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Liderstvo U Doba složenosti: Od Heroja Do domaćina

Predugo nas je previše očaravalo herojima. Možda je to naša želja da budemo spašeni, da ne moramo obavljati težak posao, da se oslanjamo na nekog drugog da riješi stvari. Stalno smo pod napadom političara koji se predstavljaju kao heroji, oni koji će sve popraviti i riješiti naše probleme. To je zavodljiva slika, primamljivo obećanje. I mi i dalje vjerujemo u to. Negdje postoji netko tko će sve učiniti boljim. Negdje postoji netko tko je vizionar, inspirativan, briljantan, pouzdan, i svi ćemo ga rado slijediti. Negdje…

Pa, vrijeme je da svi heroji odu kući, kako je napisao pjesnik William Stafford. Vrijeme je da se odreknemo ovih nada i očekivanja koja samo rađaju ovisnost i pasivnost i koja nam ne daju rješenja za izazove s kojima se suočavamo. Vrijeme je da prestanemo čekati da nas netko spasi. Vrijeme je da se suočimo s istinom naše situacije - da smo svi u ovome zajedno, da svi imamo glas - i shvatimo kako mobilizirati srca i umove svih na našim radnim mjestima i u našim zajednicama.

Zašto se i dalje nadamo herojima? Čini se da pretpostavljamo određene stvari:

* Vođe imaju odgovore. Znaju što učiniti.

* Ljudi rade što im se kaže. Samo im treba dati dobre planove i upute.

* Visok rizik zahtijeva visoku kontrolu. Kako situacije postaju složenije i izazovnije, moć se mora prebaciti na vrh (s vođama koji znaju što učiniti).

Ta uvjerenja dovode do modela zapovijedanja i kontrole koji se poštuju u organizacijama i vladama diljem svijeta. Oni na dnu hijerarhije podvrgavaju se većoj viziji i stručnosti onih iznad. Vođe obećavaju da će nas izvući iz ovog nereda; mi se dragovoljno odričemo individualne autonomije u zamjenu za sigurnost.

Jedina predvidljiva posljedica pokušaja vođa da preuzmu kontrolu nad složenom, čak i kaotičnom situacijom, jest da stvaraju još više kaosa. Izoliraju se s nekoliko ključnih savjetnika i pokušavaju pronaći jednostavno (brzo) rješenje za složeni problem. I ljudi ih pritišću da upravo to učine. Svi žele da problem nestane; iz javnosti se čuju povici "riješite to!". Vođe se trude izgledati kao da su preuzeli kontrolu i da sve drže pod kontrolom.

Ali uzroci današnjih problema su složeni i međusobno povezani. Ne postoje jednostavni odgovori i nijedna osoba ne može znati što učiniti. Čini se da nismo u stanju priznati te složene stvarnosti. Umjesto toga, kada vođa ne uspije riješiti krizu, otpuštamo ga ili nju i odmah počinjemo tražiti sljedećeg (savršenijeg). Ne dovodimo u pitanje svoja očekivanja od vođa, ne dovodimo u pitanje svoju želju za herojima.

Iluzija kontrole

Herojsko vodstvo počiva na iluziji da netko može imati kontrolu. Pa ipak, živimo u svijetu složenih sustava čije samo postojanje znači da su inherentno nekontrolirani. Nitko nije zadužen za naše prehrambene sustave. Nitko nije zadužen za naše škole. Nitko nije zadužen za okoliš. Nitko nije zadužen za nacionalnu sigurnost. Nitko nije zadužen! Ovi sustavi su pojave u nastajanju - rezultat tisuća malih, lokalnih akcija koje su se spojile kako bi stvorile snažne sustave sa svojstvima koja mogu imati malo ili nimalo sličnosti s manjim akcijama koje su ih dovele do nastanka. To su sustavi koji sada dominiraju našim životima; ne mogu se promijeniti radeći unatrag, fokusirajući se samo na nekoliko jednostavnih uzroka. I sigurno ih ne mogu promijeniti najsmjelije vizije naših najherojskih vođa.

Ako želimo da ovi složeni sustavi bolje funkcioniraju, moramo napustiti oslanjanje na vođu-kao-heroja i pozvati vođu-kao domaćina. Moramo podržati one vođe koji znaju da su problemi složeni, koji znaju da kako bi se razumjela puna složenost bilo kojeg problema, svi dijelovi sustava moraju biti pozvani da sudjeluju i doprinesu. Mi, kao sljedbenici, moramo dati našim vođama vremena, strpljenja, oprosta; i moramo biti spremni istupiti i doprinijeti.

Ti vođe-domaćini dovoljno su iskreni da priznaju da ne znaju što učiniti; shvaćaju da je čista glupost oslanjati se samo na njih za odgovore. Ali također znaju da mogu vjerovati u kreativnost i predanost drugih ljudi da će obaviti posao. Znaju da drugi ljudi, bez obzira gdje se nalaze u organizacijskoj hijerarhiji, mogu biti jednako motivirani, marljivi i kreativni kao i vođa, ako im se da pravi poziv.

Putovanje od heroja do domaćina

Vođe koje putuju od heroja do domaćina prozrele su negativnu dinamiku politike i opozicije koju hijerarhija stvara, ignorirale su organizacijske sheme i opise uloga koji ograničavaju potencijal ljudi. Umjesto toga, postale su znatiželjne. Tko je u ovoj organizaciji ili zajednici? Koje vještine i sposobnosti bi mogli ponuditi kada bi bili pozvani u rad kao punopravni suradnici? Što znaju, kakve uvide imaju koji bi mogli dovesti do rješenja ovog problema?

Vođe-domaćini znaju da ljudi dragovoljno podržavaju one stvari u čijem su stvaranju sudjelovali - da ne možete očekivati ​​da će ljudi 'pristati' na planove i projekte razvijene negdje drugdje. Vođe-domaćini ulažu u smislene razgovore među ljudima iz mnogih dijelova sustava kao najproduktivniji način za stvaranje novih uvida i mogućnosti za djelovanje. Vjeruju da su ljudi spremni doprinijeti i da većina ljudi žudi pronaći smisao i mogućnosti u svojim životima i radu. I ovi vođe znaju da je ugošćavanje drugih jedini način za rješavanje složenih, nerješivih problema.

Vođe-domaćini ne puštaju ljude samo blagonaklono i ne vjeruju da će ljudi sami obaviti dobar posao. Vođe imaju mnogo toga o čemu se moraju pobrinuti, ali to se sasvim razlikuje od posla heroja. Vođe-domaćini moraju:

* osigurati uvjete i dobre grupne procese za suradnju ljudi.

* osigurati resurse vremena, najrjeđe robe od svih.

* inzistirati na tome da ljudi i sustav uče iz iskustva, često.

* ponuditi nedvosmislenu podršku - ljudi znaju da je vođa tu za njih.

* držati birokraciju na distanci, stvarajući oaze (ili bunkere) gdje su ljudi manje opterećeni besmislenim zahtjevima za izvješćima i administracijom.

* igrati obranu s drugim vođama koji žele ponovno preuzeti kontrolu, koji kritiziraju činjenicu da je ljudima dano previše slobode.

* redovito se ljudima prisjećajte kako im ide, što postižu, koliko su daleko stigli.

* raditi s ljudima na razvoju relevantnih mjera napretka kako bi njihova postignuća bila vidljiva.

* cijeniti druželjubivost i esprit de corps - ne lažne rah'rah aktivnosti, već duh koji se javlja u svakoj grupi koja zajedno obavlja težak posao.

Izazovi od strane nadređenih

Važno je primijetiti kako vođe na putu od heroja do domaćina koriste svoju pozicijsku moć. Moraju raditi na svim razinama hijerarhije; najčešće je lakše dobiti podršku i poštovanje od ljudi koje vode nego od svojih nadređenih. Većina viših vođa velikih hijerarhija vjeruje u svoju inherentnu superiornost, što dokazuje pozicija koju su postigli. Ne vjeruju da su obični ljudi toliko kreativni ili samomotivirani kao oni. Kada se sudjelovanje predlaže kao sredstvo za prikupljanje uvida i ideja od osoblja o složenom problemu, viši vođe često će blokirati takve aktivnosti. Svoje protivljenje opravdavaju navodeći da bi ljudi iskoristili ovu priliku da iskoriste organizaciju; ili da bi predložili ideje koje nemaju veze s misijom organizacije; ili da bi se ljudi osjećali pretjerano samouvjereno i prekoračili svoje uloge. U stvari, mnogi viši vođe smatraju angažiranje cijelog sustava prijetnjom vlastitoj moći i kontroli. Oni dosljedno biraju kontrolu i rezultirajući kaos, umjesto da pozovu ljude da riješe teške i složene probleme.

Vođe koje znaju vrijednost potpunog angažmana, koje vjeruju onima koje vode, moraju stalno braniti svoje osoblje od viših rukovoditelja koji inzistiraju na većoj kontroli i birokraciji kako bi ograničili njihove aktivnosti, čak i kada te iste aktivnosti daju izvrsne rezultate. Čudno je reći, ali previše viših rukovoditelja bira kontrolu nad učinkovitošću; spremni su riskirati stvaranje još većeg kaosa nastavljajući svoje preuzimanje odgovornosti, zapovijedanje i kontrolu.

Ponovno angažiranje ljudi

Oni koji su bili sputani ograničavajućim ulogama, koji su bili zakopani u hijerarhiji, na kraju će procvjetati i razviti se u društvu vođe domaćina. Ipak, potrebno je vrijeme da zaposlenici povjeruju da je ovaj šef drugačiji, da ovaj vođa zapravo želi njihov doprinos. U sustavima u kojima su ljudi ušutkani na pokornost autokratskim vodstvom može proći 12 do 18 mjeseci. Danas većina ljudi zauzima stav "pričekajmo i vidjet ćemo", više nisu zainteresirani za sudjelovanje jer prošli pozivi nisu bili iskreni ili ih nisu uključili u smislen rad. Vođa se mora dokazati stalnim inzistiranjem na tome da se posao ne može obaviti, niti se problemi riješiti bez sudjelovanja svih. Ako je poruka iskrena i dosljedna, ljudi se postupno vraćaju u život; čak i ljudi koji su umrli na poslu, koji samo čekaju mirovinu, mogu oživjeti u prisutnosti vođe koji ih potiče i stvara im prilike za doprinos.

Vođe-domaćini moraju biti vješti organizatori. Svjesni su da je njihova organizacija ili zajednica bogata resursima i da je najlakši način da ih otkriju okupljanje različitih ljudi u razgovorima koji su važni. Ljudi koji se nisu voljeli, ljudi koji su se međusobno omalovažavali i ignorirali, ljudi koji su se osjećali nevidljivima, zanemareno, isključeno - to su ljudi koji mogu izaći iz svojih okvira i etiketa te postati zanimljivi, angažirani kolege i građani.

Vođenje smislenih razgovora ne znači postići da se ljudi vole ili da se osjećaju dobro. Radi se o stvaranju sredstava za rješavanje problema, za dobro funkcioniranje timova, za to da ljudi postanu energični aktivisti. Vođe koje vode stvaraju značajne promjene oslanjajući se na kreativnost, predanost i velikodušnost svih. Iz iskustva iz prve ruke uče da su te kvalitete prisutne u gotovo svima i u svakoj organizaciji. Upućuju iskrene pozive, postavljaju dobra pitanja i imaju hrabrosti podržati preuzimanje rizika i eksperimentiranje.

Jesi li heroj?

Mnogi od nas mogu se uplesti u ponašanje heroja, ne iz poriva moći, već iz dobrih namjera i želja da pomognemo. Ponašate li se kao heroj? Evo kako to znati. Ponašate se kao heroj kada vjerujete da ćete, ako samo radite više, popraviti stvari; da ćete, ako samo postanete pametniji ili naučite novu tehniku, moći riješiti probleme za druge. Ponašate se kao heroj ako preuzimate sve više projekata i ciljeva, a imate manje vremena za odnose. Glumite heroja ako vjerujete da možete spasiti situaciju, osobu, svijet.

Naši herojski impulsi najčešće se rađaju iz najboljih namjera. Želimo pomoći, želimo riješiti, želimo popraviti. Pa ipak, to je iluzija posebnosti, da smo jedini koji mogu ponuditi pomoć, uslugu, vještine. Ako mi to ne učinimo, nitko neće. Put ovog heroja ima samo jedno zajamčeno odredište - na kraju se osjećamo usamljeno, iscrpljeno i necijenjeno.

Vrijeme je da svi mi heroji idemo kući jer, ako to učinimo, primijetit ćemo da nismo sami. Okruženi smo ljudima baš poput nas. I oni žele doprinijeti, i oni imaju ideje, žele biti korisni drugima i rješavati vlastite probleme.

Istina je da ionako nikada nisu željeli da ih heroji spašavaju.

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Eithne Knappitsch Mar 15, 2026
I am delightfully surprised by some new insights I have gained here. Based on this reading, I have not been acting as the host leader I strive to be. I'm particularly impacted by one sentence, which is: "You're acting as a hero if you take on more and more projects and causes and have less time for relationships." This is certainly something that I am guilty of, while my intentions may be good by taking on projects that I feel are valuable, it's only now that I'm really thinking how this is indicative of a hero style leadership. I certainly need to take some time to think more deeply about how to do things differently.
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Eithne Knappitsch Mar 15, 2026
I am surprised and a little shocked by one line in this piece - "You're acting as a hero if you take on more and more projects and have less time for relationships". This is certainly something that I do. Even though my intentions may be good, and the projects valuable - the outcome is certainly less time for relationships. So I certainly need to take some time to think about how I can change this.

This is surprising and incredibly valuable. It's given me a new perspective on the idea of hero leadership. Actually, if I think about it, I strive to be a host leader, but have inner work to do. I need to think more deeply about how to do this differently.
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Aimee Adamec Mar 9, 2026
I am embarassed to say, that I feel that I have inadvertently stepped into the role of hero at my job and frankly I'm not good at it. It's not the role I want to play. I would much prefer to play the host and while I understand conceptually what's involved, I feel that I have been inadequate on cultivating the right environment. I look forward to learning more on how to become an effective host.
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Ulka Shukla Mar 9, 2026
As I write this I am laughing at the article and me, us
Look at the world...a leader as a bully
And look at us attempting tiny change ...in hope to do our bit and see
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Olga Mar 9, 2026
The concept of a "host leadership" has been applied in some organizations with varying degrees of success. However, I have noticed that even great concepts are still used with the underlying energy of extraction, manipulation or control that maintains status quo that pacifies, as opposed to addressing root causes of problems and making real change possible. Said another way, the "right" words are there but actions are not congruent. To me the real work lies in distilling the true intention and purpose, individual and collective, cultivating self- and systemic awareness, and practicing returning to it, every day.
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Alda Mar 9, 2026
Hosting leader: For me, it resonates and makes perfect sense: accountability, trust and a sense of community and belonging. When I think about how most leaders are, I ask myself how this can be changed. And yes, I understand that each one of us has to change. We have to start with ourselves. Here, I feel comfortable; I think I'm in my bubble. But those in power are so selfish and power-hungry that they will never give up their position or change their minds. I also think there are many people who want leaders and don't want responsibility, who believe that strong power can solve problems.
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Seema Mehta Mar 9, 2026
Very powerful paradigm shift. Lot to chew and heartwarming food for thought and action. Arigato!
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Stephanie Cornell Mar 9, 2026
So well said. These were words that spoke my intuitive intention in leading an organization that was within a controlling ecosystem. Control has so much lack of trust embedded in it and then people will understand they are not trusted and disengage. If I had had these words to describe my intention, it would have been easier to act out and explain.
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Nancy Sharer Mar 9, 2026
It’s terrific… I’m glad to hear it said so clearly.. I certainly belief it to be true…
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Anubha Mar 8, 2025
So liberating to read this and relieve an individual from the “burden” of having to do it all.
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Aruna Ramaswamy Mar 4, 2025
This bottom up model is very interesting and empowering... May be the need of the hr in the present state of affairs...
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Bob Mar 4, 2025
Many years ago I was an Air Force officer. Just out of college, commissioned as a second LT. I thought I was a "leader", because of my rank. I was assigned to an engine shop at Andrews AFB and it was mostly civilians that worked there with a minority of military sargeants, all of them mechanics. A big AF inspection was going to be given for the shop a few weeks later. I went in and tried to tell them. how to do their jobs- which they had been doing for years! I learned quickly when a senior sargeant took me aside and told me, "Lt. you need to back off. These civilians know more about their job thanh you ever will and the enlisted mechanics know almost as much. Give them space and they will make this the best shop on base". I got the message and instead of telling them how to do their job, I took the time to praise them for the work they were doing. We got an EXCELLENT on the Inspection.
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Tanishka Mar 4, 2025
It feels as though, somewhere in the back of my mind, I always understood the perilousness of the "hero" mindset. Yet, I have fallen prey to this mindset- ever so often imagining all the ways in which I could solve a problem or do better than someone else if only I had control and power in that situation. I realise now, that the desire for a utopic world arises from similar convictions- the belief that the world is simply a roll of thread that can be neatly un-entangled if the right person (myself) was given the chance. What folly!
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Bhupen Mehta Mar 3, 2025
What is happening every day now in the USA and its consequences worldwide is more than enough to show how corrupt and selfish are all of the elected representatives and politicians. This will need not one but millions of Gandhi and MLKs to stop and reverse this madness in DC by few very rich persons. May Hodge save us all!
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Bob Mar 4, 2025
I agree that there are corrupt and selfish officials, but I also know there are many who are doing their jobs to the best of their ability. Problem is we don't hear about them. WE only read about news when it is sensational and often tragic - that is what sells. The majority of people are doing what is right. See my input about being a 2nd LT. in the Air Force in the comment section.
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Aimee A Mar 3, 2025
I have worked with many "heroes" throughout my career, and they all seemed to embody the characteristics mentioned - hardworking, stoic, and determined yet it always seemed as though their areas never improved. They were always in firefighting mode. I appreciate the insights from this article and am concerned that I too have functioned as a hero on occasion. As I've progressed in my career I've definitely shifted into more of a host and am grateful to know that my leadership skills are progressing in a more helpful and sustainable way.
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john lee Mar 3, 2025
I recall early in my school days, our class was given an assignment "What do you want to be when you grow up?" I wrote simply Not a King. When asked why. My answer was too great a responsibility, reflecting the perception I had from storybooks I read. I must have known about the limitation of my capability somehow.
I love learning as I have an insatiable curiosity throughout my entire life, working, having a family, and volunteering. I certainly have leadership opportunities, gained experiences, contributed to organizations and stakeholders that I have served. I fully appreciate today's material and love to be a part of this POD's emergence with the hope that violence around the world will miraculously be transformed towards civility, kindness or compassion.
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Mark Foley Mar 3, 2025
On a macro level it's hard to believe Margaret's article was written in 2011. It's words and wisdom seem radically prescient given how todays leaders - especially political - are operating.

On a more micro (personal) level this article was a huge wake up call for me. With good intentions and clearly a lack of proper understanding I allowed myself to be duped by the false narrative of the hero's mindset in both my work life and family life. Now I understand where feelings of loneliness and exhaustion come from.

I need to read more, learn more about operating like a "host" and most importantly fully integrate that wisdom into my mindset and my actions. I'm truly blessed to have "leaders as host" role models in so many dear friends like many of you in this Pod and of course compassionate leaders like Nipun-bhai.
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Cheryl Mar 3, 2025
I concur. On both the macro. I think of the complexities that exist and having a quick answer as the hero doesn’t work. On the micro. I want to engage more of host persona. Being the hero no one wants is exhausting
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Ezekiel P. Guanbie Mar 3, 2025
What an insightful article! I love the statement that says "constantly we are barraged by politicians presenting themselves as heroes, the ones who will fix everything and make our problems go away. It’s a seductive image, an enticing promise. And we keep believing it". Just a little reflection that politics turn to enrichment of few people why the masses suffer hardship.

Instead of keep trusting them to be our heroes, we want to lead and become heroes ourselves.
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Sharmila Mar 3, 2025
We are all conditioned to be believe that we need to strive to become Heroes - The ones who lead, the ones who save the world, the ones who can fix everything. Shrugging off this conditioning and learning to be a host - that nurtures, loves and cares for all and supports a shift from dependency to independence and then interdependence and from passivity to activity and nurtures people to to create their own solutions is difficult, but not impossible. Once the core believes in the 'change' change becomes possible.
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Kajal rani sharma Mar 3, 2025
Insightful , the paragraph where it is written are you a hero ? Made me to self reflect on my actions.
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Allie Middleton Mar 3, 2025
A wonderful reminder of the importance of how the quality of our attention creates matter
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Ariunaa Mar 3, 2025
The leadership style is shifting towards a more collaborative, adaptive approach, which is good. As a teacher, it can be applied by shifting from being the sole authority in the classroom to facilitating student-led learning.
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Karen John Mar 3, 2025
If only ... haven't trusted politicians for years, but yes, we can start The journey to be our own hero .
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Karen John Mar 3, 2025
If only ... haven't trusted politicians for years, but yes, we can start The journey to be our own hero .
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Nomita Mehta Mar 2, 2025
This idea is in real play with prime Minister Modi. I was in Prayagraj indua just last week and was sharing my experience and a senior govt employee apparently was at our guesthouse. He approached me, introduced himself and that he works directly with pmModi. Then he asked me to share this reflection on all pm modi’s social media channels ( which his assistant gave me immediately). Finally he asked for my email address after I expressed my deep desire to work with Pm modi . This is such a real life example of a hosting PM leader. This story immediately clicked this understanding in me.
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Chris Wilson Oct 24, 2014
Good article. Clearly there is a shift taking place in the mechanisms being used to coordinate collective activity.However, when you have to add so many adjectives and descriptive nuances to leadership, maybe you should use a different word. I mean the behaviours of 'hero' and 'host' are radically different and largely incompatible. I looked up leadership once in HBR and found over 50 different variations defined. Some of them were related to your 'hero', white knight depiction; others were describing various dysfunctional, psychopathic or criminal forms of leadership; and some described more the 'host' idea you've used above. Clearly the term leadership has become a meaningless grab bag expression for any behaviour someone wants to ascribe to it.Nevertheless, when the term is used, my experience is that, irregardless of the adjective you put in front of it, people understand 'leadership' in terms of the person who has the answers, has control of the knowledge, resources and power to ... [View Full Comment]
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Miguel Aug 29, 2014

Wonderful insightful writing...giving me confirmation and courage to keep on stepping up and journeying this adventure into servant leadership. Thank you. x

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CJ Anderson Aug 28, 2014

The last paragraph needs to be the first. I run a non-profit agency (Empty Bowl Pet Food Pantry) FULL of volunteers who are disabled in some way who have decided to become Heroes to others anyway they are able!