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走在这儿，巴拉巴拉——再说一遍，那孩子穿着短裤，现在是夏天，他没穿上衣。你能看到他穿了什么。另一个孩子坐在那儿，看着这一切。然后大概有15、17个警察过来了。</p><p>最后，一个警察走过来问我：“出什么事了？”我说：“你在开玩笑吧？（<em>笑</em>）我们现在在芝加哥，就在拉昆被枪击的那个区。警官，我打算坐下来观察一下，确保事态不会不必要地升级。我没看到有什么威胁。”</p><p>但汽车可以呼啸而过，使这种紧张和体验变得正常化——我想我曾经有过类似的经历，虽然程度轻得多，就是被扔上警车，在第八区因扰乱治安被捕，以及这意味着什么——当警察在法庭上直接撒谎，谎称他们与你的遭遇，然后你被判有罪时，你会经历的那种非同寻常、非人道和令人愤怒的体验。</p><p>但我确实认为，在那些时刻——就像克丽丝塔提出的问题一样——我的脑海中浮现出对这种经历的真实感受。你如何让自己更接近痛苦？反过来想，我们这些接近痛苦的人，如何才能不变得麻木，不陷入绝望和对和解可能性的愤世嫉俗？而且，我认为有一些精神层面的方法和工具可以帮助我们。</p><p>对我而言，至少在穆斯林传统中，绝望是如此的反义词。事实上，“绝望”一词——“balasa”是“绝望”的词根，从词源学上讲，它与“Iblis”（即“撒旦”）直接相关。因此，黑暗、绝望以及屈服于无法看清事物的困境——这些概念在穆斯林传统中被反复提及，你必须向穆斯林讲述这些故事，即使是在像巴以冲突这样看似棘手的问题上。这些故事讲述了在先知穆罕默德时代，人们曾兵戎相见，有人杀害他的家人，有人屠杀无辜者，但最终却找到了和解之道，如同兄弟姐妹一般。所以，从你的视角来看，这或许听起来有些过于乐观，但这却是传统不可或缺的一部分。和解是传统的一部分。如果你对此是真诚的，你就必须继续努力，而不要因为已经到了不可能的地步而感到绝望。</p><p> [<em>音乐：《圣罗莎·利马》，演唱者：水星计划乐队</em>]</p><p><b>蒂佩特女士：</b>我是克丽斯塔·蒂佩特，这里是<em>《论存在》</em> 。今天，我们邀请到了国际和解团契的卢卡斯·约翰逊牧师和芝加哥市内穆斯林行动网络的拉米·纳沙什比。</p><p> [<em>音乐：《圣罗莎·利马》，演唱者：水星计划乐队</em>]</p><p><b>蒂佩特女士：</b>我想以谈谈爱来结束今天的演讲。事实上，我最近在读马丁·路德·金1967年的演讲，他在演讲中说：“黑暗无法驱散黑暗，只有光明才能做到。我要告诉你们，我也决定坚持爱，因为我知道爱最终是解决人类问题的唯一答案，我会在任何地方谈论它。我知道在当今某些圈子里谈论爱并不受欢迎”——现在也不受欢迎——然后他说：“我谈论爱时，不是指那些感性的废话。我谈论的是一种强烈而坚定的爱，我见过太多的仇恨。我在南方警长的脸上看到了太多的仇恨。我在太多三K党成员和太多白人公民委员会成员的脸上看到了仇恨，以至于我自己都不想再恨他们，因为每次我看到仇恨，我知道它会在他们的脸上和性格上留下痕迹，我告诉自己，仇恨是太沉重的负担了。”就在过去的几分钟里，我感觉弄清楚“强烈的、要求很高的爱”在公共场合是什么，也是我们的工作。</p><p>我觉得，从文化层面来说，我们已经给身边的仇恨命名了。我们已经给它命名了。我们公开谴责它。我们围绕它建立了法律分类。这就产生了一种悖论——我认为这不仅仅是一个契机和邀请，更是一种责任，让我们以同样的方式审视爱，如果他是对的，爱是唯一足以驱散仇恨的力量。我想我们其实都明白这一点。我无法从政治或科学的角度证明这一点——但这是事实。我们都知道。但是，这种强大而执着的爱究竟是什么？它有哪些特质？我们又该如何让它成为现实？我觉得你们两位正在经历这一切，那么你们从中领悟到了什么？</p><p> [<em>笑声</em>]</p><p><b>约翰逊牧师：</b>作为一名穆斯林，我觉得现在轮到你发言了。</p><p> [<em>笑声</em>]</p><p><b>纳沙希比先生：</b>哦，轮到我了。好的，我来回答。我想我会从两个方面来思考这个问题，并尽量简明扼要地回答。第一，或许可以继续谈谈马丁·路德·金，以及他最后的遗言——我把这些话发给了我们所有的组织者，因为我们开展各种组织培训，而每个人在培训中，尤其是在灵性社群中，都会对“权力”这个词感到困惑。我们谈到，组织者需要建立一种毫不妥协的权力。你不能把权力与“权力使人腐败”和“绝对的权力绝对使人腐败”混为一谈。“我们为什么想要权力？我们是灵性民族”——不。你需要权力。权力——行动的能力，把事情做好的能力。</p><p>最后那篇文章最精彩之处在于，金指出，最大的、截然相反的、二元对立的误解之一，就是将爱与权力对立起来。他想表达的是，我们的爱需要驱使我们去建立力量，去建立能力，去推动一项基于更美好世界愿景的议程。所以我认为，在某种程度上，这种表达方式——因为在同一篇文章中，他谈到没有权力的爱是不感伤的——</p><p><b>蒂佩特女士：</b>嗯，从我们的文化角度来看，我们知道仇恨的力量很强大。我们崇尚仇恨的力量。但我们并不认为爱——我们不会把这两者联系起来，认为它们同样强大——尽管在我们的生活中，我们知道爱的力量是强大的。</p><p><b>纳沙希比先生：</b>我认为他从非常实际的角度谈论了如何建立真正的议程、联盟和联盟来维持运动。</p><p>所以我认为确实存在这一点，我认为公共领域的爱在于，我们是否足够爱那些直接受到影响的人，包括我们自己，从而愿意做出牺牲，建立集体力量来改变现实？我认为这对我们所有人来说都是一个非常重要的问题，不仅关乎那些比较容易讨论的话题，也关乎一些更复杂的社会问题，这些问题在某种程度上与我们每个人都息息相关。</p><p>我认为这与我理解的爱的另一个层面也相关，那就是精神层面的、更具抱负的、更难实现的爱。我再次想到了一段圣训，一段先知的格言，它说：（<em>用阿拉伯语说</em>）：“远离尘世，远离世俗。不要如此沉迷于这个世界。要进行真正与现实相符的灵性修行，理解我们最终都会与造物主相遇，这个世界非常短暂，如果你真正扎根于这种理解，你就能获得神圣的爱。” 如果你做到了这一点，那么——第二部分是：“不要仅仅为了追赶他人的财富。” 换句话说，如果你真的——如果你的存在不仅仅是与他人进行物质竞争，那么在我们现代现实的背景下，这意味着什么？我们活着不仅仅是为了赢得选票；我们并非仅仅为了某种特定利益而努力——而是出于对人民的真诚奉献。如果你不只是觊觎人民的财富，你就能赢得人民的爱戴。</p><p>而且，我觉得——我们有一句格言。每天早上，我们都会聚在一起，和一些18到25岁的年轻人，也就是刑满释放人员，大概35个人。我们总是说：“听着，我们只想要你们一件事，就一件事。”——他们现在都明白了；他们会说——“你们在今生的成功，以及你们作为一个有志于追求更高境界的人的精神上的成功。” 而爱的语境——看到人们——我们经常谈论，尤其是在那些被有毒的男子气概彻底麻木的人们之间——能够说出“我爱你”，这意义非凡。</p><p>前几天，我去银行，一个年轻小伙子看到我出来。我们当时正跟他开玩笑，他喊着：“拉米，撒钱吧，撒钱吧。”我们正要出银行。然后——这孩子是我认识很多年的邻居，他眼神很坚定。我离开的时候，他看着我说：“兄弟，我爱你。”我看着他，说：“哇，我真没想到你会这么说。”他说：“我知道，兄弟。”</p><p> [<em>笑声</em>]</p><p>对我来说，那一刻就是“哇”的震撼。我走进去，他们就说：“我们现在天天都说‘我爱你’。我可以这么说，而且我是真心实意的。” 我觉得，虽然这听起来有时可能有点老套，但看到作品背后的动力——对我而言，是真挚的情感——真的很有力量。爱是真挚的，是真实的，我认为，这正是维系人与人之间真实情感联系的关键所在。</p><p><b>约翰逊牧师：</b>所以我不应该让你先来。</p><p> [<em>笑声</em>]</p><p>不，但我想起了这个故事。在和解团契（Fellowship of Reconciliation，简称FOR）内部，一直存在着这样一种情况——你之前也提到过。当时还没有“非暴力”这个概念，所以它最初是由一群出于良心拒服兵役的人发起的，他们说：“我们的信仰不允许我们杀人；我们不能参与战争。”但他们继续努力，试图找到践行非暴力的方式。他们谈到了爱的行动。因此，当FOR的早期领导人前往印度会见甘地，并试图将甘地的策略运用到美国的种族正义斗争中时，大约在1946年，也就是“和解之旅”（Journey of Reconciliation，第一次“自由乘车运动”）之前，该组织内部就此展开了一场辩论。辩论的焦点在于，通过乘坐种族融合的巴士南下，是否真的会激怒南方人，从而导致他们的道德受到伤害。换句话说，如果我们做了某种具有挑衅性的事情，这是否符合我们的信念？</p><p> AJ Muste、Bayard Rustin 等人的回答是：不；我们所做的，是邀请南方人，邀请种族隔离主义者做出回应，我们是在给他们照镜子。这是你能做的最充满爱意的事，让人们直面他们犯下这些暴力行为后变成的模样。这样做的目的是希望人们能够成为他们认为自己应该成为的人。</p><p>那是一件充满爱意的事，但对我来说，这也是难点之一，因为我们的文化如此注重惩罚和惩罚措施，我们总想惩罚那些做过错事的人。我们很少谈及这样一个事实：我们生来就没有作恶的欲望。或许这涉及到神学问题，需要讨论，但我并不认同这种观点。</p><p>我认为爱的力量——它既是一种内在的力量——对AJ Muste来说，另一个例子是，他当时正在参加纠察线示威，一位记者走过来问他：“Muste先生，您认为您的示威活动会改变这个国家吗？”他回答说：“年轻人，我参加示威活动是为了不让我的国家改变我。”所以我认为，我们有责任坚守我们所知的真爱的力量，不让周遭的世界扼杀我们内心的爱。我认为这真的很有诱惑力。不让这种爱在我们心中消亡，是我们能够以这种方式与他人互动的原因之一，但这并非易事。</p><p><b>蒂佩特女士：</b>不过，我的感觉是——也许这是我个人的看法——我们使用的语言的力量，以及用“爱”来形容这些事物的力量。如果人们觉得，“哦，那我必须成为一名行动主义者吗？”——这就有问题了。但是“我是一个爱人吗？我爱这个世界吗？我爱我的孩子吗？我知道其他人也爱他们的孩子吗？以及我希望我的孩子拥有什么吗？”——对吧？所以对我来说，这才是真正强大的力量。</p><p>卢卡斯，我想知道你是不是也对文森特·哈丁说过类似的话。最后我想说——你们都很棒，让我感到兴奋的是，你们都在做自己该做的事，这里每个人都在做自己该做的事，我们都在参与对话。这是一项我们正在经历和参与的进行中的工作。</p><p>你能看清吗？字迹很淡。</p><p><b>约翰逊牧师：</b>等等，这是我写的关于文森特叔叔的事。</p><p> [<em>笑声</em>]</p><p><b>蒂佩特女士：</b>是的。你可以——</p><p> [<em>笑声</em>]</p><p><b>约翰逊牧师：</b>起初，我以为你是说这本书是他写的。</p><p><b>蒂佩特女士：</b>不，是你写的。你也可以用你自己的、现在的语言来表达。</p><p><b>约翰逊牧师：</b>不，文森特·哈丁也是如此，他是我亲爱的导师和朋友，我很想念他。“他能看透我们，他遇到的每一个人。他看到的不是我们自身的刻板印象，也不是我们意识形态的束缚，更不是恐惧蒙蔽了我们的双眼。他能看到我们命中注定要成为的样子：更完整的人。他用他敏锐的洞察力帮助我们认识自己，也认识彼此。”</p><p><b>蒂佩特女士：</b>卢卡斯·约翰逊、拉米·纳沙什比，谢谢你们。</p><p> [<em>掌声</em>]</p><p> [<em>音乐：Ovum 的《Brilliant Lies》</em> ]</p><p><b>蒂佩特女士：</b>卢卡斯·约翰逊牧师是国际和解团契的协调员，该团契是世界上历史最悠久的跨宗教和平组织。他也是“存在之道”（On Being）项目的研究员。</p><p>拉米·纳沙什比是内城穆斯林行动网络的创始人和执行董事，也是 2017 年麦克阿瑟奖获得者。</p><p> [<em>音乐：Ovum 的《Brilliant Lies》</em> ]</p><p><b>员工：</b> <em>On Being 的成员</em>包括 Chris Heagle、Lily Percy、Mariah Helgeson、Maia Tarrell、Marie Sambilay、Erinn Farrell、Laurén Dørdal、Tony Liu、Bethany Iverson、Erin Colasacco、Kristin Lin、Profit Idowu、Casper ter Kuile、Angie Thurston、Sue Phillips、Eddie Gonzalez、Lilian Vo、Damon Lee 和 Jeffrey Bissoy。</p><p><b>蒂佩特女士：</b>本周特别感谢出色的 1440 Multiversity 团队，特别是 Susan Freddie、Susan Coles、Janna Smith、Michelle MacNamara、Steve Seabock、Avery Laurin、Joshua Greene 和 David Dunning；还有我们优秀的同事 Zack Rose。</p><p>我们优美的主题曲由佐伊·基廷创作并演唱。而每集片尾字幕中你听到的最后一个声音，则是嘻哈歌手莉佐演唱的。</p><p> <em>《On Being》</em>由美国公共媒体制作。我们的资助伙伴包括：</p><p>乔治家族基金会支持公民对话项目。</p><p>费策尔研究所致力于为充满爱的世界奠定精神基础。访问<a href="http://fetzer.org/">fetzer.org</a>了解更多信息。</p><p> Kalliopeia 基金会致力于创造一个以普世精神价值观为基础，关爱我们共同家园的未来。</p><p> Humanity United 致力于在国内和世界各地提升人类尊严。了解更多信息，请访问 humanityunited.org，该组织隶属于奥米迪亚集团。</p><p>亨利·卢斯基金会支持“重新构想公共神学”。</p><p>鱼鹰基金会，致力于促进人们拥有充满力量、健康和充实的生活。</p><p>还有礼来基金会，这是一个总部位于印第安纳波利斯的私人家族基金会，致力于其创始人对宗教、社区发展和教育的兴趣。</p> </div> </div>    <div class="inline-share-icons border-0 mt-0 pt-0"> <div class="d-flex align-items-center"> <span class="me-3 fw-semibold">Share this story:</span> <div> <a href="http://www.facebook.com/sharer.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.dailygood.org%2Fstory%2F2063%2Fgetting-proximate-to-pain-and-holding-the-power-of-love-on-being%2F" target="_blank" class="share-icon" aria-label="Share on Facebook"> <i class="fab fa-facebook-f"></i> 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