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Furaha Ya Kutoa Kubwa

Jeff Kaufman na Julia Wise ni wanandoa wachanga wanaoishi Boston. Jeff ni mhandisi wa programu katika Google na Julia ni mfanyakazi wa kijamii. Kwa miaka michache iliyopita wamekuwa wakitoa karibu asilimia 60 ya mapato yao ya baada ya ushuru kwa mashirika ya misaada yanayofanya kazi kupunguza umaskini na kuokoa maisha katika nchi zinazoendelea. Licha ya mapato ya pamoja katika takwimu sita, wanatumia kidogo zaidi ya $ 15,000 / mwaka kwa wenyewe. Tangu 2008 wametoa zaidi ya $250,000.

Hiyo ni pesa nyingi, na inaonekana kama dhabihu kubwa. Lakini wanasisitiza kuwa sivyo. Katika blogu yake, Julia anaandika, "Vitu tunavyopenda zaidi--kutumia wakati na familia na marafiki, kutengeneza muziki, kucheza dansi, kupika, kusoma-ni vitu tunavyoweza kufanya kwa bajeti ndogo. Ikiwa tungetoa kidogo, tungetumia zaidi kujijali wenyewe lakini labda tusingekuwa na furaha zaidi." Anasema kwamba kutoa ni mojawapo ya mambo muhimu zaidi katika maisha yake, na anafanya hivyo kwa sababu anaamini kwamba "watu - watu wote, hata watu wa mbali - hawapaswi kuteseka na kufa bila sababu."

Ninashiriki imani hiyo. Utoaji wangu umepungua ikilinganishwa na ule wa Jeff na Julia, lakini bado nilifaulu kutoa takriban asilimia 11 ya mapato yangu mwaka jana, sehemu kubwa yake kwa mashirika ya misaada yanayofanya kazi kuokoa au kuboresha maisha katika nchi zinazoendelea. Na ninapanga kutoa zaidi.

Nilichogundua ni kwamba kutoa kubwa ni tofauti. Unapotoa mchango muhimu, kuna hisia ya kuchangia dhamira, ya kuleta athari inayoonekana, ya kujisikia kama unathaminiwa. Si lazima utoe mengi ili kuleta mabadiliko: inagharimu takriban senti 30 pekee za dawa ya minyoo kwa mtoto nchini India au Kenya, kwa mfano, na gharama ya kununua na kusambaza chandarua dhidi ya malaria nchini Malawi au Jamhuri ya Kidemokrasia ya Kongo ni kati ya dola 5 hadi 7.50. Lakini ikiwa unaweza kumudu kuongeza idadi hiyo kwa kutoa zaidi, unaweza kusaidia kuboresha maisha ya mamia au hata maelfu ya watu. Tumia Kikokotoo cha Athari za Usaidizi cha Maisha Unayoweza Kuokoa ili kuona ni watu wangapi unaoweza kuwasaidia kwa mchango uliotolewa.

Nilipoamua kwa mara ya kwanza kuanza kutoa kubwa zaidi, falsafa yangu ilikuwa "nipe mpaka inaumiza." Lakini ninaitazama kwa njia tofauti sasa. Katika mwongo mmoja uliopita, nimejitahidi kuchunguza mali zangu, mazoea yangu, na mtindo wangu wa maisha nikiwa na lengo la kuondoa mambo ambayo sihitaji au yasiyoniletea furaha. Matokeo yake ni kwamba vitu vingi ninavyomiliki au kufanya maishani mwangu vipo kwa sababu nilichagua kwa makusudi kuviweka (au kuendelea kuvifanya). Hilo hunifurahisha, jambo ambalo linapunguza hamu ya kununua vitu vingi zaidi na zaidi, kwa sababu ninaridhika na nilichonacho. Ninaweza kutoa zaidi, kwa sababu ninatamani kidogo.

Unapotumia mchakato huu kwa nyanja zote za maisha yako, inakusogeza kwenye kile Julia Wise alichoeleza hapo juu: unagundua kwamba huhitaji kutumia pesa nyingi kupata furaha na raha. Hata kwenye kipato cha kawaida unaweza kujikuta una pesa iliyobaki kwa ajili ya kutoa bila kujiona umejitolea. Mwanafalsafa Toby Ord alifanya kitu kama hiki alipofikiria ni kiasi gani cha pesa ambacho angehitaji kila mwaka ili kufadhili maisha rahisi lakini ya starehe, na kisha akaahidi hadharani kutoa kila kitu alichopata zaidi ya kiasi hicho kwa misaada inayofaa kila mwaka kwa maisha yake yote ya kazi.

Sio kila mtu anayeweza kumudu kutoa kubwa: unahitaji kupata mapato mazuri au kutafuta njia za kuishi chini ya uwezo wako. Chaguo hizo hazipatikani kwetu sote. Lakini kama Julia Wise anavyoandika , "Si lazima uwe tajiri ili uwe mkarimu. Inaweza kuwa rahisi kwa watu walio na lundo la pesa, lakini wale wetu ambao tunapaswa kufikiria kuhusu kodi ya nyumba na mboga bado tunaweza kufanya mengi. Bibi yangu alichangia asilimia 10 ya mapato yake kwa muda wote aliodhibiti pesa zake mwenyewe, hata alipokuwa akiishi kwa hundi ya hifadhi ya jamii."

Kwangu mimi, inahusiana na hili: Kuna mambo mengine mengi ninayoweza kufanya kwa pesa ninazotoa kwa mashirika ya usaidizi yenye ufanisi kila mwaka. Lakini ninaweza kufikiria jambo lolote bora zaidi la kufanya nayo? Hapana. Inahisi kama matumizi bora ya pesa zangu. Nina furaha zaidi kutoa kubwa kuliko kuishi kubwa.

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Priscilla King Dec 7, 2015
No matter how low one's income is, it's always possible to give something...but it's been slipping down into what North Americans call poverty that's made me commit to giving to individuals on a give-and-take basis, rather than either taking or giving handouts from "programs." "Programs" that go beyond disaster relief seem to have an unintended consequence of training people to think, and define themselves, into a Giver Class and a Taker Class--which is very bad for both--rather than bonding through an individual or community-level give-and-take."Programs" also tend to have an industrial-assembly-line approach to problems. That's fine if the goal is to dispense treatment in one epidemic, like the worm treatment discussed in the article, or the surgeries discussed in the comment below. It's not so fine once people start thinking about "health care" in general, since the people in the target population are individuals with different needs, and what helps one won't necessarily help anothe... [View Full Comment]
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Karen Anderson Dec 7, 2015

One year I gave $250 to an organization that does surgeries on babies with cleft palate. The group's materials said this was the amount one surgery cost. I felt so, so good that I changed one person's life -- permanently!
I live very simply on a small income. My husband and I drive ancient vehicles and live in a home that resembles a chicken coop from the outside. That was the most I have ever given to one group, and at the time I felt compelled to do it, even though it was a lot of money for me.

The afterglow has lasted for years. Giving big -- whatever that means of each of us -- is so rewarding!

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Kristin Pedemonti Dec 5, 2015

Here's to giving, large or small. It makes a difference. And agreed, here's to living more simply. One of the best decisions I ever made was selling my small home and most of my possessions to create/facilitate a volunteer literacy project in Belize. Through that choice I was able to serve 33,000 students and train 800 teachers. That experience opened up so many doors to other volunteering adventures collecting and sharing people's real life stories of hope, innovation and overcoming adversity. I chose to live under the poverty line for 9 years and I felt absolutely rich! Thank you to all those who choose to serve others and to share their gifts: whether time and talents or monetarily! Hugs from my heart to yours!