a bank; never the people. If we thought beyond physically and corporate entities in such cases, the world's currency would be a smile.

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marylinda12 Jul 9, 2011

One of the opportunities I believe we are changed when we can do something for someone else and they not find out about it.  Another way is to be in gratitude.  Both seem to change me internally and therefore I respond to others differently.

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Legacylife Jul 9, 2011

There's such a special feeling that goes along with giving or receiving a gift that just purely given. It feels like, well, love.

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Maria Droujkova Jul 9, 2011

I think this article misrepresents the gift economy - or at the very least, it presents a mixed money/gift economy with a very heavy stress on the "money" parts. In the pure gift economy, you are supposed to make what you gift, or add value to previously received gifts and pass them on. Money does not work this way at all.